I'm just curious considering the fact that I see a shit ton of lady profiles complaining about guys sending hey messages lol. I mean shit why do you always expect the guys to lead the conversation?
There are only a VERY, VERY small group of women, that actually ACT as EQUALS, In Men's Perspective, and those are the ones saying Hey!! Seems like this is some disconnect, with EQUAL RIGHTS, and the REAL WORLD!! I respect women, and see them as "EQUALS" but when they don't ACT like "Equals" WTF are guys supposed to do? I LOVE them saying "HEY" and what happens after!! She decides she likes me, and sends a simple "Hey" message, and we chat a bit, and maybe so much more. . . Confident women, and assertive, knowing what they want, WOW!!!
Ahhhhhh bumble, where the men get to point out the hypocrisy in men coming up with creative messages.
I usually create about 50 accounts with them all saying they need to do better than just say hi to me. Come up with something creative or I'm not talking to them.
To me it's kind of... boring? And usually they're to get sexual asap. No joke, first it is 'hi how are you' and shortly after it's SEX TALK, NUDES, ANSWER MY FETISH QUESTIONS TO TURN ME ON, etc. And they all start with that 'hi how are you' After a while I feel like I'm conditioned to feel "ah here we go again" whenever I see that 'hi' XD
I don't care if they make the first move or not. If I'm interested in you, I'll let you know straight up, I'm not going to wait anyway. I think it's just that I read "Hi how are you" a bit too often
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Anonymous
1 mo
we get so many messages and so many of them don't go anywhere so the "hey" sorts them out
guy: hey girl: hey guy: how you doing? girl: good hbu? guy: good end of convo
if he's not more interesting than that, i don't want to continue anyway
The worst thing is when they expect you to talk first or provide gripping conversation and there's literally nothing on their profile. Give me something to work with, ffs.
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Redstang88 | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Master
1 mo
Because if you don’t put in the work some other guy will
It’s just the unfortunate truth of being a guy, like it or not. We’re not the ones calling the shots
RawIronhide | 194 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Xper 6
1 mo
They don't know how. Guys do because girls expect us to but not the other way around. same with asking questions most of the time, sometimes people surprise me.
My pet peeve is when they post up stuff like "I'm busy chasing my dreams. Don't waste my time." Like, girl... what else do you honestly have going on? You work at 7-11
@Primerose21 Then why send me a message if not interested? It's like they throw out a bunch of heys to multiple guys and just wait for somebody to entertain them. It's really pathetic and shows how much they don't care.
I don’t actually do this when I send messages they are actually conversation messages or a message involving a question you can’t get to know someone by expecting the guy to lead the conversation
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