Girls, Dating sites are hard?

Question

When you go on a dating web site is it ok to ask the women you message and did not here back from if they could tell you what did you do to not get a response back?

Answer 1

devilish-cutie | 911 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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if you do not get response back she is not interested, it is simple as that

Onecurse

13 d
Can i ask her why?
devilish-cutie

13 d
Why would you ask that? Than youd get offwnded by her saying im not attracted to you or whatever. Noone wants to hear that. Once a guy asked me why and how could he improve. I mean take no for an answer.
Onecurse

13 d
Because it our way of asking what is wrong with me? Low self esteem is a bitch.
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devilish-cutie

13 d
you shouldn't base your worth over one or few girls that rejected you. Often it has nothing to do with you but people being who they are and having different preferences. We all have them. Im sure you also have criteria on what kind of girl youd want, not every girl would reject you but also you wouldn't want any girl either.
Onecurse

11 d
Yes but it does make ant defects i still feel like shit. When i have messaged 20 to 30 women and no one replies back.
devilish-cutie

8 d
it's beacuse you don't consider do you really have something in common with those women. You must go for someone you actually see real potential with otherwise it's like pissing in the wind. Dating is hard for everyone. And online also is different than RL.
Onecurse

6 d
Now i know it is based on race. People let black guys say some of the most messed up things an the same girls i messaged with a white guy profile. Was respectful and kind. They always chose the asshole black guy.

Answer 2

Onecurse

Can i ask her why?

Answer 3

devilish-cutie

Why would you ask that? Than youd get offwnded by her saying im not attracted to you or whatever. Noone wants to hear that. Once a guy asked me why and how could he improve. I mean take no for an answer.

Answer 4

Onecurse

Because it our way of asking what is wrong with me? Low self esteem is a bitch.

Answer 5

devilish-cutie

you shouldn't base your worth over one or few girls that rejected you. Often it has nothing to do with you but people being who they are and having different preferences. We all have them. Im sure you also have criteria on what kind of girl youd want, not every girl would reject you but also you wouldn't want any girl either.

Answer 6

Onecurse

Yes but it does make ant defects i still feel like shit. When i have messaged 20 to 30 women and no one replies back.

Answer 7

devilish-cutie

it's beacuse you don't consider do you really have something in common with those women. You must go for someone you actually see real potential with otherwise it's like pissing in the wind. Dating is hard for everyone. And online also is different than RL.

Answer 8

Onecurse

Now i know it is based on race. People let black guys say some of the most messed up things an the same girls i messaged with a white guy profile. Was respectful and kind. They always chose the asshole black guy.

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