Why do strangers before they meet me right away assume I’m married (I’m 23) is there a look that gives it away or what’s the reason?

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And no I always get told I look younger than 23 been told I look 19-21

Answer 1

btbc92 | 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

The age of marriage is legal at 18. 16 with parental consent. It is not unheard of to be a young bride, mother, or wife. Your 23. Itis common to marry at those ages and it's healthier when you desire a sexual relationship and a family. Outside of marriage can leave many problems because there is no guarantee. Though it also depends on who is this being said from. Older people? Men? If men there saying that they want to marry you, basically sex. That's about it. Or it's the area you're in and the culture of people.

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Maybe culture bc in my culture has girls Marry young
btbc92

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That's why. But if you're not looking to marry now, then don't worry about it. You just need to focus on your life first building it up. But if you want to marry young, make sure it is with a man who wants to be with you and value you for you. Don't just have sex and or marry just anybody. But please wait until marriage for sex. And don't rush. Sadly unlike nearly 100 years ago, men are not as who they say they are. Just got off a convo with a guy who is so sex-crazed and deprived he thinks basically women owe him sex. Didn't say it directly. But it's loud and clear.

Answer 2

Asker

Maybe culture bc in my culture has girls Marry young

Answer 3

btbc92

That's why. But if you're not looking to marry now, then don't worry about it. You just need to focus on your life first building it up. But if you want to marry young, make sure it is with a man who wants to be with you and value you for you. Don't just have sex and or marry just anybody. But please wait until marriage for sex. And don't rush. Sadly unlike nearly 100 years ago, men are not as who they say they are. Just got off a convo with a guy who is so sex-crazed and deprived he thinks basically women owe him sex. Didn't say it directly. But it's loud and clear.

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Noodle_fan | 238 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

it is because you are attractive , many guys tend to assume that pretty girls are not single

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It’s females and males who assume that
Noodle_fan

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guys=males
actually , me too , when i saw a girl that really hot , i would say this inside my head
" there is no way she is still single"
Asker

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I wouldn’t consider my self hot
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Noodle_fan

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i see, then may be because the way you dress
Asker

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How I dress?
Noodle_fan

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yes ,
how do you dress?>
Asker

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I don’t dress slutty if that’s what you’re trying to ask
Noodle_fan

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lol , it is not what i mean
perhaps you can share the link of dress picture that look similar to dress you wear when going outside
Asker

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What?

Answer 5

Asker

It’s females and males who assume that

Answer 6

Noodle_fan

guys=males
actually , me too , when i saw a girl that really hot , i would say this inside my head
" there is no way she is still single"

Answer 7

Asker

I wouldn’t consider my self hot

Answer 8

Noodle_fan

i see, then may be because the way you dress

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Asker

How I dress?

Answer 10

Noodle_fan

yes ,
how do you dress?>

Answer 11

Asker

I don’t dress slutty if that’s what you’re trying to ask

Answer 12

Noodle_fan

lol , it is not what i mean
perhaps you can share the link of dress picture that look similar to dress you wear when going outside

Answer 13

Asker

What?

Answer 14

BoyCowBestCow

Xper 1

do you wear rings? or clothing that is very covered?

Asker

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No I wear normal clothes and I don’t wear rings at all

Answer 15

Asker

No I wear normal clothes and I don’t wear rings at all

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Fukaroo | 209 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Snarky attitude? Lmao I don't know

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mélancolie | 54 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

you probs look older

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Been always told I look younger than my age !

Answer 18

Asker

Been always told I look younger than my age !

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chriscdi | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

do you wear a ring?

Asker

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Nooo!
chriscdi

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okaaayyyy! then I don't know

Answer 20

Asker

Nooo!

Answer 21

chriscdi

okaaayyyy! then I don't know

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