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Though that's a very RATIONAL thing to say, people are not machines and they have feelings that get hurt by rejection. Maybe Keanu is a guru and can go sit on his cloud and OHMMMMM his stress away. Most people cannot. And it's not that people get MAD. They get HURT. That is a combination of sadness and disappointment. Not anger. Anger might be a component, but it's not the lion's share of how people feel after rejection. Anger might be the LAST thing one feels after accepting the fact that they've been dumped. "WELL, TO HELL WITH HIM!!!" Which is the appropriate FINAL reaction. Then you feel done with the person and situation and can move on.
I never got mad about being rejected. I felt kind of stupid for putting myself out there but you never know unless you try. I definitely don't want someone who doesn't want me.
Because very few people have a degree of self awareness (and I speak from experience lol).. so people mistake kindness/friendship for more than it should be as they are not mature/intelligent enough (again I count myself as one of these people) to realise that rejection is not necessarily a personal attack but just a natural result of evolution and independent thought.
It can be both it could be an ego busied or just being hurt by not getting the chance. other time it more about online that lot people get upset over. just they called snowflake for reason.
A combination of reasons I guess, but like someone else said, we're not machines and have feelings and sometimes when they get hurt, people react in different ways.
Probably just venting, might've taken a lot out of them to talk to you to begin with and when they are rejected, they feel lost, afraid and invalidated. Probably also means they weren't ready for a relationship to begin with.
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