There's a guy from my class that is also on bumble, he says on bumble he doesn't know what he's looking for. I'm in the same boat, but I also feel like if we meet up for the first time I don't want to really do anything past making out. However, I want to do more with him I just don't want to do it the first time we meet. I've never hooked up casually before, so I'm not sure how this works or if I'm even asking for something that's possible. Is he expecting to have sex the first time we meet or if not how can I communicate to him that I want to have sex with him, just not the first time we meet? Will this make him more pushy going forward? Should I just be more aloof and say I just want to take it slow, even though I'm not sure if I want to take it slow? I just don't want to have sex with a guy that's going to be an a**hole.