How do you become an attractive and desirable man?

Question

Most of the advice I hear about is be tall and rich.

I have a friend who is 45 - he is tall, good looking and rich. But he is still highly unsuccessful with women.

What advise would you give to someone who is trying to find a good life partner?

Answer 1

Anonymous

Be relentless if you can stand it. Ask the woman out if she rejects you ask her sister out. Women are a numbers game. Problem is most guys can't stomach the rejection. If every woman rejects you you're probably aiming to high. Ask uglier women out if you can stomach them. If all else fails consider becoming a priest. ( and no i don't mean because of the little boys)

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karangill

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Women do make men self-conscious like nothing else. What did you mean by aiming too high?

Also, good sense of humor
Opinion Owner

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Aiming too high. Like they're out of your league in many respects and you know it.
karangill

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Well, I'm not sure anymore what my league is because even less good looking women (fat or not with attractive features) tells me they have hundreds of option to choose from, so I'm not sure how would one compete?
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Avicenna

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Do not worry about the competition, real or imagined. You can control what you do.

Answer 2

karangill

Women do make men self-conscious like nothing else. What did you mean by aiming too high?

Also, good sense of humor

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

Aiming too high. Like they're out of your league in many respects and you know it.

Answer 4

karangill

Well, I'm not sure anymore what my league is because even less good looking women (fat or not with attractive features) tells me they have hundreds of option to choose from, so I'm not sure how would one compete?

Answer 5

Avicenna

Do not worry about the competition, real or imagined. You can control what you do.

Answer 6

Avicenna | 10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

First, prioritize what’s most important about her- what will she need to be like in certain aspects to be a compatible partner for you, then ignore the extraneous stuff.

Then, take a good hard look at yourself. Are you content with yourself? If not, what are the changes you’ll need to make?

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karangill

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If I had to choose right off the bat - attractive and responsible (someone who wouldn't sacrifice future for the present impulses or desires)
Avicenna

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Then your appearance needs to be optimized as well and you need to have the best career and financial situation that’s realistically possible for you. What’s your current employment?
karangill

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How does one Optimize appearance?

I'm working a 10 dollar job full time but I'm working towards a college degree simultaneously.
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Avicenna

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Keep your weight in check, dress nicely, make sure your hair looks good, and either shave ir take care of your facial hair.

Thanks for the mho
karangill

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Thank you. I guess that's what I can do, whatever is in my control rather than blaming something which isn't in my control and suffering unnecessary
Avicenna

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Exactly. Meeting someone can ge totally random, by the way.

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karangill

If I had to choose right off the bat - attractive and responsible (someone who wouldn't sacrifice future for the present impulses or desires)

Answer 8

Avicenna

Then your appearance needs to be optimized as well and you need to have the best career and financial situation that’s realistically possible for you. What’s your current employment?