Are my expectations too high? I’m sick and he hasn’t messaged me to ask how I’m feeling yet?

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So been seeing a dude for 3 weeks. On Wednesday I came Down with Covid symptoms and have been really sick after seeing him (he may have been exposed so I probably got it from him). I told him Thursday morning and we chatted and he apologized and we both got tested. But since Thursday he hasn’t checked in on me.. I know we’ve only been on 2 dates but I feel like if he liked me wouldn’t he ask me how I’m feeling? He hasn’t felt sick by the way

Answer 1

CallMeDave | 799 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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I certainly would check on someone I cared about if they were sick like that, whether I was dating her or we were just friends.

I think it's probably a bad sign that he hasn't checked on you, but there could be a reason that doesn't mean he doesn't really care about you.

How do you know he hasn't been feeling sick also? Maybe he is and that's why you haven't heard anything. Also, if he and his family celebrate Christmas, he might have been pretty busy with family things the past two days (though I personally would still have sent at least one text to ask how you were feeling). It's also possible that he's having phone problems. Or maybe he thinks he shouldn't bother you while you aren't feeling well.

If you don't hear from him by Monday, then I think that is bad, but I wouldn't completely write him off quite yet.

Best wishes for a quick recovery. That can be very nasty stuff.

Asker

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Thank you, I think that sounds very logical. I’ll give him a couple more days and try not to jump to a conclusion just yet. And thanks! I’m feeling better so I hope it’s soon gone.
CallMeDave

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It's been a few days since your question. How are you feeling? Hopefully recovered.
What happened with that guy?
Asker

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I am feeling a lot better, thank you for checking in (: that’s so nice of you. We did end up messaging me asking how I was doing Sunday and we have plans to see each other this weekend. (: He still seems a bit aloof with his messaging but I’m trying to just relax about it?

Answer 2

Asker

Thank you, I think that sounds very logical. I’ll give him a couple more days and try not to jump to a conclusion just yet. And thanks! I’m feeling better so I hope it’s soon gone.

Answer 3

CallMeDave

It's been a few days since your question. How are you feeling? Hopefully recovered.
What happened with that guy?

Answer 4

Asker

I am feeling a lot better, thank you for checking in (: that’s so nice of you. We did end up messaging me asking how I was doing Sunday and we have plans to see each other this weekend. (: He still seems a bit aloof with his messaging but I’m trying to just relax about it?

Are my expectations too high? I’m sick and he hasn’t messaged me to ask how I’m feeling yet?

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