Ladies why do you always send hey messages?

[JackSmy]

There are only a VERY, VERY small group of women, that actually ACT as EQUALS, In Men's Perspective, and those are the ones saying Hey!!
Seems like this is some disconnect, with EQUAL RIGHTS, and the REAL WORLD!!
I respect women, and see them as "EQUALS" but when they don't ACT like "Equals" WTF are guys supposed to do?
I LOVE them saying "HEY" and what happens after!!
She decides she likes me, and sends a simple "Hey" message, and we chat a bit, and maybe so much more. . .
Confident women, and assertive, knowing what they want, WOW!!!

[ChrisG30]

Ahhhhhh bumble, where the men get to point out the hypocrisy in men coming up with creative messages.

I usually create about 50 accounts with them all saying they need to do better than just say hi to me. Come up with something creative or I'm not talking to them.

[JosyJosy]

To me it's kind of... boring? And usually they're to get sexual asap. No joke, first it is 'hi how are you' and shortly after it's SEX TALK, NUDES, ANSWER MY FETISH QUESTIONS TO TURN ME ON, etc.
And they all start with that 'hi how are you' After a while I feel like I'm conditioned to feel "ah here we go again" whenever I see that 'hi' XD

I don't care if they make the first move or not. If I'm interested in you, I'll let you know straight up, I'm not going to wait anyway. I think it's just that I read "Hi how are you" a bit too often

[Anonymous]

we get so many messages and so many of them don't go anywhere so the "hey" sorts them out

guy: hey
girl: hey
guy: how you doing?
girl: good hbu?
guy: good
end of convo

if he's not more interesting than that, i don't want to continue anyway

[Levin]

All women write is 'hi, how are you?

The worst thing is when they expect you to talk first or provide gripping conversation and there's literally nothing on their profile. Give me something to work with, ffs.

[Redstang88]

Because if you don’t put in the work some other guy will

[RawIronhide]

They don't know how. Guys do because girls expect us to but not the other way around. same with asking questions most of the time, sometimes people surprise me.

[hahahmm]

The more you understand yourself, the easier it is to understand others. Most people don’t have a clue why they do the things that they do.

[winterfox10]

Because girl game is pretty weak man 😂 They've never needed to learn how to start an engaging conversation.

[SphynxUK]

I’ve never said hey, hi or anything similar.
I’ll give an opening line, and if the comeback is good I’ll reply.
Hi babe or how r u will not do it lol

[Bananaman177]

There's nothing going on in their heads unless somebody else puts it there.

They can't generate their own mental activity, they need someone else to like give them a jump-start.

[TraceyByrd]

I'm not close to like that , most gurls are boring & expect to get everything to them not happening 💯

[pigoat]

Oh cool i like that app

But i deleted and moved to tinder instead

[yyyuuuiii]

She has a ton of options. So she doesn't need to bother having good conversation when there's a bunch of other guys lined up

[GoldenTulip]

"Hey" is boring... like its the least effort.. you can't come up with something more intresting?

[Yads_Is_Back]

Saying “hey” is not leading a conversation LOL!

[Anonymous]

I don’t actually do this when I send messages they are actually conversation messages or a message involving a question you can’t get to know someone by expecting the guy to lead the conversation

[anon1903]

Bored. Awkward. Attention getter. Basic.

[angeliquedevereux2]

It's better than 'wyd'

[Iron_Man]

They do to me all the time

[LastQueenOfScotland]

Hey.