Should I ask him out or should I wait for his move?

Question

Hi, I've been chatting with one of my classmates for a month because we have online lessons and we've never met in person. I have crush on him and I think he is interested, because we chat everyday about anything. We live in different cities. I would like to meet him and see what he's like in real life, but I am not sure if I should make this step first. What do you think about girl asking the boy on a date first? Is it inappropriate?

Answer 1

TheAfrikan | 297 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Basically some men hate it. But break the barrier and spill out ya beans into his face.
Tell him that you feel his vibe and that you feel like you love him crazy.

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Thank you for your opinion :)
TheAfrikan

1 mo
@cloudwanderer you are welcome dear. We live a life of chances so take that chance when you can.☺

Answer 2

cloudwanderer

Thank you for your opinion :)

Answer 3

TheAfrikan

@cloudwanderer you are welcome dear. We live a life of chances so take that chance when you can.☺

Answer 4

Avicenna | 8.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

It’s perfectly OK for you to ask him out. Take the initiative

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Thank you :)

Answer 5

cloudwanderer

Thank you :)

Answer 6

Anonymous

There's nothing wrong with a girl making the first move! Go for it

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Thank you! :)
Opinion Owner

1 mo
You're welcome hon!

Answer 7

cloudwanderer

Thank you! :)

Answer 8

Opinion Owner

You're welcome hon!

Answer 9

Kooma24

Xper 3

I think you should go for it. You have nothing to lose. Have you dropped hints that you are interested in him?

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Yes I have, few times it looked like he's going to make the move and then nothing happened. But I'll try, thanks :)

Answer 10

cloudwanderer

Yes I have, few times it looked like he's going to make the move and then nothing happened. But I'll try, thanks :)

Answer 11

JayLiche | 414 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Ask him
he’ll appreciate it, it’ll make it seem like you aren’t afraid to go after what you want.

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Thank you for your opinion :)

Answer 12

cloudwanderer

Thank you for your opinion :)

Answer 13

morganlove | 127 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

Honey, that being inappropriate went out the window before you were born. Roll on and ask away

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Hi, I know, but I don't want to look like I'm chasing him or something, plus all those "man should feel like a man" and "let him wait" and stuff.. it's different online, if I could see him at school, I would know more from his behaviour and gestures. But thank you for your opinion :)
morganlove

1 mo
Try making it sound like a study session or something along those lines.

Answer 14

cloudwanderer

Hi, I know, but I don't want to look like I'm chasing him or something, plus all those "man should feel like a man" and "let him wait" and stuff.. it's different online, if I could see him at school, I would know more from his behaviour and gestures. But thank you for your opinion :)

Answer 15

morganlove

Try making it sound like a study session or something along those lines.

Answer 16

opinionhated

Xper 1

Just ask. Guys hardly ever get "asked out". When it does happen it's really different and most guys respect that.

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Okay, thank you for your comment :)

Answer 17

cloudwanderer

Okay, thank you for your comment :)

Answer 18

dudeinohio | 3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Go ahead... nothing wrong with you asking.

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Thank you :)

Answer 19

cloudwanderer

Thank you :)

Answer 20

REDHOTLINE | 219 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Its not problem. You can start first step

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Thank you for your comment :)
REDHOTLINE

1 mo
No problem

Answer 21

cloudwanderer

Thank you for your comment :)

Answer 22

REDHOTLINE

No problem

Answer 23

Anonymous

If only this happened more often

cloudwanderer

1 mo
I still can't believe this is happening :)

Answer 24

cloudwanderer

I still can't believe this is happening :)

Answer 25

Anonymous

You should ask him out

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Thank you for your opinion :)

Answer 26

cloudwanderer

Thank you for your opinion :)

Answer 27

AmeerX | 975 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Ask him out

cloudwanderer

1 mo
Thanks :)
AmeerX

1 mo
Wait I get it now. No don't ask him out. You are from Slovakia. I thought you were American. I don't know your culture. You should try to be indirect. How do girls do it in your country normally?
cloudwanderer

1 mo
Actually, it's similar to yours in these days. We used to be more conservative about things but it's comparable to yours.
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AmeerX

1 mo
Then ask her out. It is so exciting. Please let us know what the result is. I hope he reciprocates your feelings. Good luck and God bless your relationship :)
cloudwanderer

1 mo
Thank youu, have a nice day!

Answer 28

cloudwanderer

Thanks :)

Answer 29

AmeerX

Wait I get it now. No don't ask him out. You are from Slovakia. I thought you were American. I don't know your culture. You should try to be indirect. How do girls do it in your country normally?

Answer 30

cloudwanderer

Actually, it's similar to yours in these days. We used to be more conservative about things but it's comparable to yours.

Answer 31

AmeerX

Then ask her out. It is so exciting. Please let us know what the result is. I hope he reciprocates your feelings. Good luck and God bless your relationship :)

Answer 32

cloudwanderer

Thank youu, have a nice day!

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