Does game/dating coaching actually work and is it sustainable if you want a long term relationship?

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There are hundreds of male and female dating coaches and PUAs out there and they all broadly say similar things about dating and how to attract women. The question is - does it work and is it sustainable if you’re looking for a long term relationship?

Yes it works but it’s not sustainable

No it doesn’t work

Yes it works and it’s sustainable

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Answer 1

Cataphract | 87 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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It's not that simple. All those "coaches" are onto something, but most of them have absolutely no idea what. Some probably even caught several things. But it can work in some scenarios.

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1 mo
Well what they’re saying makes sense but the problem is most social interaction is an art and everyone has their own style I think. You can’t blanket apply science to these things because there’s so many things you can’t take account of or control.
Cataphract

1 mo
Not really. Communication style and the like don't matter if you pick up on the cues and notice patterns in behaviour. When it comes to texting, that is of course always hard. Which is probably why a lot of those "coaches" say go out and meet the girl in person. Because over text you can't apply science, but in person you always can.

Answer 2

Asker

Well what they’re saying makes sense but the problem is most social interaction is an art and everyone has their own style I think. You can’t blanket apply science to these things because there’s so many things you can’t take account of or control.

Answer 3

Cataphract

Not really. Communication style and the like don't matter if you pick up on the cues and notice patterns in behaviour. When it comes to texting, that is of course always hard. Which is probably why a lot of those "coaches" say go out and meet the girl in person. Because over text you can't apply science, but in person you always can.

Answer 4

WesBrewer | 729 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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It works like the first time you go, that is if the dating coach is a really good one, but it won't last long and sometimes not at all.

Does game/dating coaching actually work and is it sustainable if you want a long term relationship?

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