Is the 80-20 rule true in dating?

[btbc92]

No. It's not. Just people who are bitter about women because women overall have choices and are picky. These are from men who are never happy with themselves, don't have a logical reason to be dating, and just basically want sex for the sake of sex life. Yet, they don't know how to build relationships. They are of the world and don't have a collectivist mindset that focuses on family, friends, and community. It's religious to people now.

"Because if I was a woman, I would date myself. I am 6'2" and 170 lbs, which would be attractive in my opinion." So you're shallow. That doesn't tell a woman why she should date you. I wouldn't date you no offense. Tall men like that are not personally somebody I can date. I don't have a type. But your attitude is highly off-putting. Just, no. Man. No.

"But I have seen women with similar physiques whom I have asked out in my younger years, yet they constantly rejected me and went for the alpha Chad types." You can't just like anybody. They'll like who they like. But those types of men do not have to flaunt it. You do. And it's not attractive to them.

"Is it true that men have to work 10x as hard to impress women than vice versa?" No. People who are dissatisfied maybe like that, but you will never please them because they're just miserable. A woman wants what she wants and a man wants what he wants. But you won't be what everybody WANTS. No matter what nonsense you see on television. In the real world, you won't be compatible with every woman. But for worldly women, they want certain qualities, physical, sexual, etc. I know. Because as a Christian, I figured that being a virgin, no smoking, drinking, or drugs, a clean slate, etc, makes me attractive. So many bypassed me unless it's to see because of my looks. They didn't care that I believed in God, in fact, they even said that they wouldn't bother because of that. But the Christian men mock me also as did other Christian girls and people. What God showed and taught me about people is this: a man is a man. A woman is a woman. It doesn't matter your religion, race, creed, nationality, beliefs, etc. We are all cut from the same cloth and are in the same boat. Not one is better than the other.

So what does that mean for you? It simply means this. If your not what they want, nothing you do is going to attract people or to be who you are as they respect and love you. You have to learn to love YOU but not to the point of shallowness and vanity. A man doesn't have to do anything. You too busy chasing women, instead of building yourself up as a man to make a woman be interested in you. A woman is taught to be sexually appealing to men, yet they get sex, but no love. Men are told to be this and that for women, yet they don't love a woman, but love the sex and think that sex is love for you. But it isn't for a woman unless she herself just care about sex. You can't have both. Either you want to love and learn to love or you just want sex. Can't say you don't just want sex, and then when sex isn't offered you walk. Love creates sex and can birth life. Sex doesn't birth love. But it can be, depending on what you do with it, create life or destroy life.

[Anonymous]

Not sure what you’re getting at with the question? Mostly because the title doesn’t seem to connect with your description very much. For instance, the 80/20 is generally the belief that no individual in a relationship can be a full 100, so 20% of your time should be used to do things on your own, or (in most cases) get a side chick/man, and they sort of make up that little percentage. So, are you asking if you’re worthy of being one of these percentages simply based on height and weight? Or what connects title to description? Then you threw in that last bit at the end about if men need to work 10x harder to impress women. This question is just very scattered lol.