How do you feel about a girl telling you she likes you?

[Anonymous]

It depends does he like you like that? It would be helpful if a girl told me that instead of mixed signals. But also I had a girl ask me once if I would date her as she really liked me and it was awkward because I told her I liked this other girl and they were totally different girls. I was just being friendly to her and she misunderstood I guess.

[WesBrewer]

I would say "wow, ok, so do you want to go on a date then?". some people don't like the idea of the girl making the first move, but I don't mind since I hate to lose friends and I feel like asking a friend out will break the relationship if she says no, as well a

[pikachu337]

If a girl does that. It means she is the best.

Actually I don’t prefer girls who doesn’t prefer me. I like interactive relationship. So, if a girl tell me me what she likes about me and what she doesn't, I will prefer her more than other girls cause it would feel like she cares about me..

And as I have told you before, I like interactive relationships. And I like girls how likes me.

I think It's the same for most boys. Everyone wants their partner to be cheerful.

[Nalix]

For me it would depend other details, her conversations, attitude, interest, etc. But back when I was in college any girl expressing interest would have probably got a chance at a first date, or something more casual, a chance to get to know each other better.

Same thing for a girl - if a guy says something like "hey, I think you're attractive and I'd like to know you a bit better. Any thoughts on that?" How would you respond?

[Don-__-Don]

From Uni?

I probably wouldn't take it seriously to be honest. I've been to uni and litteraly almost everyone just wants to hook up.

These days, Uni isn't an ideal place to find anything serious.

I don't know if it ever has been.

[TheorionMage]

If you're mature, you OWE her the honesty of friendship.
Churchill stated: "Diplomacy is the art of saying the most distasteful things in the nicest possible way"

A classic example is trying to 'break up' GRADUALLY.
From the male perspective, it just prolongs the perception of impending withdrawal of physical affection and emotional chemical detox.

The neurological withdrawal of infatuation averages six weeks.

[slatyb]

That's nice, but just telling someone you like them is pretty high stakes. You can send the same message by just inviting them to lunch or coffee or anything.

[hhH2traveler]

I think everybody would think it's really nice, but if it would be hard for them to get out of the conversation if it turns out thay consider and think that they wouldn't like it then no, they wouldn't want that pressure.

[GingerGuy]

It has never happened. But I'd be flattered at least, like her back or not. Everyone likes to be liked.

[Kuba-kun]

Never happened but If i found the girl to be interesting enough I would give it a try 🙂

[Adam1978]

It's nice thing independent of my feelings towards her.

[BraveBlue]

I would be surprised in a good way, because most girl just wait for the guy to make a move even if it takes a millenium.