Are looks more important than personality?

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I think in a way it is because without looks or being attractive, you'll never get your foot through the front door and thus personality, character & confidence become useless or counter intuitive. I get it, it matters because as humans we're hardwired to want to have sex with good looking people. So since that's the case, the personality is secondary importance

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cherryblossomXD | 148 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Looks are important for getting your foot in the door, but personality matters for you to be interested enough to stay in the room. Without looks, you won't really be interested in seeing what the room is like. But if someone advertisers whats inside their room, people may be attracted to that no matter what the outside of the room may be. When you are in a relationship, you spend most of your time in the room. It makes sense to care more about what is in the room slightly more than how the room appears from the outside.

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Answer 2

OldiebutaGoodie

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Depends, is the person unappealing because lack of hygiene or interest in maintaining a clean approach look or just not your preferred type (appearance wise). But personality always is a must the flaws will become perfect

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Tyrael | 352 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Definitely, particularly in today's society. Everyone is obsessed with appearance, and not just physical appearance but even down to the brand of clothing you choose to wear. Your height alone can dictate whether or not someone gives you a second glance.

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Dinklex3 | 618 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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They're both equally important.
At least to me.

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One is more important though. Physical atrraction by a hair
Dinklex3

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To you.
Asker

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Humans can deny it but that's how our brains work. Physical attraction is the first thing people notice thus it's the important step
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Dinklex3

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I never said it wasn't important. I said it was just as important as personality. I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to and I'm not going to fate someone who treats me like shit either regardless of how attractive they are.
Dinklex3

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Human nature was designed to be cruel lol

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Asker

One is more important though. Physical atrraction by a hair

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Dinklex3

To you.

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Asker

Humans can deny it but that's how our brains work. Physical attraction is the first thing people notice thus it's the important step

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Dinklex3

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I never said it wasn't important. I said it was just as important as personality. I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to and I'm not going to fate someone who treats me like shit either regardless of how attractive they are.

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Dinklex3

Date**

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Asker

Human nature was designed to be cruel lol

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Quackthulu

Guru

No, they are both mandatory.

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But one is more important. And looks are more important
Quackthulu

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Then you just admitted that your only goal is sex and that you don’t have the personality to be worth dating.