Do girls have higher standards than us guys when it comes to looks?

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They say that we're the shallow sex yet i see dudes dating all kinds of girls. Skinny, overweight etc. And they seem to be pretty set on just one particular kind of look. Fit or athletic or over 6ft. So what gives? Why call us shallow or having higher standards if they're arguably more? 😒

Answer 1

btbc92 | 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

First of all, self-esteem, self-worth, understanding yourself, confidence, self-awareness, and learning to love yourself as a person is important. The truth is no we don't because every woman and girl is NOT the same. The same is for men. Shallow people are shallow people. It doesn't matter the sex or gender.

"They say that we're the shallow sex yet i see dudes dating all kinds of girls." Because men want sex. They don't care where they get sex from as long as she is a female, with a working real vagina, if she has some kind of sex appeal and the ability to bear his children. Any woman wants to be picked by a man. The more sexually attractive, the more the women want him because it leads to sex. In the end, people don't want to wake up and have kids with somebody that in their opinion finds ugly and sexually repulsive. Should that mean you should be neglected of love? No. But that is why there is so much sex, and not a lot of love. They love sex and its benefits and other things (kids, material things, emotions, energy, money). But without the benefits, they don't love. That's why God called all of us to be better than that. While he made us and designed us by his standards of beauty, as humans are also art, he called us to love each other. And not for personal gain. Something that human beings have to been told into a lie.

"Skinny, overweight etc." That's just people. Some like skinny, overweight or whatever, it depends on WHY Though. Just because I am skinny why should a man come to me just because I'm skinny? There are plenty of other skinny women who want to be seen, praised, and wanted for their physical assets. But I am a human being and a soul who loves because I LOVE. A man who praises me for my body is with me for the body. And that is not attractive to me. A man who is with me because I have smarts is with me for smarts. But if I was dumb? The difference is I have a desire to learn. But a person who doesn't want to learn is another.

"And they seem to be pretty set on just one particular kind of look. Fit or athletic or over 6ft." You know why? Just like men want a woman with big boobs, enough fat for fertility so does it show for men. The tall men in the general meaning as long as a man is taller than her is masculine. Here is what I mean. A 3'2 man for a 5'7 woman may not work. She may assume not only that he isn't able to protect her, or even reputation, for some women they think about how they may be sexually and the challenges that pose of it. But a guy who is at least 5'9-6'0 usually works because they compliment. It's not that he is 6 feet. But in my experience, many couples or those dating often have the women shorter than the man by 2-4 inches in the difference. Around the same ratio in weight and portion in body. Anything too different from the other comes off like an oddity. And may pose internal problems in the relationship, and external problems (reputation, bullying, social rejection). But fit and athletic people are seen as healthy. While anything not that is either neutral or unhealthy.

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"So what gives? Why call us shallow or having higher standards if they're arguably more?" Because history has shown that women have sadly have been treated less in many countries, civilizations, and nations of people throughout the generations and society. The only one that seems to make better sense is during the times of the early biblical accounts. But even then there were problems because of sexual sin and immorality. Places like ancient Greece, Rome has never seen women as more except for procreation and sex. And worse off during the middle ages where being born a woman meant you are higher risks of being raped. If raped and defiled you couldn't marry. If you are a virgin you would be forced to marry young as 13. And a child in the coming months or a year. If you didn't have children, you weren't permitted to be legally married. Girls would be married to whoever wanted her with money, status, and the benefits of creating heirs. This means the younger she is, the more likely she would be married off to somebody twice and sometimes 4x her age. Her looks sexually meant everything.
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Further down the line in the late middle ages to the renaissance, prostitution eventually became legal because of the plague. Women worked instead of marrying, had families much later, left younger men bachelors and they often paid for sex because they were never married. Families so poor they often place their daughters into whore houses. Women in general WANTS to be LOVED. All those that say otherwise just want revenge on men because the men they had treated them bad or rejected them.

Men again are more shallow than women because men as the saying go need sex. Women don't need sex. We want love but can want sex. Men can want love but don't need love as long as you have sex. Love and sex don't mix. Love is not the product of sex, but that is what the world is taught. But sex is a product of love, that is how God made it. But true love comes from the father which is God, our creator. But how many people care about God, what he says, and actually wants to do it his way? Not that many. That's why girls do it with looks. That's why women hate it but benefit if it means SURVIVAL. It's not higher standards. In fact, it is not a standard. It's a preference for sex basically. Because men are sexual. Women will have to use their body to their advantage. But many men are catching on, so now they get to where we have a hard time healing: her emotions and mind. That's why women victims of abuse and rape than to be more resilient than men because most men don't have to suffer the same fate as women. A man can easily survive. That's why women died more than men. A man and a woman cannot conceive children without the other. A man needs a woman's womb to plant his seed, and a woman needs a man's sperm which is his seed. Since men no longer tend to his garden a woman must now tend and plow and hoe herself. Not that kind of hoeing but, sadly that's also the case.
btbc92

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Many men will look and read this and may ask "So now it's MEN'S fault?" Yes, and no. It's satan's fault. But men like women have been lied to for centuries. That's why God's word says that his people perish for the lack of knowledge. More than 80% lack of knowledge. This is why feminism is rampant, but men don't want the responsibility anymore. They want to go back to the middle ages and ancient civilizations for control and whoredoms. That's what you see down here. All ancient kingdoms in one. It's whoredoms and God is displeased.

