To date or not to date?

Question

Is it odd if a guy, who was a stranger prior, asks for you guys to be exclusive after a second date? I have dated guys in the past exclusively, but I knew more about their background, being that we started out as friends or acquaintances.

Answer 1

MecheD | 201 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Well usually a man who asks for an exclusive relationship. He is a majority of the time insecure about his dating past and wants to shake things up with a hope the outcome is different.

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zeewee392

1 y
So this is a negative thing right?
MecheD

1 y
It can be but than again I’d ask more about his past to find out. So more so I’d say proceed with caution ⚠️
zeewee392

1 y
Yeah I will, I decided to not be exclusive with him since I did not know his past and he was not giving me much detail on the significant parts of his past.
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MecheD

1 y
That’s a great decision but if anything I don’t think you should stop talking to him simply because of that he may be a great guy as well. With that being said this will give him some confidence if that was the case. Good luck

Answer 2

zeewee392

So this is a negative thing right?

Answer 3

MecheD

It can be but than again I’d ask more about his past to find out. So more so I’d say proceed with caution ⚠️

Answer 4

zeewee392

Yeah I will, I decided to not be exclusive with him since I did not know his past and he was not giving me much detail on the significant parts of his past.

Answer 5

MecheD

That’s a great decision but if anything I don’t think you should stop talking to him simply because of that he may be a great guy as well. With that being said this will give him some confidence if that was the case. Good luck

Answer 6

Tyrael | 314 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

If nothing else it should tell you that he must be genuinely interested in you.

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zeewee392

1 y
I guess

Answer 7

zeewee392

I guess

Answer 8

heres-my-op

Xper 1

If you see potential in him to be your partner, then you can agree. else just respectfully disagree and tell you need to spend more time with him to get to know him before proceeding to the level.

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zeewee392

1 y
Yeah. I am respectfully declining

Answer 9

zeewee392

Yeah. I am respectfully declining

Answer 10

Wise4myage | 4.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

That's way to soon in my opinion and likely a red flag.

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zeewee392

1 y
I agree

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zeewee392

I agree

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slatyb | 7.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Yeah that's weird. He sounds desperate.

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zeewee392

1 y
Yeah I think so. That’s what scared me

Answer 13

zeewee392

Yeah I think so. That’s what scared me

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Miristheiss | 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

2 dates is early for that to be coming up.

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zeewee392

1 y
Yeah I agree

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zeewee392

Yeah I agree

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Avicenna | 11K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

It just means he’s decisive

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zeewee392

1 y
I feel like it does mean this but after only two dates? Isn’t that kind of quick?
Avicenna

1 y
It can be. How did the dates go? How much did you communicate with each other outside the dates?
zeewee392

1 y
The dates were good and we communicated everyday. The only thing is that he was vague on his past.
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Avicenna

1 y
Then you shouldn’t agree to go exclusive until you’re comfortable with his past
zeewee392

1 y
Yeah you’re right