Just started talking to a guy, we haven't met yet and hd offered to let me swim in his pool with a view. Is he looking just to hookup?

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We just started messaging each other and met on a dating app. He invited me to his pool which is overlooking a view. Is he most likely looking for something casual? I thought maybe he is coming off too strong since we haven't even been on a date yet. What do you think?

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DonaldBiden

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Let’s be real, if he’s rich with a pool that has a view, he’s not looking for love on a dating app. You’re gonna get your cheeks clapped then hit by the door on the way out.

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Actually he's not rich. He's staying at a hotel in the meantime before he gets placed in a home for military
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Still likely a hookup?
DonaldBiden

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I mean, why doesn’t he invite you to go to dinner or a movie? Or something. Obviously wants to get you in a bikini. Then have sex. Then once he leaves, you'll likely never hear from him again
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He kinda did invite me to eat food. I suggested he try a restaurant and he said if it sucks, then I owe him a date

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Actually he's not rich. He's staying at a hotel in the meantime before he gets placed in a home for military

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Still likely a hookup?

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DonaldBiden

I mean, why doesn’t he invite you to go to dinner or a movie? Or something. Obviously wants to get you in a bikini. Then have sex. Then once he leaves, you'll likely never hear from him again

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He kinda did invite me to eat food. I suggested he try a restaurant and he said if it sucks, then I owe him a date

Just started talking to a guy, we haven't met yet and hd offered to let me swim in his pool with a view. Is he looking just to hookup?

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