Why do some people act like they like us, but then rejects our feelings?

[Cynicaldreamer]

Anon, that's a good question! People like that are selfish assholes.

... and if that offended you, that means you're probably one, haha.
I think most of us have been there: we thought someone liked us, only for them to reject us when we try to get with them, or open up to them.

Just... why?
Especially if they know how we feel about them. I dealt with a guy just like that before: he made it seem like he was interested in me, and he knew I liked him! Yet when I asked him out? Friendzoned

Yet he made it seem like he wanted to be with me. I later realized he was just using me for his own selfish reasons: he wanted a girlfriend without the title. So screw that! I moved on.

[Melvinb6521]

Because to acknowledge someone’s feelings, you must be responsible for them. And being responsible means making decisions that might not be the most fun or enjoyable.


Focus on finding someone who would love to be responsible for you and your feelings. I myself would personally enjoy being able to give more info if you’d like. 😁


Feel free to HMU and send a follow, and let’s stay in touch! I also accept DMs if that’s your preference 😉

[SjE78]

because they aren't 100% serious about being with those they claim to... instead they are actually trying to work an angle to get what they want, those types of people aren't interested in the nitty gritty of what counts as true friendships or relationships etc...

[serious]

That is harsh. Well, it could be maybe they just get scared of committing or taking a risk in trying further and hence they pull back and them rejecting you is a result of it.

[Anonymous]

Weirdly, women want pretty much everything to be platonic.

[Anonymous]

sometimes they are inexperienced and they panic when the other person makes the first move

[ItsTheNephilim]

It could be a sort of manipulation tactic.

[Iron_Man]

They aren’t serious people

[jasco]

Cause they like playing with people feelings

[Avicenna]

Not sure what they want or just playing games

[Phoenix_Red]

Girl , same...

[JosyJosy]

Playing games, attention whores etc

[In_Trance]

better offers

[Joker_]

Yeah