Virgins, would you date someone who has slept with multiple people?

[Anonymous]

I wholly intend to marry a Virgin as I am a virgin. I am saving for God, but will feel cheated if my wife did not do the same. However, there are many non virgin Christians as this is a very common sin for men and women to repent of. I will only marry a Christian and honestly seek a virgin, but I do not script Jesus. God brings together marriages, I can only say I desire a virgin, but like the song goes: "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes... you'll get what you need". I want the healthiest strongest marriage possible, that is only possible in Christ, but there are very important reasons to keep ones virginity. It has deep bearing on marriage. It allows for the strongest connection and trust.

[WesBrewer]

lol, I would date someone who has, but I would be their last guy on that list, I would worry about an STD but not enough to hinder me unless they currently had one that was deadly, I say I would be the last because I date to see if I want to marry not for fun, so if you dated me there is an 85% chance I'd propose to you 2 years down the road maybe less maybe a bit more.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

My first partner had been with several other people before me. I never asked a number but from what I could tell, I think it was around 10-15. I didn't care. He was committed to me, and we both got tested before we had sex to be safe. That's all that mattered to me.

[Anonymous]

I'm not one lol, but just food for thought, depending on the person, just because they've had a few partners, doesn't mean they didn't have safe sex or have something. I know people know that, but I think the "automatic" thinking is numbers = bad. "They must have STI's" lol

[magiusX26]

refreshing since only seen it asked the other way till now.

[Anonymous]

I did, the lady was very experienced, she just laid back and let me do it, bareback, and I did catch thrush, but at the time I was so excited to actually do it I just didn't care about STDs,,,

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want to sleep with someone who has had lots of sex.

[Anonymous]

I've genuinely tried. I WOULD be, yes! What I would do is I'd wear a condom but I wouldn't do any oral

[Hangry22]

Never ever. AIDS has a window period of 5-10 years

[Annieee18]

It depends if i really connect with that person

[loooooop]

I would not

[Luckycharms12]

Where a Condom

[Dinosaursandanime65]

A thot? Or a person?