Do you find love when you are not looking for it?

Question

I think that I am done looking for love because when I used to use dating apps to find it it was nothing but trash. I really have a headache and dont want to kill anymore brain cells thinking about having a boyfriend.

Answer 1

Turtlewax1994 | 109 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

you truly do,

i myself don't care anymore for dating apps. But one time I just literally focused on myself and met someone randomly at an event and we clicked so well. Sometimes love just comes to you without even knowing it!

Can you answer my most recent question please?

Answer 2

bowenw | 78 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Yes, the best and longest relationships I've been in started when I wasn't looking. They are usually with someone I am friends with, such as at work or school, that becomes more as time goes on.

Answer 3

Walamagicc | 79 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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It’s 50:50. I wouldn’t rely too heavy on dating sites because you know, anybody can tell you anything on text. But meeting someone in real life doesn’t guarantee anything good either. Dating in all forms are like a test. You date them, see if they meet your standards, you notice some things about a person and you decide if you’re able to tolerate it or not. It’s life. Don’t try so hard to look for a boyfriend tho. One day you will find someone that treats you amazingly, just don’t look so hard

Answer 4

Yads_Is_Back

Guru

One thing I learned: Love really is an action more than a noun.

Don’t look for it. That’s not the best idea. When you go looking for it you subject yourself to what you shouldn’t and you avoid what you might need. Little do you realize that when you don’t search for it yourself and you wait for it to happen that who it happens with wasn’t you trying to force it as a thing or just an emotion.

Answer 5

MrStitch

Xper 4

I think it develops without you realizing, for example 2 friends can often become “more” even though they never expected it. It’s more common than you think.

Answer 6

meartila

Xper 1

You’re probably picky as fuck. And think you look a lot better than you do. That’s how most ugly girls act on dating apps. just be better looking

Asker

15 d
Dont try to flatter yourself to put me down guys on dating apps be having a rooster of women. They dont want to settle down.
meartila

15 d
Sorry but, you’re 18-24 who wants to settle down at that age lmao
Asker

15 d
I'm 24 older than you so it isn't my time I shouldn't be so desperate to look for it. I'm not the only chick who has a hard time a lot of women do. You woman hater what woman hurt you?
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meartila

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Sorry I can barely understand what you’re saying but I’m not a woman hater. You’re looking for something the majority of men your age don’t want yet. How boring could your life possibly be that you’re so desperate to rush into a relationship and settle down lmao
Asker

15 d
I know that you are not talking to me I just ask an question not you you to be rude.
meartila

15 d
Yea I can’t understand whatever form of English that is. Have a nice day lady.
Asker

15 d
Stop talking to me because all you are doing is acting like a child. Why dont you grow up you are an adult.
Walamagicc

14 d
Don’t listen to him. He’s just being a dick. There’s nothing wrong with being picky about what guys you want to date. Hell, guys are way pickier than women anyways but the second a girl has a little higher standards, men wanna get all ass hurt and say we’re too picky and blah blah. SO FUCKING WHAT IF you're PICKY. Hell, I would be picky too if I was trying to find someone to live the rest of my life with. Don’t settle for less or lower your standards for a man.
meartila

14 d
You’re dumb as hell lady. “Why are all men on dating sites unattractive” because all the woman are unattractive, you’re on a dating site for a reason ape LMFAO
Asker

14 d
Get a life ain't everybody for everyone some people need time to grow. Everybody has different times when they are ready to settle down. Men on dating apps just want sex for the most part they aren't looking to marry anybody.
meartila

14 d
Watching you fail miserably trying to form a basic sentence literally makes me cringe. What 3rd world dumpster are you from
Asker

14 d
Be more realistic tinder is the devil's playground he wants people to fail and break marriage. Look at the world and see how promiscuous it is people are lost. All people want to do is seek validation from people so they can tell them who they are but they have low self esteem themselves.
Walamagicc

14 d
Nobody ever said that every single fucking guy on a dating site is unattractive. You are just a fucking bitch that can talk so much shit over the Internet for no reason. If you think the asker is picky, dong answer the fucking question. You’re just picking fight for no reason you fucking troll
meartila

