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When she tell you no you still leave anyway. So that isn't an excuse, you just dont want to settle down yet.
Where are all these girls that say no? But not only to me but any man that will use them? Hardly hardly hardly ever meet one.
The only girls I've been serious with told me no. So you're dead wrong.
No that is your excuse that is all that you really wanted. Because this dude came back thinking that I would hookup with him again and once I said no he blocked me on every social media app. He isn't going to change. The only time he will change is for the girl that he wants. There is nothing I can do to change that. You men act like by someone saying no is going to be an easy fix.
I know what I am talking about I am not a dumb ass you only respect and give time to the girls you really like. Because when a girl doesn't sleep with you and you dont value her or think she is worth your time. You get lazy and want someone else to do all the work. I've been there plenty of times and know that is the only time you men be interested is when someone is easy for you.
Smh. "Because this dude came back thinking that I would hookup with him again..." the again is the problem. You already said yes, and he never respected you from that point on.Men put girls in a box, either 1. Wife/serious 2. SexYou can only be in one. Period. And you can never ever go from the sex box to the serious box, however you can go from serious to sex.All men want sex. Some men want something serious... but they also want sex.So by saying yes to a man or being the kind of girl that is a yes sayer to men. 99% of men now put you in the sex box. They will lie cheat treat you like trash if it suits them because they dont respect you. Why should they be delicate with your feelings and value your sex when you just go around saying yes?If you say no, and claim men leave, then you're right, they never wanted something serious (with you). And good riddance... unless you want to be used. Which if you then say yes you are guaranteed to be used and it will never work.If you say no and a man stays that means he is interested in being serious and has you in that box. But the second you make it easy and say yes to him he moves you to the sex only box. Because no matter what your past is, he saw how easy you were. Thats a big no no to men who want something serious.
But he never wanted anything serious no matter if I did say no in the past. Men want to make up excuses for their actions just like girls do. Both people dont have any respect for themselves if they are not willing to want until marriage. So dont be coming in the comments talking down to me. Because at least I know that that dude is not worth my time. I wasn't dumb enough to allow him to do it again. Yeah that makes a lot of sense dont ever have respect for someone when you agree to sleep with them. Who wants a partner like that what an asshole. I wouldn't want a guy like that and not all guys are like that. can't see the good in nobody. You act like a guy will want a relationship with you if you say no. It really isn't the case. From the first time he sees you he has already planned what he wanted before you two have sex. You were already looked upon as friends with benefits. So dont be trying to make me beat up on myself over something I can't change.
I mean its you that needs to change. You slept with a man who wanted to use you. That is a personality defect and not something men are interested in. You can either keep whining about fuck boys and do nothing. Or change and never get used by a fuck boy ever again. Only two options. Its your life.Personally im dying to have a real serious relationship and have been in two very long term serious ones. But i never date girls who sleep with me right away or anyone right away. Not acceptable. Both my exs made me AND ALL MEN wait almost a year. Total respect. Those are girls id find special. Easy girls are about as valuable as a grain of sand on a beach. And thus are treated accordingly. Thats life. Accept it or dont and wait 10 years still bitching about fuck boys ha. You won't be the first girl living in make believe land.
Says something about you too if you sleep with them too soon too. I just get mad when men act like it is ok for them to hook up and like they dont lose any value to themselves. It is sad and pathetic for someone to put somebody low because they did it too. Make sure you dont cheat on anybody just because they did something that you didn't agree. I guess it is women's faults too why men cheat. It would be a different story if men are willing to change too. An easy woman who sleeps too soon is also an easy man who agrees to it. So dont try to make me feel like I am less than because I made bad choices due to the fact I was dumb and wanted to see the good in somebody. We all are human I just dont like men being hypocrites. You are being a hypocrite get the spike out of your eye.
Its not a hypocritical. Yes its the same thing but men and women are different. Yes a car needs 4 wheels to be useful but a motorcycle with 4 wheels is worthless.Women dont judge men by how many girls they sleep with. In fact its opposite. A man hot and fun and cool enough to sleep with 300 girls is desired by all those women. A woman who slept with 300 men has been used by all of them because none of them want to marry her, she's a ho. Men and women are not the same so dont even bother trying to hold up such an obvious lie.
