Do you think it is wrong I have high standards?

[TeeBar]

I assume that you are referencing personal relationships. If your standards are too high, I hope you like living with cats. All sets of standards should "But if..." clauses to allow for unusual or unexpected events that do not fit in your neat little box. For guys, their high standards usually collapse when a nice rack shows up accompanied by a sweet smile. I don't know the aspects of a female's sudden surrender of will when faced with a set of "Oh Wow!" male characteristics but they are probably similar.

[MusicaWolf]

It's okay to have high standards, but it's also important to be realistic. Being a guy who has to deal with peoples' unrealistic expectations on grindr, it is important to learn what is important and what is, honestly, a bonus. Having high standards can be wonderful, but dont be afraid to compromise your standards if they're more about convenience/stability than if it's about safety. If you stand firm on high standards, it wouldn't be surprising if it'll take longer to find what you're looking for.

Think about it: If you're looking for a guy, you have a higher chance to find a guy. Similarly, if you are more specific with your type of guy, including things like his job, mental state, etc, you will have a smaller chance to find what you're looking for. And the funniest part is that person has to also be into you as well. That being said, keep your high standards realistic.

[AdithyaR]

It's never wrong to have high standards. But you gotta remember that a relationship is about what both people bring into it. If you have high standards, you gotta be able to match it yourself.
For example, if I want a girl who's fit, I'd make sure I'm just as fit and healthy. If I want a girl who's well educated, I gotta be the same.

[Finnigan_Schminnigan]

Not at all. We all have preferences and its wrong to feel shamed for that. There is a thing as standards that are too high though. Superman doesn't exist, but good, and intelligent men do.

[Bananaman177]

Just because your standards are high, doesn't mean your standards are smart.

[Bhavin2184]

It is okay to have high standard..
But not okay to have stupid superficial standard..

[Grond21]

Depends on what the standards are. But in general, it's a good idea to have high standards

[Snakeyes7]

It depends on what the standards are. If it relies too much on things that are difficult or impossible to control then yes.

[dudeinohio]

Everyone has their preferences

[Hangry22]

Depends on what those standards are

[Iron_Man]

No of course not

[zagor]

No, as long as YOU are worthy of them.

[Fuentes]

Normal

[Jmmmfi4]

Yeah

[barn_stormer]

more power to you