And how do you figure that out?
Listen to what they are saying. You will hear in the conversation that they find you attractive or they want to go out with you without explicitly saying it.After a while there are so many of these you just kind of know it's time to ask. If you don't, they start to wonder if your really interested or not.The more open women will generally ask you out. The more reserved will wait.
How do you hear that in the conversation. Can you give examples?
I'll try. I don't want to use an actual conversation without their permission.A lot will be in the details, like agreeing with a lot of what you say or mention. Small comments like I like that", "your so sweet", "why haven't I met you before this", or "you're so amazing" and "you're to good to be true".It's collective. No one comment alone means anything. You need a bunch of them.Hints of the type of guy she likes, and it sounds very much like things you mentioned earlier.You ask for an opinion on what she likes and you get that "maybe" where the voice rises at the end. It's pretty much a flirty yes without saying yes.You put all this together and there is a good chance she's attracted to you.
Pretty much, if a woman likes you she will tell you or show you everything you need to know to win her over.Any lady reading this correct me if I'm wrong.
Even if she’s shy?
Even if she's shy. If she is attracted to you she will hint what she likes.It's a little tricky with shy ones because their hints can be vailed. To uncover those you need to talk to her and she needs to feel comfortable talking to you.
So does that mean if you get to know her relatively well and she never texts you first or makes plans with you first, she doesn’t like you in that way? even if she agrees to meet with you every weekend?
It may. It could also mean she isn't sure what you want or how you see her. You have to let her know.That "confidence" everyone talks about. Look at it as taking a risk.Your willing to take a risk to ask her out and let her know your attracted.
Just yesterday I asked a very attractive woman I had been talking to for several days if she was considering going out with me. I told her I was considering her and I was attracted.She's talking to someone else. So it can't happen. There's other factors as well. It's no big deal. We still talk and have great conversation on just about everything.
Days is good. In my case I feel like I’ve blown it as I’ve known her for years. I’ve only liked her for a few months and have been seeing each other alone every week but we just hang out as friends basically now. She used to show signs of interest but less and less now.
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