It doesn't say anything in the bible that gives the right for men to cheat and sleep around. I mean men have to sleep with a woman if he wants sex he can't sleep with a man. That is just an sorry excuse to say that it is ok for men to sleep around and dont get called out for it. Women are more desperate when it comes to wanting a relationship so that is why women put up with more. Unlike men who are greedy and can easily move on the next and the woman just stays stuck on one asshole. Men dont be putting up with nonsense like we women do. Maybe we women need to start holding you men accountable for what y'all do so you can see what it is like. It just doesn't make any sense. Societies logic about the sexes makes no sense. I will have to take a 1 percenter because all lot of you men are shady and will make any excuse in the book to why you all are sorry. I dont see why women want y'all you all aren't worth anything.
Everything you said is precisely why women should say no. Hold men accountable. I wish women would. Say no. Make men prove they respect and want you. Please!
Yeah but you and the rest of society just act like whatever a man does is never wrong and everything a woman does is wrong. Two wrongs dont make a right. A woman can say no and hold out for sex but he will still cheat on her. Men just want to make excuses to why they dont want a woman. That is why I stop online dating because that is usually what always happens. Men are greedy they can gamble 3 or 4 women at once. A woman doesn't have to sleep with a man to make him lose respect for her. He just want to make up excuses because he is just selfish.
you're lumping like 20 issues into one thing. This is mostly unrelated to cheating and anything else. Thats a whole other topic.Ever heard the saying "you can't make a ho a housewife"? Its that simple.Just because men do something doesn't mean its going to change what they want. Did me having sex with some girls now make me want to marry a slut? Hell no. I would never. Its better to be single than stuck with a woman like that. And you're a girl, just because maybe you cry regularly you now HAVE to like men who cry a lot. Thats fucking dumb. Just because you might cry a lot doesn't mean you need to accept a man who crys a lot. And just because i slept with some girls doesn't mean i need to accept a girl that sleeps around.you're in the phase where you can't accept this. Its normal. Just because you made some mistakes instead of fixing it you're just going to point out other people's mistakes. But ok, you still made a mistake lol. Every person in the world could be a prostitute, you still fucked up, what you going to do about it? Fuck up again or do better?
There you go giving men the benefit of the doubt and making women out to be like it is all our fault. It takes two people to make a problem. I dont see how you men dont see it. I wish that we can switch roles so you can see what it is like. Then you will understand what I am talking about. You are a man and you only see things one way. You dont see the struggle that us women have to go through because you don't understand it.
And women dont necessarily sleep around if they have sex with you too soon. That is something that you men made up in your head. Dont you know that women are emotional creatures and we get attach easily. It is seriously what you guys do just because you men sleep around doesn't mean that a girl that slept with you too soon does it on a regular basis it isn't what you think.
"... doesn't mean that a girl that slept with you too soon does it on a regular basis" "It takes two people to make a problem." This just shows how you still have no idea what the problem is. You could have slept with 100 men, or are ready and willing to sleep with 100 men but have not yet. Both are bad and not something men want. We can't read your mind. If you fucked us easy that means if you were easy for us you would have been easy for some other guy. Being easy is not good, whether you slept around or not.
Whatever I say you let it go through your head you are narrow minded. Really women are more selective who they sleep with unlike you men. Men just want to be hypocrites when actually they do worse than women. Women don't purposely go out there trying to sleep with every time duck and harry. you are selfish that is your problem you don't care about nobody about yourself. I hate to be the chick to be with you because I will be walking around egg shells with you. You sound like a narcissist. Women really don't be sleeping with that many people to what you think unlike you men you must mistake us for you men. Men and women are not the same. Men have high sex drives they can't go without sex like us women do. Women have sex for love and men just do it to be selfish. Go ahead and cheat on your wife what will be your excuse for that that she doesn't cook for you. You sound pathetic.
I will treat a girl who isn't a slut like something to be proud of. Just because i treat easy girls like nasty trash doesn't mean i treat nice girls like that smdh. But ofc you think men are terrible because you present as a slut to all of them and then they think you're worthless.
Either you are in denial over the truth on how it really is or you are narrow minded. Because you clearly dont see what women have to go through because you are just taking out your ass.
What do women have to go through that they have to be easy? As i said i been with two girls and they were not easy. So i think you're just talking about yourself.
