Guys, What do you find unattractive (non-sexual) in a woman?

[TheUniqueOne96]

Erm, it's hard to think of anything, so I'm going to go off things I've heard about women, with the assumption they're true and give my thoughts on them that way, just for the sake of the question - I'm not saying any are, I'm just going by what I've heard and looking at it from that side, so I apologize if it sounds like a rant, it's not intended on being one and it's only directly at women who actually behave like this, lol:

Can't keep secrets:

If you're in a relationship with your partner and he/she opens up to you, keep the information private and don't tell anyone else anything, IDGAF if it's your best friend or your mum, if you spill private information about your partner, you obviously lack respect for them.

Crying:

Not in general, I'm not against anyone having emotions, men or women, but if you're going to cry to avoid the consequences, because you know you're wrong, especially if you picked a fight in the first place, it's just stupid.

Not being direct:

If you want something, say it. Don't say one thing, mean another and then get upset when your partner listens to what you say. 'I'm fine'. Relationships are harder anyway, but if this is the reason why, then you've got to question whether or not it's worth dating something who's stupidly unreasonable and it links in to the next point.

Picking fights:

Apparently woman pick fights with their partner, just because they're bored. How stupidly unreasonable and immature is that? Grow up. I get that sometimes you may need to discuss a serious matter with you partner, but if you're going to pick a fight, simply because you're bored, then it's stupid and sounds like something a child would do.

Social media obsessed:

I'm taking posting everything on social media, whether it's private information or not, don't post anything of your partner, just like that for nothing. Personally, I hate taking pictures and have never posted any on any social media sites, so just respect other people's privacy. Nothing wrong with taking pictures to remember memorable moments, just don't be crazy obsessed and post everything, especially without your partner's consent, if any pictures contain them.

[Jjpayne]

I'll say her personality at times. A woman's body will almost always be attractive and while a personality can also be attactive it can also be the opposite. I'll say arguing, debating, talking business, discussing details for the week or day. Conversation that simply lacks interest or spice. "So they are coming at 4 and be sure not to wear that stupid red sweater with the reindeer, wear the one they bought you last year, we also have that party at work and be sure to pick up the tux at the cleaners and give them a good tip because they always do a better job with better tips and remember we need to stop at the store to be cheese, milk and bread and those lactose pills too" vs "how was you day?" (Looking surprised and showing appreciation) "it was good thank you" "you know, you always look sexy with your collar on like that, it looks so unorganized that I want to fix but then so sexy that it looks that way" "well I do like that too, it does bring out your eyes" "awe thank you sweetie... Why don't we go to get a board game or movie later" "yeah that sounds like fun"

Two different conversations but one feels better than the other. One clearly more important but sometimes important does not have to happen all at once

[serious]

Quite a lot of things. I will mention physical, mental and personality wise as to what I find unattractive. My answer will be a bit detailed.

Physical

1. Long hair.

Yes now my thinking is unlike most men here. As a man I can ONLY find women who have short, super short BOY CUT hairstyle as attractive, appealing and pleasing to my eyes and mind. It can be any version of BOY CUT hair, spiked, straight etc etc but must be short or super short in length. Apart from this all other hairstyles on a woman are outright unattractive to me.

Yes "only" is the keyword here. That is how my thinking is.

2. Unattractive physique.

Meaning being overweight, not obese but just not maintaining a proper physique and acting it doesn't matter. This whole thing is unattractive to me.

Personality wise:

1. Being arrogant, generally disrespectful towards others and treating them bad for no apparent reason.

2. Being manipulative, playing mind like playing hard to get, jealousy card etc etc.

3. Having too much superiority complex.

4. Being emotional and not having any control over it and not all using the facts or logic while taking decisions.

Mentality wise:

1. Being too vulnerable, being able to easily getting influenced from others.

2. Mentally weak and indecisiveness.

[zeitgeist057]

Oddly, I find women “trying to be sexy” a turn off. I had a girlfriend who was a redhead, who idolized Nicole Kidman. She was always trying to do this kind of Nicole Kidman impression where she would throw me the “sultry looks”, but it just fell flat for me.

On a sidenote, at my work there’s a client who watches Batman returns over an hour repeatedly with Nicole Kidman in it, and I just find that the script of that movie is a very good example of what I mean. It’s just so contrived, and cheesy, that it comes off as false.
Another thing I can’t really stand is being hung on. I’m cool with holding hands, or even will give you a girl piggyback ride, but there’s a certain type of clingy, dragging, and pulling, that makes me want to peel her off and run the other way. It’s not that I don’t like touching or intimacy, I’m even OK with PDA, it’s just this particular way of using me as a pack mule for your dead weight that gives me the creeps. There’s plenty of other little things as well, but I feel like those might be the more unique ones.

[WesBrewer]

My dream girl is altered because I've read too many fantasy books so the perfect match is a bit skewed but, body-wise I would say under 5 foot 4 inches, although I'm 6 foot 3 inches I want to be able to pick her up and carry her on my shoulders and hug her and in order to do that she needs thin to some extent, which makes her prettier anyway. I'm a breast type of guy so D to DD cup maybe bigger, but there is such a thing as too big. I don't know butt sizes but a round butt would be nice with standard thicc thighs. and relatively fit body otherwise although my odd preference is clean shaved. face just would look pretty, which almost every girl I see is pretty so practically any face. Regarding personality, I would want a kind girl someone who likes hugs and kisses, someone I can open up to, a person who would walk into a sketchy street ally with me and beat up thugs right by my side, or at least try to. someone who likes outdoors and cars and would be willing to learn to ride motorcycles if she already knew It'd be chill. and that's my dream girl. but as far as I know, there are very few like that and I haven't met one so I can settle for anyone who's beautiful, which most girls are.

[Bang5luts]

I find it unattractive when a woman is not honest about her feelings. Women are very in touch with their feelings. Therefore, I find it very unattractive when they hide them. I understand that women don't want to appear weak. I don't believe it is weak when a woman can feel safe with her significant other enough to share her fears, and aspirations. A woman who is open, honest, self aware, considerate towards others, loving, affectionate, loyal, doesn''t run when confronted with adversity, and woman who is emotionally available is very attractive to me!

[winterfox10]

I don't care how hot a girl is; neediness is going to send me running. Constantly seeking validation and talking up how she deserves to be treated like a queen. Once or twice on occasion? Okay. Anything beyond the point of "I'm posting edgy shit because I stumbled across this meme and found it funny" and I'm going to roll my eyes and stop talking to you.

[BrianMerritt]

Lack of smarts and maturity is the biggest turn off. I want a companion I can rely on, who can think for themselves, and does not complain.
Drinking and drugs is a huge turn-off too. Boozing up is simply not a pastime for me.
Anything that screams high-maintenance. Fancy make-up and clothes for example.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I don't really like women who aren't down to earth. I like confident women for example but if she's only like that because eshe feels like she has something to prove, instant turn off. Please go away, I no longer wish to talk to you.

[David92506]

UNATTRACTIVE
Lashing out
Not listening
Self-absorbed & self-centered
Not one ounce of generosity
Incessant talking
Being rude

[TadCurious]

Seeing her treat other people badly. Pettiness, meanness, etc. But those things are off putting for both genders.

[nodnol32]

If she's submissive and indecisive over everything. Its also unattractive if she's manipulative.