I'm 25, but I feel older. I really want to settle down, get married and start a family. I understand that I have to date first before getting to that point. But dating isn't something I'm good at. I always attract guys who don't have my best interest in mind. These past few years I have been involved in various charity events, community activities and I have even been involved in my church... I just don't seem to attract the guys who are looking for the same thing I am. I always attract guys who don't take me seriously and they want to use me.