14 d
Go match with some more men in your league lady (ugly men) HAHAHA
meartila

14 d
Imagine using dating apps at 27 years old. LMFAO
meartila

14 d
Imagine your boyfriend going back to his ex and blocking you LMFAOAOOAOAOAOAO
Walamagicc

14 d
Girl just don’t answer back to that asshole. He’s getting a rise out of both of us replying. I agree with you, a lot of guys on dating sites aren’t there to actually date. They just want to fuck and dip. But the fucker who is arguing with us isn’t a female like me and you are, so how would he know how men on dating sites act? My point exactly.
meartila

14 d
This bitches boyfriend went back to his ex and blocked her LMFAO
meartila

14 d
Obviously ugly yourself LOOOL

Answer 7

Asker

Dont try to flatter yourself to put me down guys on dating apps be having a rooster of women. They dont want to settle down.

Answer 8

meartila

Sorry but, you’re 18-24 who wants to settle down at that age lmao

Answer 9

Asker

I'm 24 older than you so it isn't my time I shouldn't be so desperate to look for it. I'm not the only chick who has a hard time a lot of women do. You woman hater what woman hurt you?

Answer 10

meartila

Sorry I can barely understand what you’re saying but I’m not a woman hater. You’re looking for something the majority of men your age don’t want yet. How boring could your life possibly be that you’re so desperate to rush into a relationship and settle down lmao

Answer 11

Asker

I know that you are not talking to me I just ask an question not you you to be rude.

Answer 12

meartila

Yea I can’t understand whatever form of English that is. Have a nice day lady.

Answer 13

Asker

Stop talking to me because all you are doing is acting like a child. Why dont you grow up you are an adult.

Answer 14

Walamagicc

Don’t listen to him. He’s just being a dick. There’s nothing wrong with being picky about what guys you want to date. Hell, guys are way pickier than women anyways but the second a girl has a little higher standards, men wanna get all ass hurt and say we’re too picky and blah blah. SO FUCKING WHAT IF you're PICKY. Hell, I would be picky too if I was trying to find someone to live the rest of my life with. Don’t settle for less or lower your standards for a man.

Answer 15

meartila

You’re dumb as hell lady. “Why are all men on dating sites unattractive” because all the woman are unattractive, you’re on a dating site for a reason ape LMFAO

Answer 16

Asker

Get a life ain't everybody for everyone some people need time to grow. Everybody has different times when they are ready to settle down. Men on dating apps just want sex for the most part they aren't looking to marry anybody.

Answer 17

meartila

Watching you fail miserably trying to form a basic sentence literally makes me cringe. What 3rd world dumpster are you from

Answer 18

Asker

Be more realistic tinder is the devil's playground he wants people to fail and break marriage. Look at the world and see how promiscuous it is people are lost. All people want to do is seek validation from people so they can tell them who they are but they have low self esteem themselves.

Answer 19

Walamagicc

Nobody ever said that every single fucking guy on a dating site is unattractive. You are just a fucking bitch that can talk so much shit over the Internet for no reason. If you think the asker is picky, dong answer the fucking question. You’re just picking fight for no reason you fucking troll

Answer 20

meartila

Go match with some more men in your league lady (ugly men) HAHAHA

Answer 21

meartila

Imagine using dating apps at 27 years old. LMFAO

Answer 22

meartila

Imagine your boyfriend going back to his ex and blocking you LMFAOAOOAOAOAOAO

Answer 23

Walamagicc

Girl just don’t answer back to that asshole. He’s getting a rise out of both of us replying. I agree with you, a lot of guys on dating sites aren’t there to actually date. They just want to fuck and dip. But the fucker who is arguing with us isn’t a female like me and you are, so how would he know how men on dating sites act? My point exactly.

Answer 24

meartila

This bitches boyfriend went back to his ex and blocked her LMFAO

Answer 25

meartila

Obviously ugly yourself LOOOL

Answer 26

chriscdi | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

yep totally unexpected

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