True or false if she really wanted to talk to me she would text or call me?

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Answer 1

Yoda

People say false but if someone genuinely wants to do something, they'll do it. It's as simple as that. If you feel strongly about someone you wouldn't put yourself in a position to lose them.

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Answer 2

Anonymous

False. She is probably waiting on you to make a move.

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Asker

1 y
I don’t think so. She has a boyfriend

Answer 3

Asker

I don’t think so. She has a boyfriend

Answer 4

dreamstar72 | 296 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

False maybe she waiting for you to make a move. Its not all about you being a god its about her being the special one in your eyes.

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Asker

1 y
She has a boyfriend so I’m hesitant to reach out first because what is the point?
AsRealAsYouGet

1 y
I was once told a girl so easily stolen from a guy can be very easily stolen from you. Seriously I would never screw around with a girl that has a boyfriend there's nothing but trouble in that nonsense. I did that one time and realized how slutty she really was. Try going for a single girl that has noone I'm sure she'd love the attention and would text the hell out of you. And yes I have been there too.
Asker

1 y
My thinking is the same as your thinking. I’m just confused because either she likes me or is very friendly and flirty with me.
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AsRealAsYouGet

1 y
I have learned not too long ago girls will flirt with you even if they don't like you. These are the types that you don't wanna be bothered with they will just hurt you. I have been in your shoes. You're best if you just move on. Chances are especially if she has a boyfriend she's like that with everyone.
Asker

1 y
You’re absolutely right. I also work with the girl so this can be a messy situation
AsRealAsYouGet

1 y
Damn dude! from work too!! Why do I feel like I literally went back in time and helped my younger self out? Guess these situations are more common than I thought.
Asker

1 y
I’ve been told never deal with someone at work so it is definitely common. I guess many people have made that mistake
AsRealAsYouGet

1 y
Well I guess it depends on who you are dealing with I've seen many happy marriages from people who used to work together. But they were single! And that's the key thing there!
I hope you don't feel down about it. Look at it this way. If you taken her from her boyfriend how would you feel if someone taken her from you. And that would be on her making that choice not you.
If you are having feelings for her right now and fighting it. My best suggestion is making her not like you. Don't be mean to her but no longer be the friend she wants. When you see the bitch side of her it'll probably be so much easier for you to turn those feelings off.

Answer 5

Asker

She has a boyfriend so I’m hesitant to reach out first because what is the point?

Answer 6

AsRealAsYouGet

I was once told a girl so easily stolen from a guy can be very easily stolen from you. Seriously I would never screw around with a girl that has a boyfriend there's nothing but trouble in that nonsense. I did that one time and realized how slutty she really was. Try going for a single girl that has noone I'm sure she'd love the attention and would text the hell out of you. And yes I have been there too.

Answer 7

Asker

My thinking is the same as your thinking. I’m just confused because either she likes me or is very friendly and flirty with me.

Answer 8

AsRealAsYouGet

I have learned not too long ago girls will flirt with you even if they don't like you. These are the types that you don't wanna be bothered with they will just hurt you. I have been in your shoes. You're best if you just move on. Chances are especially if she has a boyfriend she's like that with everyone.

Answer 9

Asker

You’re absolutely right. I also work with the girl so this can be a messy situation

Answer 10

AsRealAsYouGet

Damn dude! from work too!! Why do I feel like I literally went back in time and helped my younger self out? Guess these situations are more common than I thought.

Answer 11

Asker

I’ve been told never deal with someone at work so it is definitely common. I guess many people have made that mistake

Answer 12

AsRealAsYouGet

Well I guess it depends on who you are dealing with I've seen many happy marriages from people who used to work together. But they were single! And that's the key thing there!
I hope you don't feel down about it. Look at it this way. If you taken her from her boyfriend how would you feel if someone taken her from you. And that would be on her making that choice not you.
If you are having feelings for her right now and fighting it. My best suggestion is making her not like you. Don't be mean to her but no longer be the friend she wants. When you see the bitch side of her it'll probably be so much easier for you to turn those feelings off.

Answer 13

DavidFox

Yoda

False. Some girls will wait for the guy to initiate.

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1 y
Why is that?
DavidFox

1 y
Because they feel more desired when the guy steps up and goes for what he wants. They feel unsexy when they have to make the first move.
Asker

1 y
So a girl will literally be into you but will never initiate text?
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DavidFox

1 y
Exactly
Asker

1 y
How to go about this? I personally feel this girl likes me and she doesn’t initiate text. I think she has a boyfriend
DavidFox

1 y
You go for it. She isn’t married is she? If you want to spend time with her, then plan something and invite her to join you. If she says no, no worries. But if she says yes :)
Asker

1 y
People say I shouldn’t because if I could steal her from someone else someone could steal her from me.
DavidFox

1 y
It’s not a matter of stealing someone, it’s nothing malicious. Obviously if you know she’s in a committed relationship you move on. If she’s worth it and if she has a boyfriend she will decline your invitation anyway. But you told me you are not sure of her relationship status so it’s possible she is single or just talking to others. It’s not stealing to go after someone who is still available.

Answer 14

Asker

Why is that?

Answer 15

DavidFox

Because they feel more desired when the guy steps up and goes for what he wants. They feel unsexy when they have to make the first move.

Answer 16

Asker

So a girl will literally be into you but will never initiate text?

Answer 17

DavidFox

Exactly

Answer 18

Asker

How to go about this? I personally feel this girl likes me and she doesn’t initiate text. I think she has a boyfriend

Answer 19

DavidFox

You go for it. She isn’t married is she? If you want to spend time with her, then plan something and invite her to join you. If she says no, no worries. But if she says yes :)

Answer 20

Asker

People say I shouldn’t because if I could steal her from someone else someone could steal her from me.

Answer 21

DavidFox

It’s not a matter of stealing someone, it’s nothing malicious. Obviously if you know she’s in a committed relationship you move on. If she’s worth it and if she has a boyfriend she will decline your invitation anyway. But you told me you are not sure of her relationship status so it’s possible she is single or just talking to others. It’s not stealing to go after someone who is still available.

Answer 22

Anonymous

False. She will use the same rationale to dissuade herself from taking an active role.
But I think you know that and are baiting women. Let's see if it works.

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Asker

1 y
Nah I’m hesitant to reach out because she has a boyfriend
Opinion Owner

1 y
The point remains. But that's a different tangent, she probably just genuinely doesn't want to talk to you then if she's not single. Either way, the answer is she's probably not going to do anything actively, whether she wanted to talk to you or not.
Asker

1 y
Exactly I’m most likely overthinking. She is not thinking about me. She is probably worried about her own relationship. I get surprised when she reaches out to me on holidays

Answer 23

Asker

Nah I’m hesitant to reach out because she has a boyfriend

Answer 24

Opinion Owner

The point remains. But that's a different tangent, she probably just genuinely doesn't want to talk to you then if she's not single. Either way, the answer is she's probably not going to do anything actively, whether she wanted to talk to you or not.

Answer 25

Asker

Exactly I’m most likely overthinking. She is not thinking about me. She is probably worried about her own relationship. I get surprised when she reaches out to me on holidays

Answer 26

Anonymous

Hell yeah but sometimes you have to start things!

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