I dont be sleeping with them you jackass. They are the ones who be trying to sleep with me and when I be nothing but nice to them they be turning around cheating on me anyway. Because they are selfish men only care about themselves there is nothing you can do to change them. How many times do I have to tell you the same thing over and over again until it sticks into your thick skull. I think that you are a liar I really dont think you be respecting the women who won't sleep with you I think that you just be telling lies like the rest of these men out here do. The only time a man will change is for the woman he truly wants. If he doesn't want your ass he will be doing all kinds of stuff to think that he will get away with it.
Men really do just be messing with you just to try to get in your pants you just have to leave them alone and try to find something better. Because if you stick around and hope for them to change they are going to continue to do what they want to do. I am not a fucking whore I only sleep with two people in my life. You damn asshole every man I came across just thought about themselves and cheat on me anyway no matter if I slept with them or not. I am not going to keep on telling you. And stop making assumptions when you dont know nothing about me. Man pissing me off
So you have a relationship with no sex? Since you said you dont sleep with them but they cheat on you? If thats true just hang in there its hard to find marriage minded people these days. If you are sleeping with them well youve heard it before "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Just keep expecting the same. Whether its fair or not is irrelevant. That is how it is.
I keep telling you the same thing over and over again I dont like you because you are a dman idiot like the rest of them. You know good and well that you be wanting these women to sleep with you. Just because she makes you wait doesn't mean that you value her. When you say stupid stuff that you do it pisses me off. Because you know good and well that you dont want to wait either. Are you with any of the women who didn't have sex with you now?
Are you still with any of them now? I mean
No but i was with one for 9 years and one 3. But one broke up with me because she wanted to try sleeping around and see what was out there, just the suggestion was disgusting so good riddance. And the other girl was very materialistic and i didn't feel i could meet her expectations at that time and we both talked about it and mutually broke up. I never cheated on either or disrespected them.
If you are with someone for 9 years if you are with anyone over 3 years than you do not think that is your life. It doesn't take that long to decide whether or not if you want to marry someone. It really supposed to take 2 years to make up your mind. Just because they cheat on you doesn't mean that all women will cheat on you. Usually men be the ones who be the ones who be cheating. Being in a relationship with someone for years and dont want to marry them just means that you didn't really want them in the first place. They were just a placeholder. Nobody can convince a man if they are the right one for him. That is for me to make up for himself. Men be full of shit it isn't rocket science it takes common sense to tell if a man wants you or not. Any man who dates a woman over 3 years without marrying her doesn't think that she is the one. Point blank period so stop with your lies.
Well i asked the one girl to marry her. I didn't propose but we talked about it and said i wanted to. She said her mom was divorced twice and didn't want to be married so we didn't. We tried to have kids but she wasn't able to. So she wanted to party and be swingers and stuff. Not what i wanted.
I just dont want to hear it anymore I know the kind of stuff I had to put up with. Not everyone is you everybody goes through different experiences. So dont be coming in the comments trying to tell me what kind of person i am because I came across a lot of men who didn't play a purpose in my life. Like I keep on saying a man will only do for the woman who truly wants if he doesn't want you there isn't really anything you can do right or wrong to change his mind. He just doesn't like you not everyone is going to like you.
I dont see how you dont see that are you a woman do you know what it is like for women to date? Women can't even have a man pick her up at her house nowadays because the dude might be a serial killer or something. Dating is hard nowadays it isn't that easy to what you think.
In his eyes that is.
Exactly women as a whole need to stop ignoring red flags and accept someone for who they are because apparently some men think it is ok for them to sleep around and cheat. When the woman actually wants to be there for them and men think that the woman is a slut when she is not and men only care about their sexual desires. No matter if you sleep with them or not they continue to do what they want to do.
Would you go on somewhere with your negativitive.
Re read my first post.
People just dont want to change you can hope for them to change but they won't do it. So disrespectful I dont think that they have respect for themselves if you are nothing but nice to them and didn't do anything to them.
Men are more selfish though men can easily find a new woman and move on without feeling bad about it.
Just like women are more selfish though and can easily find a new man and move on without feeling bad about it
I know this sounds immature and I am sounding pitty but from what I see that it always happens to women. I don't see a different result.
And that's what we call anecdotes and that's a logical fallacy. That doesn't prove anything
When a woman sticks around hoping for the man to change but he ends up fooling her.
I'm talking about him wanting to change where you are not a sex object to him.
That is rough, but it is part of a man's wiring. It takes serious reprogramming.
Why dont some men want to change?
It isn't about want, it is hard wired in our brains.