Fuck this. What should I do?

[Ozanne]

Well, at least he was nice about it - but it is unfortunately a dead end. You both were in something that was determined to be no-strings, and it just sounds like he held up his end of the bargain. Still hurts though, I know.

"Fuck this", exactly. You tried and it didn't work, so take more of your time and efforts away from something that isn't happening and allow yourself to be available to someone who will value what you have to offer, and love the fact that you are brave enough to tell him how you feel. :) Good luck!

[Samoht_Sirrom1]

Well long story short if you knew it was a "No Strings" relationship you should have at least mentally kept your distance. If you care about this person who doesn't feel the same you have four options two of which I advise you. to consider while the third and forth I only mention as a means of being though and by no means advise or condone.

1) Accept his friendship, build on it and maybe one day he'll feel the same (probably not through)

2) Deny his "friendship" and tell him in no uncertain terms to fuck off

3) Kidnap and torture him until his will is broken and he'll do anything to please you even if you asked him to cut his own dick and balls off (which shouldn't be done because then you wouldn't be able to have Colin with him afterwards)

4) Straight up kill the mother fucker for hurting you.

Again numbers 3) and 4) are just for the sake of being through.

[Gagname]

I wouldn’t do anything. It sucks that he didn’t say anything about how nice it was for you to pour your heart out to him. But, they don’t call it “No Strings Attached” fir nothing.

You shouldn’t sleep with him again, and if he texts you and says when he’s leaving, DON’T meet up with him again but wish him well in his new place & job.

And then cut off all contact with him. And realize there’s someone else out there, and question whether you want to get into another NSA (or friends with benefits) relationship again.

[Screenwriter]

What do you NOT understand about what that man TOLD YOU. He is not INTERESTED in having a relationship other than a friendly sexual one with you.

He has SPECIFICALLY told you that someone will come along who'll meet your needs and it IS NOT HIM.

HE IS MOVING AWAY. Please, girl, move on. He's been straight up front from the beginning.

[Tstrbrainer]

Well, the terms were all set.
He might have given more consideration to you, like kissing you or holding your hands because he might be a more romantic nature. He probably sees you as a friend.

In no strings attached relationships, don't give all your focus to that partner because you might get attached.

Right now, all you can do is ignore and move on.

There are plenty of other guys

[smash4isBetter]

Simple, move on, I've been in a similar situation couple of years ago, so my advice is to say goodbye and find another. Trust me, more fish in the sea.

[AlexanderAnttila]

You can hardly be surprised when you literally just said you had a no strings attached relationship, which I don't support by the way. because in actuality it's impossible to have. Sex and emotion is integral to each other. It's never just physical no matter how much people may pretend it is sometimes.
He's not interested, so move on and this time start a relationship intent on love.

[Anonymous]

Wow, I send my regards, that’s rough. In all honesty, it’s more than clear he does not feel the same way, so I would suggest moving on. I know, easier said than done, as you love him; but it’s really the only option you have. You deserve someone who will reciprocate those romantic feelings!

[KrakenAttackin]

What would you prefer that he say? Should he lie to you and say he loves you too? First, it's hard to love a girl who is willing to be a friends with benefits as she is willingly diminishing her own value.

[Paul09]

Friends with benefits, leave it at that. You can't really make a proper connection based on that type of relationship. You want someone to be serious with. Then don't fuck them till you know them way more. Sex is just a temporary feel good spell lol.

[Guffrus]

You should shit can him if for no other reason than he doesn't return your feelings.

[morganlove]

Sorry it happened. Unfortunately, even with him treating you like a girlfriend, claiming your feelings to a friends with benefits is a gamble. It might change when he thinks about it. Good luck.

[Wise4myage]

Hey, it took courage to do what you did and even though it sucks, at least you know how he feels. Its time to move on and cut him out of your life for good.

[Cataphract]

And that, kids, is the consequence of your hookup culture that you thought was so cool.
You're a hookup. You knew it, he knew it. Showing you off to his family might be just to get them off his back. He was more than clear in the message.

[TessCasie]

oh well! you need to move on! he has decided you aren't for him , I know it hurts

[AFellowWeeb]

then women with this baggage that only go for guys that want to use them as fk toys only, want a charming prince to marry them when they get older, no wonder the divorce rates are all time high

[Anonymous]

So you misread a few cues and feel like he led you on. It happens to guys to. I don't see why you're upset he told you he still supports you. Still considers you a friend.

[joeldalton]

If he’s moving away it wouldn’t worry anyway. So just take your L and move on.

[Wewladdy]

So you're a whore for a man with no morality and even he turned you down. Nice.

[AnthonyJ01]

His problem, not yours. We cannot decide who we fall I love with. It is best to find out now instead of down the road.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It could have been worse John... a lot worse. Anyone want a soda or something?

[iFarted]

Move on? He's was your friends with benefits not your romantic partner.

[Anonymous]

Oh he really funny, funny. Suck it up and move on. Don’t contact him for a week. Not even to wish him good holiday and watch how he switch up!

[Anonymous]

Obviously he doesn’t feel the same so you’ll need to find a guy that does