Is it a bad sign if a woman would rather have fun and party then take care of her kids?

[Vviiccttoorr]

Nah bro, you do not want to be with a woman who does something like that with her kids because what does that say about her? Also what future future is there with her? I mean it’s one thing if here and there she has somebody babysit so she could hang out with friends but if she’s the type to just go partying all while her kids are sitting home needing a mother then no of course not man. There are plenty of women out there; there’s no need to settle with someone who clearly is not yet fit to be a mother.

[rjroy3]

Not exclusively but I'd have her in my life. It's normal for parents to want to maintain a life outside their children. If she's paying for a babysitter and spending quality time with her child other times then all the more power to her.

Won't fault a young single mother for partying. I would fault a mother for not also being their when her child needs her because she's too busy partying tho. That's another thing

[pleasestopthis]

Yes, it's a bad sign. When you have a kid your priorities change and caring for your child becomes more important than partying everyday. Leaving the kid with grandma is okay a couple of times, not if it's a regular thing.
I label such a woman as a highly immature and irresponsible person, and that turns me off. I had a baby sibling when I was 12, and I helped taking care of her and it helped me mature so I really don't understand when people in their 20s behave like this.

[Anonymous]

Honey, it is your age and what you should be doing. We all felt that way to some degree if we had kids that young. You just bite the bullet and keep trucking along and make that baby your BFF and it won’t be but a couple months, those thoughts will leave. Your instinct and love of your child takes over and you’ll let the rest go. Well, that’s most females anyways.

[I_Am_Sazerac]

Definitely a huge red flag. It's good do have fun and party sometimes, but if you have children you also need to split your priorities. Hell of expect the same out of a father. You brought new life to the world, now it's time to get your priorities straight. Party and have fun at scheduled times if you need a break.

[hellacray]

Lol hell no if I were you I'd stay far away from her.

She had kids at a young age and she's still partying? Nothing good is going to come out of a relationship with that woman.

[Jess1812]

No woman starts off as super mom. She's young and immature, ofc she wants to go party.

[Anonymous]

There's nothing wrong with it. Not everyone has to have kids. Flip it around, is it a bad sign if a man would rather have fun than settle down and have kids? No, absolutely not!

[Dchrls78104]

Yes, it's VERY bad. No, I wouldn't date her. Trash belongs in the dustbin, not in a man's house.

[Liam_Hayden]

It is a sign of irresponsibility and no, I would not date her if I knew.

[Anonymous]

The red flags are flying on this. Hell yes it is a bad sign, her kids are her own flesh and blood. You ain't, how do you think she will treat you? This sounds like my fuckin ex-wife.

[KrakenAttackin]

It's an extraordinarily bad sign.

[updog45]

No I would stay far away

[ColHathi]

Bad sign.

[I-have-a-biscuit]

Yikes, no

[Dave31989]

i would not