- Not really, we are all outlaws and bandits here, trying to pillage and rpe women.
I consider myself a decent guy. You would probably not want to talk to me tho, since i don't own any fancy businesses, nor work at an exotic place, i don't do social media, like posting pictures of myself, posing like i'm a model or something, i don't want to do that.
You would think i'm "boring", even before we get to know each other.
So yeah, that's why many girls are missing out on decent guys.
At least i think that's one of the reasons.
The other could be that you girls mostly go for the fuckboy looks, even if you know you shouldn't.
So it's looks first, and above everything. "he looks handsome and strong, must be a decent guy too!" Then the guy turns out to be a total asshole sooner or later, or some other shit lol. What a surprise.
I'm not saying date anyone, even if you are not attracted to him, but it kinda feels like girls won't date and give a chance to anyone without the fuckboy looks + the money and interesting hobbies, status and all the bullshit..
Think of Trump lol if you will. Is he a decent guy? Not really 😂, but he has everything (except the fuckboy looks maybe) to attract a women.
Obviously i exaggerate a little to get my point across.
Basically decent guys are boring to most girls and they don't even really get the chance with most girls in my opinion.. even if they would be really happy together.0|10|0Is this still revelant?Really accurately said man, I didn't state these things because I didn't want to jump to conclusions that she wanted to get to know a guy in that way, but I get your point ^_^
Could not have said it better. also not to jump to any conclusions. But i've lost count on how many time's I have heard women say. and i quote" I'm looking for a guy like you... but not you" up to the point where well I stoped caring.
But yes in the end it all comes down to what the asker defines as "a decent guy"@spitifrex Yeah, what even is decent defined as now?
Some define decent in looks, others in personality, others want both, others consider decent to be looking like a celebrity.
I am not saying all people are like this, I just think everyone needs to be more transparent in what they consider decent or their type of decent, because saying
A actual decent man I can talk to and have a proper conversation with
that does not cover any genre at all, decent looks? Decent personality? Just saying decent is not going to help most people find the right one because you have not laid out what your standards are.
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- Who is going to answer 'no' to this question? I am decent, I found this place purely by accident. But you are to young for me, so there is that. I am afraid that even if I am decent and you found me to be so, you were simply born too late.
I feel like this is a forum to discuss dating and relationships, not to actually get one. There are those miserable dating apps for that.
I am here to actually help and hopefully maybe to learn. It does require that most people be sincere about what they say and do, though. And I hope I provide helpful, insightful commentary.
If I find that this is a mere trolling place where people just want to zing each other for a miniscule dopamine bump, I am out. If I want to be insulted and degraded I will get on twitter.0|00|0Is this still revelant?There are a lot of trolls here judging by their idiotic questions and a lot of fake pink accounts. You just have to sort them out and reply to the honest questions.
@Daniela1982 I am thinking of not responding to anonymous posts anymore. Is there a rule of thumb you follow? If so, sharing it would be welcome.
There are some anons who are good people and have great posts and questions. But the fake ones ask dumb questions that you would think only a guy would ask. And you would probably be right that it is a guy asking under a phony pink account, especially if they ever ask you for a dick pic. You just never know who you are sending them to or where they will end up. Like maybe to a gay website of men looking for gay hookups? Do your due diligence.
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- I'm sure there are but it seems to me that most of them leave after awhile because of all the creepy pervs on here who give decent men a bad name.0|10|0Is this still revelant?
- Yeah, there are. I've also met some shitheads, but I've met some nice guys0|10|0Is this still revelant?
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21172- I am a decent guy and a good conversationalist, but I do understand that you probably want to find someone close to your age! :) :) :)0|00|0
- There are plenty of decent guys, you do however need to consider that they might not suit your interest because they are so kind :)
I will agree there are also a large sum of guys on here who are rude, inappropriate, disrespectful etc.
But everyone on here is free to their opinions and I respect peoples opinions in and out of this website ^_^
I don't know why you are making a post like this at level 7 because by now you must have met ones who are decent and kind.