So until men reevaluate why they want and need a woman. Women will continue to use men as many men will continue to use women, and everybody technically ends up using each other.
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Asker

23 d
Get back in the kitchen
btbc92

23 d
Why don't you go back in the kitchen? Probably don't know how to cook. 😂
btbc92

23 d
if that's how you going to go around treating women and treating people that's why your butt is single. You don't need to be with a woman.
Asker

22 d
I can just pay em and they'll come around lol
btbc92

22 d
No. You just need to stay single. Nobody is your product on a shelf. Money dont mean anything if your not a person worth being around.

Answer 2

btbc92

"So what gives? Why call us shallow or having higher standards if they're arguably more?" Because history has shown that women have sadly have been treated less in many countries, civilizations, and nations of people throughout the generations and society. The only one that seems to make better sense is during the times of the early biblical accounts. But even then there were problems because of sexual sin and immorality. Places like ancient Greece, Rome has never seen women as more except for procreation and sex. And worse off during the middle ages where being born a woman meant you are higher risks of being raped. If raped and defiled you couldn't marry. If you are a virgin you would be forced to marry young as 13. And a child in the coming months or a year. If you didn't have children, you weren't permitted to be legally married. Girls would be married to whoever wanted her with money, status, and the benefits of creating heirs. This means the younger she is, the more likely she would be married off to somebody twice and sometimes 4x her age. Her looks sexually meant everything.

Answer 3

btbc92

Further down the line in the late middle ages to the renaissance, prostitution eventually became legal because of the plague. Women worked instead of marrying, had families much later, left younger men bachelors and they often paid for sex because they were never married. Families so poor they often place their daughters into whore houses. Women in general WANTS to be LOVED. All those that say otherwise just want revenge on men because the men they had treated them bad or rejected them.

Men again are more shallow than women because men as the saying go need sex. Women don't need sex. We want love but can want sex. Men can want love but don't need love as long as you have sex. Love and sex don't mix. Love is not the product of sex, but that is what the world is taught. But sex is a product of love, that is how God made it. But true love comes from the father which is God, our creator. But how many people care about God, what he says, and actually wants to do it his way? Not that many. That's why girls do it with looks. That's why women hate it but benefit if it means SURVIVAL. It's not higher standards. In fact, it is not a standard. It's a preference for sex basically. Because men are sexual. Women will have to use their body to their advantage. But many men are catching on, so now they get to where we have a hard time healing: her emotions and mind. That's why women victims of abuse and rape than to be more resilient than men because most men don't have to suffer the same fate as women. A man can easily survive. That's why women died more than men. A man and a woman cannot conceive children without the other. A man needs a woman's womb to plant his seed, and a woman needs a man's sperm which is his seed. Since men no longer tend to his garden a woman must now tend and plow and hoe herself. Not that kind of hoeing but, sadly that's also the case.

Answer 4

btbc92

Many men will look and read this and may ask "So now it's MEN'S fault?" Yes, and no. It's satan's fault. But men like women have been lied to for centuries. That's why God's word says that his people perish for the lack of knowledge. More than 80% lack of knowledge. This is why feminism is rampant, but men don't want the responsibility anymore. They want to go back to the middle ages and ancient civilizations for control and whoredoms. That's what you see down here. All ancient kingdoms in one. It's whoredoms and God is displeased.

So until men reevaluate why they want and need a woman. Women will continue to use men as many men will continue to use women, and everybody technically ends up using each other.

Answer 5

Asker

Get back in the kitchen

Answer 6

btbc92

Why don't you go back in the kitchen? Probably don't know how to cook. 😂

Answer 7

btbc92

if that's how you going to go around treating women and treating people that's why your butt is single. You don't need to be with a woman.

Answer 8

Asker

I can just pay em and they'll come around lol

Answer 9

btbc92

No. You just need to stay single. Nobody is your product on a shelf. Money dont mean anything if your not a person worth being around.

Answer 10

Lizzzzz288283 | 122 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

No. I usually see super beautiful women with crappy looking men

Asker

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Money has magical powers

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Asker

Money has magical powers

Answer 12

Anonymous

I don't think its exactly true. I think what happens is unlike guys a 10 guy is willing go down to get some. They now start believing that they are 10 material and it is hard to see outside. You know once you are rich it's hard to live being poor. Anyway so they get skewed thinking that the 10 is going to want to marry them. The 10 has all these options so he isn't going to settle for a long time and when he does its going to be someone close to him. I'm not saying that doesn't happen to guys either. I dated a girl who I considered a 10. I think I'm maybe a 5 on a good day. So I try to swipe around the 5 area but they all go to the 6 to 8 guys and the 1-4 girls all swipe on me and it's like you do not fit me at all what are you think. I ride mountain bike and I'm intrest oriented. It's in my profile. The mountain bike couldn't hold up to your stature.

Answer 13

In_Trance | 3.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

not really. Have you seen some of the fkn clowns that good looking girls end up with?

Answer 14

Anonymous

No lmao a million times no

Opinion Owner

23 d
Aha and are these guys that you were talking about who said "no" to society and dared to date an overweight (oh GOD) woman all over 6ft and athletic? I guess not.
Asker

23 d
Why do you say that? You know it's true
Opinion Owner

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... that they were? Hahah I'm pretty sure they weren't like that you just forgot to think about what you were saying lol

Answer 15

Opinion Owner

Aha and are these guys that you were talking about who said "no" to society and dared to date an overweight (oh GOD) woman all over 6ft and athletic? I guess not.

Answer 16

Asker

Why do you say that? You know it's true

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

... that they were? Hahah I'm pretty sure they weren't like that you just forgot to think about what you were saying lol

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