Guys this accurate? Girls does this mean we supposed 2 rethink how we see dates?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Depends;
Was the date just a a means to an end to get sex? Or was the date to really get to know you, see if you're someone they could really care about/see a future with? Anyone male or female, that acts like YOU OWE Them sex, is someone not worthy of your time, in my opinion...
Sex should NEVER HAPPEN cuz of expectation or supposed obligation

[hellionthesagereborn]

Well that depends, are your dates transactional? If so it seems reasonable that a transaction takes place. If not, then no that is not reasonable. Its all about your attitude and how you come into the situation. So if you come in willing to give something (not sex just something, your time, your affections something), even if its a promise that at some point in the near future you will dedicate yourself to him, then you don't owe sex. If you are looking to give nothing, then yeah, you owe him that much because he had to slave away at a job he likely hates to make the money that you freely took. So again, its all in your attitude and what you come into the date expecting (if you want traditional you have to be traditional, if you don't want traditional don't demand it from him basically).

[SunnySri]

I don't think that is accurate mam. Date is supposed to be something through which I am able to understand the other person whom I am with and what does she likes and dislikes, her personality and vice versa.

[JoyGirl]

If that was accurate, then I would have skipped all the dates I have been on... lol

[pajamasam]

On a 1rst date? Absolutely not. I never expect sex on a first date. I've had sex on a first date before but its never something I expect.

Have we been dating for a while though? Say a year? Then yeah if I went put of my ay for a nice dinner date or whatever im "kinda" expecting some kind of sex. But im also not a whiny ass if she says no.

[DJB72]

Only accurate if the guy is a dick. There is zero obligation for a girl to do anything. The guy who came up with that was confusing a "date" with a "hooker"...

[Kiss_Me]

It sounds like a No game guy that is getting pissed he is failing to have sex at the end of his limited number of dates.

There should be a law that little boys are not allowed to text or post on the internet.

[Unit1]

This is how fuckboys think dates work and keep getting certain women in bed.

[Lionman95]

no, not for me and I don´t think that the majority of the guys would ask or expect that from a woman. Yes we do like a blowjob, but it´s something so intimate that can be done after a date especially if it´s one of the dates.

[postempestas]

Nahh. On my first date we just made out in his stairwell but didn't have sex. Maybe because his mom was at home, bc if not maybe id have done it, I am glad she was there hahah I didn't want to go so fast damn.

[Torari]

Sex is something you should do, but only if both parties want to have sex.

You shouldn't repress the desire, but you also shouldn't act without said desire. This goes for the 1st date as well as the 100th date.

[R3DthatDude]

That’s out of a players hand book. Guys that actually looking for a good woman are not thinking like that

[Trooper205]

It's not supposed to be. We've turned dates into One-night Stands. What once was Sweet and Romantic has turned into Lust. Plus, we treat it like it's required, or owed.

[nawtee_me]

Why do we have to wait until the end? Let us just do it at the beginning and get it over with so we can enjoy the date without any pressure?

[normalice]

You should not have sex until you want to get off. If the guy want sex but you dont, then no meaningful communication occured and you should move on.

[007kingifrit]

if we meet on tinder or bumble i expect sex at the end of a date. if we meet on POF or in person or a less trashy site i don't necessarily expect sex (but i still want it)

[Xoirwinkan]

No, whoever wrote that just wants sex above anything else. I want a real relationship, old fashioned style.

[Anonymous]

i think that's how it's always been for guys. they don't always get it, but that's certainly what they want from any girl they show enough interest in to ask out

[genericname85]

hell no. just cause i date someone doesn't mean i wanna fuck them. specially not if it's a first date.

[Don-__-Don]

As far as it goes for the way I prefer things it's not accurate, not sure about the other men.

[GoldenTulip]

Disrespectful to expect a D*ck at the end of a date... you see how the date goes and see if both are in it. Don't demand it...

[britishbby]

Wish it was, but to be honest everyone knows or every guy knows thats not true

[Somoneelse]

No idea where the heck that line is from. But I think its straight up bullshit. Date is just an date. Nothing else.

[Texaskid1]

LOL

That is a great acronym!! ( sometimes it is true )