Girls, would you be okay with your boyfriend chilling with his female friend at his house just them two alone? What if he did it behind your back?

[Bella_Iris]

Honestly, I blow hot and cold on this topic.

Yes, for the suspicion you write about in the headline is very concerning... but this is all about trust you have in him and the faith that you hope that he'd tell you. I guess it kind of depends on the type of person he is. Is he the type to be a flirt to other girls? Does that other girl like him-- or have feelings for him? Have they both been friends for longer than your relationship? Was that girl and him in a relationship anytime at all in his past? I think personally these are all the questions to consider in order to conclude to an answer.

On the other side of the coin, I feel like if he is TRULY, GENUINELY committed to you and ONLY YOU. then there will be no question in it. If he truly loves you he won't fuck up. lmao. It's clear as that. And you have to trust him... and I know that part can still be difficult to grasp.

Hope this helps! :)

[krysten02]

I’m a somewhat jealous person so if he were to hang out with a female friend it would make me jealous, but I would be okay with it. Although, if he did it behind my back absolutely not. However, if I’m uncomfortable with my boyfriend doing something I can gladly tell him and he won’t do it.

[yucychan]

No, I would not.
It's even worse if he is doing it behind my back.

[Gwenhwyfar]

If he was honest I’d probably be cool with it