I don’t think so. She has a boyfriend
She has a boyfriend so I’m hesitant to reach out first because what is the point?
I was once told a girl so easily stolen from a guy can be very easily stolen from you. Seriously I would never screw around with a girl that has a boyfriend there's nothing but trouble in that nonsense. I did that one time and realized how slutty she really was. Try going for a single girl that has noone I'm sure she'd love the attention and would text the hell out of you. And yes I have been there too.
My thinking is the same as your thinking. I’m just confused because either she likes me or is very friendly and flirty with me.
I have learned not too long ago girls will flirt with you even if they don't like you. These are the types that you don't wanna be bothered with they will just hurt you. I have been in your shoes. You're best if you just move on. Chances are especially if she has a boyfriend she's like that with everyone.
You’re absolutely right. I also work with the girl so this can be a messy situation
Damn dude! from work too!! Why do I feel like I literally went back in time and helped my younger self out? Guess these situations are more common than I thought.
I’ve been told never deal with someone at work so it is definitely common. I guess many people have made that mistake
Well I guess it depends on who you are dealing with I've seen many happy marriages from people who used to work together. But they were single! And that's the key thing there!I hope you don't feel down about it. Look at it this way. If you taken her from her boyfriend how would you feel if someone taken her from you. And that would be on her making that choice not you.If you are having feelings for her right now and fighting it. My best suggestion is making her not like you. Don't be mean to her but no longer be the friend she wants. When you see the bitch side of her it'll probably be so much easier for you to turn those feelings off.
Why is that?
Because they feel more desired when the guy steps up and goes for what he wants. They feel unsexy when they have to make the first move.
So a girl will literally be into you but will never initiate text?
How to go about this? I personally feel this girl likes me and she doesn’t initiate text. I think she has a boyfriend
You go for it. She isn’t married is she? If you want to spend time with her, then plan something and invite her to join you. If she says no, no worries. But if she says yes :)
People say I shouldn’t because if I could steal her from someone else someone could steal her from me.
It’s not a matter of stealing someone, it’s nothing malicious. Obviously if you know she’s in a committed relationship you move on. If she’s worth it and if she has a boyfriend she will decline your invitation anyway. But you told me you are not sure of her relationship status so it’s possible she is single or just talking to others. It’s not stealing to go after someone who is still available.
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Nah I’m hesitant to reach out because she has a boyfriend
The point remains. But that's a different tangent, she probably just genuinely doesn't want to talk to you then if she's not single. Either way, the answer is she's probably not going to do anything actively, whether she wanted to talk to you or not.
Exactly I’m most likely overthinking. She is not thinking about me. She is probably worried about her own relationship. I get surprised when she reaches out to me on holidays
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