Why do I lose interest in a man so quickly?

Question

In friendships i have no problem at all i can talk and be around them easily.. but when it comes to dating... i get irritated and lose interest very fastly.. then i don't feel like talking to them anymore... and i don't know why? Anyone here has the same issues? Both men or women.

Answer 1

Turtlewax1994 | 109 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

I feel the same,

but for me, social media plays a big factor in this. You can meet someone for a hot second then get bored really fast. The next day you can meet somebody brand new. I can only imagine if we didn't have the dating apps and social media that we probably wouldn't be so easily accessible in terms of dating. There are pros/cons to it all!

Can you answer my most recent question please?

GoldenTulip

16 d
Yes that is true, but i think it also has to do that i need to meet them irl fastly... i get annoyed if the talking goes on too long online and then it goes about nothing. Yes i will answer your question. :)
Jamie05rhs

12 d
@GoldenTulip But you shouldn't meet people too quickly. Because it isn't safe. You don't know who they are.

Answer 2

GoldenTulip

Yes that is true, but i think it also has to do that i need to meet them irl fastly... i get annoyed if the talking goes on too long online and then it goes about nothing. Yes i will answer your question. :)

Answer 3

Jamie05rhs

@GoldenTulip But you shouldn't meet people too quickly. Because it isn't safe. You don't know who they are.

Answer 4

Jamie05rhs | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

You probably give up on them before you even give them a chance. It's probably a defense mechanism because you're scared of what could be.

Jamie05rhs

12 d
Thanks for the MHO.

Answer 5

Jamie05rhs

Thanks for the MHO.

Answer 6

MzAsh | 550 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

It just means you haven’t found the right guy yet. I look back and think about all the guys I’ve ever dated in my past and realized I’d grown bored of them all too.

Answer 7

codyccc | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Lol the closer you get the more you risk a friend can't hurt you as bad as a SO

GoldenTulip

15 d
You really think that is the problem? What if i found their opinion and life goals boring?
codyccc

15 d
I think your problem is that at a young age you were molested and you have deep seated sexual issues that csuse you to subconsciously sabotage
GoldenTulip

15 d
Many people assume that about me. But i honestly never have been molested in any sexual way. 🤔 Yes i had a very dark past and had a lot of dissapointments aswell...

Answer 8

GoldenTulip

You really think that is the problem? What if i found their opinion and life goals boring?

Answer 9

codyccc

I think your problem is that at a young age you were molested and you have deep seated sexual issues that csuse you to subconsciously sabotage

Answer 10

GoldenTulip

Many people assume that about me. But i honestly never have been molested in any sexual way. 🤔 Yes i had a very dark past and had a lot of dissapointments aswell...

Answer 11

Twenty2 | 693 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Do you meet them in real life?

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