
- As some of the more honest ladies have already said, it’s pretty simple: Women want to be approached by men they are attracted to. They don’t want to be approached by women/men that they are not attracted to. So the answer depends on who is approaching. Whether or not she’s attracted depends on the particular lady in question, and the particular man approaching. For the most part, on a cold approach with no previous interaction, I would estimate failure rate to be around 95%. If the girl knows you and has a favorable opinion of you, that Probably lowers to you about a 40% failure rate. If she knows you and has a unfavorable opinion of you, that’s going to raise it to 100%, but she might give you her number anyway and you’ll find out that it was a failure later.3|20|0Is this still revelant?
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- I like being approached in a nice, gentle way. Specifically in a way that allows me to turn someone down if I don’t like them in that way, without worrying for my safety. That would be nice.
If you want to be extra nice, talk to me for a while before actually dropping the question. Do it in a way that makes it clear that you’re getting there (like dropping a few extra compliments, or just being extra flirty in general), but just talk for a few minutes before asking. Maybe give me a few details about yourself just so I know you’re not a serial killer. It gives me time to decide whether or not I want to go out with someone, and I’m far more likely to say yes if I have that time to decide.0|00|0Is this still revelant?I prefer not to lie. But I will if I worry that the person won’t take rejection well, and could potentially get aggressive.
- One like for the picture. 😂
Don't be rude/jerk, other than that I think I don't mind being approached or starting a conversation. Like I literally saw SOME (not all) men approached women and be like "I'm the hottest shit in town you better beg me for attention" 😂 some real life Gaston 🙄.
How about a normal Hi and My Name is abc. If I feel uncomfortable I would just tell them, I don't like how this conversation, have a good day/night, you'll have more luck with that girl across the bar. Other than that a conversation doesn't cost a lot.0|10|0Is this still revelant?If I'm super interested I would just tell the guy straight up. If he's not interested I'll just move on, I won't even be able to remember any random faces like a guy who rejected me on the next day, why would I hold a grudge about it? :))
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Oh i imagine if the girl was holding grudge it would means she thinks she's beautiful like that and got rejected? You boys are blind or sth. :))
There are many times I don't even get signals from boys, I went out and eat with them as friends (in my opinion) and then later someone told me those were dates :))
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163- Anonymous1 moLet me put it this way.
If you were approached by a woman would you rather be approached with lines that quite simply implies sexual interest (as is the typical approach style of men) or indicates that she would like to know you first (the oddity of men's approach style).
Once guys understand that unless a skank, easy, promiscuous, etc. women don't like been viewed as mere sexual objects then maybe they'll actually get somewhere with a woman worth keeping and not the "town bike" that'd give anyone a "ride".0|00|0- Show All Show Less
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@zeitgeist057 The town bicycles don't account for much, dear. I am sure for men, like yourself, who have very low self esteem & respect they're fantastic. For everyone else they're passed over for a reason. But keep deluding yourself.
As for very, very successful men that would be multiple property owners, multiple business owners, etc. Can you afford a McLaren (a vehicle with a basic 230,000 price tag) without a lease or a loan by any chance?
- Well, if a guy comes up to me or show interests towards me, I would seriously be very flattered. I hope the guy doesn't act too creepy because I have talk to variety of guys, but I haven't met any creep guys yet except on Instagram where few people acted really desperate. So, beside that, I just love guys who are well mannered and have a good sense of humour. I don't like being too materialistic, even if we decide to meet each other on a date, I would like to pay for my bills equally!0|00|0
- If a guy approaches me in a friendly non aggressive manner, I might be interested. It all depends if I feel an attraction towards him also. And if I am attached I’m pretty sure he will be able to tell. I smile a lot, so when I see someone I’m interested I’m usually sending positive vibes in his direction. I sometimes can’t tell if a guys interested, I think “is he checking me out?” If he’s not as confident as someone who will come talk to me, I sometimes have a little trouble figuring out what he’s about. I tend to prefer shy quiet guys vs someone who seems to be interested in every attractive woman he encounters. I just wish shy guy would smile at me, then I’d know more ir less if he’s into me. After the initial I see you, you see me and I like what I see step, shy guy would ideally man up and come talk to me.0|00|0
- It depends , I have been approached by guys that got rude when I didn’t want to give them my phone number. If you’re going to approach a girl remember that it’s her choice whether she wants to give her number out or not. At the end of the day I don’t mind being approached by guys , along as they are kind and fun to chat with.0|00|0
- I would say that you definitely need to approach women in a similar league as yours , otherwise you will have a high chance of getting rejected. I have never found most of the guys who approached me to be attractive. So I have all rejected them. You need to understand that we don’t know anything about you other than your looks. If we don’t see any physical attraction then we won’t be dating you0|00|0
@Asker most people do not approach others of the same league. It is unlikely a plain looking guy is going to approach another plain girl who he won’t even glance twice at. He’s gonna approach someone better looking than he is
- I'm a home body, so I don't really go out much, except with friends. Nobody has ever approached me in those instances. So I'm gonna answer this as best I can.
I'd be okay with being approached, but if it's clear that all the guy wants is sex then I'd reject. If they strike up a conversation and make me laugh, their chances would improve. If I know them, odds are a lot higher that I'd be receptive to them.0|10|0 - Seeing as I’m in a relationship I automatically reject any guy who approaches me. When I was single I’d instantly reject any dude that I found to be physically unattractive, rude, creepy, or overly-sexual.1|10|1
- If it is for work stuff or a friendly chat then I'm fine with it. Else, it is a NO0|00|0
- I would want to approached but in a respectful manner0|00|0
Depends where we are and if I noticed you.. if I noticed you and for example we are a coffee shop just come up to me and just say hi
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Bruh just shoot your shot in a respectful manner.. be like hey and however she responds to that you will know to approach or not
- Depends how hot you are. Nobody is gonna mind being approached by someone hot and charismatic. Or by their future SO.
Its just the awkward rejections people dislike.0|00|0 - Don't mind being approached but I'm rarely in the mood to deal with more people after work.0|00|0
- Anonymous1 moIts funny to hear the comments from the ugly one who has such a specific checklist that no guy would ever pass through anyway. After looking at her picture it is hard to believe that any guy would approach such a shrew.0|20|0
- I only want to be approached by guys I find attractive. Facts!0|10|0
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Again, depends on how attractive I find him. I personally never fell for any pick up lines or game because I knew I was saving myself for a bigger commitment. But I’m sure those kinds of tricks work on some women.
- No, I don't want to be approached.0|00|0
- Now a days, no, I don’t want to be approached0|00|0
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