Girls, is this guy embarrassing?

Question

Let’s say you have a young man in his 20s. He’s rich but you only see a well dressed young man. His card declines in an airport and asks a girl he knows to give him cash. You can see this.

Do women think it’s embarrassing because they seek money in men? Does it make them think he is broke?

It’s not embarrassing / not a big deal

It’s embarrassing because women are gold diggers

It’s embarrassing

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Answer 1

SueShe | 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Influencer

It is embarrassing both for the guy and the girl.

For the guy because he does not seem to be as rich as he may think if his credit card payment is declined. If he was really as rich as he pretends, he would have

1. a very high credit limit
2. more than just one credit card

For the girl it is embarrassing because she will definitely think that he is attempting to pick her up/ hit on her since he is putting so much emphasis on good looks and the way he is smartly dressed. Again, it would give the impression that there is nothing but show and that this guy is a player and nothing more. A very superficial guy with a very clumsy attempt to hit on a girl.

Asker

15 d
Cards decline for no reason most of the time.
Asker

15 d
Sorry but your attitude in this question is horrible. Like shit happens and you learn a lesson
SueShe

15 d
Why does the guy not ask another guy. That makes much more sense and does not give the impression that he is attempting to hit on the girl.
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Asker

15 d
It’s a friend. How on earth is this hitting on a girl. It’s like the complete opposite
SueShe

15 d
Okay, as you wish but there is no mention whatsoever of a friend in your question.
Asker

15 d
The fact you think he’s hitting on her just goes to show why men can’t really talk to women. They all think we want them when we’re just trying to say something normal. I said a girl he knows so it doesn’t imply stranger.
SueShe

15 d
again okay. To know someone does not mean that they are friends. You have my reply and yes, this guy is embarrassing.

You give me one more reason not to have a credit card since apparently the sales is declined more often than not. Thanks for the good advice.

Answer 2

Asker

Cards decline for no reason most of the time.

Answer 3

Asker

Sorry but your attitude in this question is horrible. Like shit happens and you learn a lesson

Answer 4

SueShe

Why does the guy not ask another guy. That makes much more sense and does not give the impression that he is attempting to hit on the girl.

Answer 5

Asker

It’s a friend. How on earth is this hitting on a girl. It’s like the complete opposite

Answer 6

SueShe

Okay, as you wish but there is no mention whatsoever of a friend in your question.

Answer 7

Asker

The fact you think he’s hitting on her just goes to show why men can’t really talk to women. They all think we want them when we’re just trying to say something normal. I said a girl he knows so it doesn’t imply stranger.

Answer 8

SueShe

again okay. To know someone does not mean that they are friends. You have my reply and yes, this guy is embarrassing.

You give me one more reason not to have a credit card since apparently the sales is declined more often than not. Thanks for the good advice.

Answer 9

Secret6620 | 4.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

It's not embarrassing. It happens to the best of us. Sometimes it can't be helped. Like for instance, the bank can have problems or freeze your card if you spend over your limit for that day because it looks like fraudulent activity.

So anyone who judges a guy for his card declining is shallow and doesn't deserve your time or attention.

Great question!!

Secret6620

12 d
Thanks for most helpful girl 😊

Answer 10

Secret6620

Thanks for most helpful girl 😊

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