- You can't. You have to straight up say it. Grow some ovaries.
If you don't tell him, he'll never know.
Especially over long distance, because he's going to be skeptical of you anyway. (I mean, there's a good possibility that he doesn't even know for sure if you're real or not.).
He wants something solid to go on. Continued vagueness just means he'll consider you a non-option and he'll eventually fall in love with another girl and marry her. And then you will have missed your chance.
Even if he REALLY likes you, he's not going to wait for you if you don't give him a reason to wait.0|10|0Is this still revelant?A reason to wait for you to fall in love with him. A reason to wait to meet you. A reason to wait to develop and grow a relationship.
A lot of men (including myself) are fully capable of waiting for a woman. But there has to be a point.
- Drop hints like: "You like chatting with him" "You always look forward to hearing from him" "You wish he lived close so you could meet in person" and see how he reacts.1|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- Well mam, if that guy is like me then you would have to tell him directly but if he is a bit persceptive then you can tell him or appreciate him like telling him you like his replies, or you wait for his texts, just appreciate his good points a bit.
I would suggest a direct approach mam but if you fear you will lose him then try the second method.1|00|0Probably sir, it won't with me but maybe with the guy mam is talking about, it might work.
- If you are a group of friends try to be closer to him and make it clear that you are close to him and if you are not a shy person like me just tell him that you like him boys loves that anyways and good luck wish you the best1|00|0
- Say some “weird shit”. It shows you are comfortable with this variable. An example is “Beytonv WetvenA Yeet”. It means “your face is mine”.0|00|0
- "do you think we could be more than friends"
"I like you, I think your handsome and funny"
some guys don't get hints.0|10|0 - What are you REALLY trying to hint? If you're already talking to him, he probably figures you "like him". Are you trying to say "I'd like you to know I would fancy a relationship with you?"0|00|1
So you want to be romantically involved? You're not going to get anywhere if your attitude is " I don't have any chance though, probably". Keep thinking like that and you've already lost, so why bother? You have two choices - remove yourself from the friend zone and see what happens, or don't. Which do you choose?
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@Asker @loveslongnails is right. You have to go for it.
"I'm just being realistic.". You're afraid of something. What are you afraid of?"Also, he refers to me as "... my friend." Isn't that saying I'm only a friend?"
@Asker It depends. Can you add more context, please? On what occasion did he say this, and to whom? And what was the venue?I would say that if that was the way she was treating me. Relationships are a 2-way street. We don't get to arbitrarily declare ourselves to be someone's lover if they aren't receptive to it.
Here's the point Asker... right now, you're in the friend zone. The only thing that will change that is action on his part, or on your part. You can wait for him to act. If he doesn't, you're still in the friend zone. Or, you can act. If he says he wants to keep it in the friend zone, then you're STILL where you were before. But if he wants to take it to another level, then it worked. What have you got to lose? Pride? Way overrated. Do you think he'll drop you altogether if you let him know you'd like more, so you're afraid you'll lose him as a friend too? Guess what? If he does that, he wasn't a friend in the first place.
So the ONLY action that is a loss for you is to do nothing, in which case, that's what you'll get... nothing more than you have now.
- If you hint. You aren't going to get much of anywhere to someone who is dense. I would just straight up tell them and casually bring it up0|10|0
No, don't even "casually" bring it up. Bring it up directly. You need to be like "Hey, MFer. We need to talk. It's important."
- Move in close while making small talk. Touch his arm. Unzip his pants, take out his hog and suck him off. He will take the hint.0|01|1
- You need to do more than hint, otherwise he won’t get it.0|10|0
- Just come out and tell him0|10|0
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Even if you do tell him and he says that he doesn't feel the same way, that doesn't mean that you're going to lose him as a friend.
- don't hint. Guys are dumb. make it crystal clear0|10|0
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