I met this girl in a club last Friday. We danced and kissed and at the end of the night she gave me her number.
I sent her a text on Monday (general how was your weekend) and she replied back instantly. I sent a closed ended text back and since then I've not made any contact (the following Friday tomorrow). Is it to late for me to call her now?
I'm a shy guy, so I guess I've been putting it off, plus we were both pretty drunk at the time.
I'm not being a "girl", I just want to get peoples opinions. I know what I want to say, I just want to see if it matches up.
I'll call anyway. I think that would be better.
Most Helpful Girl
Are you kidding?! 5 days after a text is too long! There's no doubt in my mind that you should call her. If you really like her of course. Guys always wait with the calling or even texting, whatever their reason might be (in your case it's shyness), the harsh truth is that girls generally lose interest if you don't call them or text them 3 days after you first met and then 2 days after that, the sooner the better. But always leave a day in between. If you get good vibes from her and she's signalling that she likes you too you can text/call more often. But be careful, you don't want to look desperate either... There's a fine line between persistence (turn on) and desperation (turn off).
Good luck :) x1