How do guys feel about girls who know their worth?

[ohshee]

Yes yes yes you are you you are beautiful you are smart you have confedent you are independent you are happy this is your life your world and if a guy wants to be a part of it you have rules if they can't respect you love you ot make you feel happy and alive then YOU CAN DO WHAT EVER YOU WANT BECAUSE YOU KNOW DOWN DEEP WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOUR WORTH ,, AND YOU KNOW ITS A MATTER OF 2 MIN TO WHEN EVER YOU WANT THERE WILL BE SOMEONE THST CAN LIVE IN YOUR WORLD I LOVE THIS QUESTION AND I HOPE EVERY GIRL ON HERE KNOWS THERE WORTH

[0112358]

It should be unnoticeable. Since I don’t treat people like crap I wouldn’t have a lot of direct experience in how she handles it.

on the other hand if she views every argument as something she has to win and spins being selfish as “confidently knowing her own worth” then I’d not think much of her as a person.

[Lynx122]

Good for them. I think everybody is responsible for how they let themselves be treated this is one of the most important things in life. But it's something that is more for the girl herself. It is nice if a girl can set clear boundaries and say what she wants but there's so many other factors that are important to me. This one is not one of the top ones.

[JackSmy]

@hannah_ann_linge I was a little unsure, with the title! But YEAH!! I LOVE women that KNOW they are EQUALS, and don't have any problem saying that, or living it!!
You have ALWAYS been WORTHY!!! It's just getting some of the Knuckle-dragging idiots, of my gender to accept and realize!!

[GingerGuy]

Confidence is good (like you like in guys, we also like), but if she develops and attitude because of it, where she comes across as "bitchy" to sum it up lol, then that's a turn off. Arrogant, egotistical, entitled etc. You know, the same things that would turn you off a guy.

[MysticDevice]

I admire anyone who stands their ground. I see way too many people stay in a toxic relationship cause reason A and reason B.

I've been in a few myself and noped the heck out as soon as I realized it.

I don't put up with that and no one else should either.

[pajamasam]

I dont treat women like crap and if I do by mistake I own up to it. So its never been a problem and never would be a problem for me.

I think its great when a girl knows her worth and knows when to stand up for herself.

[Arivor]

How would I feel about a girl who could let go and move on from an abusive relationship, no matter how much she likes/loves him? I would feel that she really had her act together and knew how to do what's best for her, even if it hurts to do so. A very intelligent and wise woman that is going far in her life.

[FCDALLASFAN]

There are confident ladies that actually want a relationship. Then there are confident ladies that in their heads above all and unattainable. It is up to the lady what she actually is and how the relationship will go. Dude are more or less easy. Especially, if she is attractive and within a reasonable range of crazy.

[CameronStark]

I just feel happy for that girl because she isn't going to get abused by low-value guys. I wish more girls were like that - it's so sad watching girls put up with jerks who abuse them just because the jerks are attractive and exciting. It makes us guys who are not jerks wonder why we try so hard to respect women. (I know, I know - girls who run after jerks are immature and low-value, and not the ones we should be wanting anyway.)

[InferiorElegy]

Depends on what she sees as her worth, some guys like girls who see themselves as worthless most guys don't want a girl like that as it becomes a job to build her up in herself.
It's just like no girl out there wants a guy who sees himself as worthless, why would any female want a worthless guy.

[EWillke]

Huge turn on for guys who don't have low self esteem. I'm a father of a teenager and my biggest goal as a father is to teach her to truly know what she's worth and not accept someone treating her less.