8 d

He said he wants space? But I haven't seen him since August? I'm pregnant with his child also? he's messing with my head? Please help?

Anonymous
so im 26 he's 27, we were only together 2 months and yes I fell pregnant. He wanted an abortion from day 1, but I dont agree with them so i said no. I told him he was free to leave me if thats what he wanted. Ever since I told him I was pregnant he just completely changed, he broke up with me when I was 3 months. But kept in touch, and kept asking me to go out to his and spend the night etc, but i didn't because he lives 2 hours away and from the day we met i was the one travelling to his. He never came to my house, we never even had a date to be honest. (I know, pathetic, my fault) last time I seen him was August, his behaviour changed, he stopped contacting me, never wants to see me, doesn't make plans, but he tells me "oh I do want to be with you, your just asking way to much from me, expecting me to drive to yours after work when I'm tired just to see u" but he expects me to travel on public transport for 2 hours pregnant. he's been very mean to me, i feel like he's messing with my head. he's telling me he wants to be with me but then doesn't show it. Doesn't see me or even text me back or answer his phone if I call him. I asked him last night was he seeing someone eles and to tell me if he is so i can move on, he said no i just want space from you. I asked him "am I wasting my time?" And he ignored my WhatsApp and never text me back. I understand the pregnancy was a shock to him, but it was to me also. Iv been alone this whole pregnancy and its hard to cope, especially when he's treating me like this. he's let me down so many times tells me he will meet me on the weekends then all of a sudden he says his "car broke down" and I dont see him. I told him the gender of the baby, he just said "congrats"
I have great support from friends and family.
What should I do with him? Thanks x
He said he wants space? But I haven't seen him since August? I'm pregnant with his child also? he's messing with my head? Please help?
2
3
Add Opinion