Why wouldn’t he commit to me?

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We got on really well, seemed to have similar views on things and had good chemistry. By his own admission, we got on really well and were attracted to each other. And i could tell by the look in his eyes that he fancied me..
We were both good looking, I had a good job and he was unemployed which he seemed to be insecure about. But he was the one who ended it with me without really giving a proper reason.
Since then I've felt massively insecure and trying to search for the reason why he wouldn't commit despite the fact we got on well and were atrracted to each other.

Answer 1

Jonn123

Xper 4

Well, who knows. Something might have changed, people change their mind sometimes. It sucks! Especially at a young age, men and women aren't ready to commit.

But time heals all wounds, and you'll eventually find someone who will commit. As for the insecurity you're experiencing, remember that usually it's about them, not you. Keep that in mind.

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Answer 2

jshm2 | 921 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Probably because you were good friend material, but not relationship material.

There is a large difference between the two.

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But we had a physical relationship and he fancied me :(

Answer 3

Asker

But we had a physical relationship and he fancied me :(

Answer 4

In_Trance | 6.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Cleary he didn't see it the way you did.

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