How can you be your S. Os motivation?

My boyfriend is a bum at this point. no job because he chose to quick and try to move to Florida but stayed because of reconnecting with me after high school.

He says no one here motivates him. I told him that he needs to motivate himself and why not reach out to the person that motivated him. Then he got pissy, saying he doesn't talk to that person anymore for what ever reason. It didn't bother me that he said that but it's kind of funny how when I said my guy friend I met at a bar is a better friend than him (my own boyfriend). It's really not my job to encourage him and his attitude makes me care less

He asked " why don't you date him then?"
How can you be your S. Os motivation?
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