What does it mean when my ex boyfriend says “I wish you were here”?

[zeitgeist057]

It could mean anything from "I'm tired of masturbating." to "I don't like making my own sandwiches.".

Just kidding. Kind of.

Sorry, but how is anyone on here supposed to have a better idea of what your ex wants than you if we have the same information you do, and we don't know him at all? It's not like all men (or all women) follow the same rules and behaviors. I would say just based in face value off the message that he wishes you were where he is, which means he wants you to be next to him. That sounds like wanting to be with you. I wouldn't go so far as to say that means he wants to be back in a relationship, like I was joking around maybe he's just lonely and/or bored and missing the good parts of being with you.

I know for me I have had gfs in the past when we weren't together I forget all the negative parts and only remember the good stuff., so I get nostalgic and can't even remember why we broke up in the first place. I have even gotten back together with some of them temporarily, until some time later when I am experiencing deja vu and thinking, "Oh yeah, this is why we broke up. How did I forget?" lol

[OlderAndWiser]

It probably means that he is horny and would like to have you in his bed.

How he feels should not influence what you think and what you feel. He is an ex, and there is a reason he is an ex. After a breakup, you miss all of the good things about the relationship and you tend to forget all the bed things that led to the breakup, but. . . if you reunite, you will get the bad along with the good. It might feel good for a few days, because being with someone is better than being alone - especially at Christmas - but you will soon start getting reminders of why you broke up.

If you reunited with him, would anything be different? Is there any valid reason to think that whatever problems you had have been resolved?

[Screenwriter]

Why are you talking to your ex boyfriend? But, on the other hand, I'm sure you were a couple at one time because he liked you. That wish might simply be at the time of your conversation he wished you were there in person because he was having a good time talking to you.
I wouldn't read anything into it.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Still likes you

Be careful about using your real name on a site like this (especially your whole first middle and last name! Damn girl...)

[lordskull69]

The answer it easy to find the next time he says it just say what exactly do you mean when you say that. The answer could be telling even it was not the exact truth pay attention to his voice and how he behaved. And you know on a side note I have known people that when they break up once in awhile it's not a crime if you two both want to go fuck then then go on about your business I don't know what your situation is and then he could be legit missing you I don't know why are everything possible there's just not enough information here but generally speaking he probably just wants to fuck you in any mrs. like the one guy said he misses all the good things you know he might be feeling lonely or whatever but you're only going to get an answer from one person

[PhantomMk]

It’s time to confront him he is either just trying to use up you for sex or he is just trying to make you his side chick. Honestly think to yourself there is a reason you two broke up right? So why the hell is he all of a sudden trying to get back with me. Now while I am not a woman I know somewhat of how you feel and how confusing that statement might be, however you must move on or else once you go back he will realize that you will always come back and he will take advantage. Leave him alone and cut off contact.

[abby172020]

what it means is that he misses you and that he wants you to get back with him and when he says that it is up to you to say something back which i suggest you think if you want to get back with him and if you do then say something back but if you do not want to be with him again then stop that phrase by telling him that you do not want to be him and ask him to stop saying that.

[Schnyder21]

He’s fanaticising.
In an ideal world, yes he would like you there, but your relationship broke down for a reason, a reason he’s not considering.
It’s a bad comment for him to make. Really unfair as it screws with your head.
Confront him and see if he really means it if you want to get back together.

[Wisdom-Strength-Love]

it can. I mean, it could also mean the sex was good or he is going through life problems and he don't got that support he had and misses that. Hope that helps.

[Don-__-Don]

I guess I'm never going to tell a girl that I miss her because I had no idea that so many people just automatically think it means a guy is horny.


Seem like people think pretty low of guys.

[na2398]

There are a few inferences I can make-

1) He wants you to handle a few of his problems
2) He wants you for sex
3) He is not ready to give up on you yet
4) His insecurities bring him to you again. If you have had a few toxic experiences with him, you should back off.

[Superticklighgirl]

It depends.. what was the context? LET ME BE CLEAR - IF HE CHEATED ON YOU, THEN DON'T EVEN BOTHER THINKING ABOUT IT.

[AliceTheNguyener]

Yes that means he still wants you, or at least physically. You shouldn't take it as a compliment since it could just mean he thinks you are easy to get in bed even while not together. 🟥 Avoid him 🟥

[Finchie40]

I had ex girlfriends say this to me , all it means is they are desperate because they are having no luck with anyone else so they reach back out to you out of desperation , don’t fall for it it’s a trap

[JPrez]

Could be legit missing you and wants to get back together with you or could be trick to get your attention on him.

[Inquisitive3]

Most exes will have weak moments and residual feelings.

[CameronStark]

Hannah, you have got to cut off contact with this guy. He is your ex FOR A REASON. You are torturing both yourself and him by staying in contact with him! Stop it! Why are you hurting yourself like this? Why are you hurting him? Just stop!

[Guffrus]

It means he either wants to empty his nuts or he wants a cuddle.

Or he just burnt water again for dinner.

[abc3643]

It means he is listening to this Pink Floyd album:

[S____]

It’s the holiday season... boys tend to do this. Judge his actions not his words. What made you guys fallout. How long has it been. If it’s random out of no where without any phone calls I wouldn’t think much of it.

[1stranger]

I wish you were here or I wish I was there..
He misses his times with you.

[Newhead]

Why shower and still go put the filthy clothes back on? leave exes in the past where they belong.

[SavageGirl101]

He wishes u were with him 🙄it’s literally bright as day

[SunnySri]

It means he might be missing you mam, according to me.