How cautious are you when dating someone new?

[vintagegirl90]

Always cautious, as a female I think it’s important. Unfortunately a female friend has too many dating stories with creeps. Safety is a priority and something we can't neglect, especially in a pandemic. Always be smart but not naive, if you date someone be sure that they are a trustworthy individual that you’ve learnt a lot about. Spontaneous dating is wonderful but you need to be sure that the person you date is decent and someone you’re comfortable with meeting, never rush it without being certain.

[Givemore]

If you can't pick a personality within ten minutes and book it, I would sugest growing up first, and not learning the hard way.
There is good blokes and bad, but I have met some real messed up chicks and I meen out their fuckin minds, but least I gave them the benifit of the doubt and bailed without getting my dick wet.
Almost every females house I went to, to have fun, their houses where disgusting shit holes with crap everywhere, least when they came to mine they wouldn't trip over shit and I'd have dinner made. Listen all you girls that might think I'm a prick, I'm not, I just had to put a good one in for the boys after reading all the comments x

[imfreeze95]

Extremely I probably wouldn’t share much information about my family I have a friend from a group at my church who I’ve known for 6 years he didn’t know that I had a sister during the first 4-5 years we were in a Board game group I am NOT ashamed of my sister he never asked and the subject of siblings never came up. So if I ever ask a woman out I doubt she’ll know much for a while.


I also wouldn’t tell them where I live for about 5 dates probably and then several more before I let them in my residence.

[TOB93]

I'm very attentive to what they say... if you let people talk long enough you can catch their slip ups and pick up on the subtle red flags they may not be conscious about.

[Knighted2170]

I'm rather cautious. I start slow with a casual conversation. Then I'll move into more deeper questions and topics. Just to see who she is and what she's about. Get to know and let her get to know me.

If everything works then we have a good foundation to work from.

If not, there aren't any hard feelings because all we did was talk.

[FakeNIK]

Earlier I used to be extremely cautious... There was a time when I used to think a lot my thinking was like... I've to impress him/her.. nowadays it doesn't matter.. as we age we evolve.. Thesedays I just try to be myself..& trust me it works like a charm.

[djmzes]

Simple

[postempestas]

Absolutely nothing this last time. Hope to learn from my mistakes for the next one. I'll make him try and try and work and work for it for an entire month until I show him I like him as much.

[Novacane]

I am only as cautious as they are, if they want to take things slowly then ill take things. if they want to speed things up I won't mind, as long as they are comfortable then that is good for me

[navyrobin]

I’m not prudish but I’m also not all over him either, unless I’m super horny or something lol.


I just take it easy and go at my own pace.


If you have reason to be cautious then do so. Trust your gut.

[pleasestopthis]

Very. I'm so guarded to the point it's very hard for me to express and demonstrate what I really feel.

[Cherokeehp]

Cautious of what? Dating is fun. I just go along for the ride and see what happens.

[jasco]

Cautious enough to know that everyone is capable of lying to u

[BloJo]

I am super cautious. I have been married for almost half of my life. Dating a new partner could wreck that.

[Unit1]

I am only cautious about my wallet and nothing else. Freeloaders can get lost.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm only cautious about getting married. I'm not cautious about dating. I don't have sex before marriage anyway, so there's nothing to worry about.

[Massageman]

Yes. That's what dating is all about, weeding out the wheat from the chaff, right?

[poneglyphs]

I don't know never dated anyone before and I do want to find out?

[Galieator]

Honestly, it's not something I'm used to and I have high functioning autism so I need to go at a pace

[COMMODOREII]

Very cautious. It will take awhile to trust anyone again.

[UrBrotherCain]

I get invested really fast. I don't really do half measures.

[Arivor]

To think about it... I have only dated girls that I have known for at least a bit.

[Meisty]

Extremely cautious. I don't want a two faced, pretentious jerk... again.

[Anonymous]

Extremely cautious. Not trying to get used and abused again.