Good luck in your future searches and have a nice day ^_^0|00|0 - Most decent guys have already established their circle meeting people through more real venues such as outings or meetings and festivities. Only a few such as myself who have been involved in advocations targeting human beings and possible connections. Most people don't have time to relate let alone give a complete synopsis of the questions, situations or the proper answers necessary for facilitating success. If you want to submit any question or that which is not clear give me a text and I'll do the best to give the answer or answers that will not only answer your question but satisfy your curiosity on all levels.0|00|0
- Decent is a matter of perspective. Haha
I've always thought there are decent people almost anywhere. I've only been on this app for a day, but I've definitely seen some decent people. I've also seen some real shitty people. I think the important thing is just knowing when to take the chance to reach out and see if they're someone worth talking to.
I'm not gonna say that I'm a decent guy, because I only have my own experience and perspective to go from. I think I'm pretty alright, but since you asked the question, you're the only one that can say if I (or anyone for that matter) am decent by your standards. Lol1|00|0 - I'd consider myself one 🤔 and If I exist, I'm sure there are others like me. Ones that simply just want to talk and be friendly without having an alternative agenda. They may not always be as plentiful but they are out there. Let me also be careful to say though, that just because the man looks good in his profile pic it does not mean he has a good personality. Take a guy that has a picture you don't quite like or a profile that seems off putting to you. Basically reconsider some left swipes, you might be surprised that they could be descent guys hiding in those plies of left swiped profiles0|10|0
- There are many decent guy's. I also concider myself as one, though I let people decide for themselves what they think of me.
Like every guy i have my down sides and can sometimes make inapropriate remarks. It generally comes down to your expectations and wishes.0|00|0 - I would like to think that I'm a decent man, in that all those around me who have interacted with me have gained something positive, I have never purposely hurt anyone, and have always given good advice to the best of my abilities. However, particularly from women, romantically-sexually it has never been reciprocated, and I dont intend to change because of that either.0|00|0
- There are plenty of us. However, I will state (just in case), most men don't like to be used as free therapy by women or for women to talk about other men to us. That's either for a gay best friend, or a simp/cuck who doesn't respect himself. But men are usually willing to talk to girls outside of being indirectly disrespected like that.0|00|0
- That really depends on your standards and tastes for what you describe as a decent man. What exactly were you hoping to discuss and talk with men you deemed decent?
There are decent guys on the site. Just have to get some insight by asking questions and looking at answers from people who answered on questions that caught your attention.
Got the good and bad here.0|00|0 - wow now that was perfect timing I just put underwear on then seen your question ,, yes why are you asking lol ,, teasing anyway I think I am well to be honest I know I am and if I'm going to be thst honest ,, I would have to say there are times I like to turn that nice decent guy in to some ONE who has passion desire and wants to be naughty. There is a time and place for everything I think that's what decent means is to know when that time and place is0|00|0
- Depends, if you want a guy to be strictly an online friend then sure, we are everywhere on here; however if you want to find someone for some kind of LDR then your options are slim because a lot of the dudes on here that advertise as being nice are either sex mad or incapable of decent conversation.0|00|0
- If you can get passed my social awkwardness, then I become a decent person to know. Kind of like the heat from a freshly baked food, once it becomes at a temperture cool enough then you can eat it without burning your mouth. In this case after my social awkwardness then I become a person you can have a normal chat with.0|00|0
- I open up very slowly. I am able to hold a long term conversation. However, I feel that I do need to talk about "adult topics" once in a while. I'm open through the private messaging system.
I have "promoted" few people from chats on sites like this to Google hangout level. I do expect regular conversations. They don't need to be live (due to time zone differences).0|00|0 - For you to talk to decent guys, you need to be decent yourself. And judging from your post that you think men have no say in abortions proves you are no where near decent and considerate of another person's opinions and concerns. But don't worry love, plenty of simps here willing to throw themselves at you. Good luck.0|10|0
- Depends on if that "decent guy" is required to agree with certain opinions that you hold. It also depends on do you want to talk about facts or feelings.0|00|0
- If you want to attract a long term relationship type guy, I highly suggest covering your tits in your pics and stop making βsexyβ faces. Smiles are much better.0|00|0
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- Sure, but you're aware this is not a site like that, right?
This is basically girls vs guys vs other guys vs girls who think they are guys vs guys who think they are girls.0|00|0 - Sure there are. Most people seem fairly decent. It's just when they feel threatened (of emotional hurt), people tend to fall into fight/flight mode and stop being rational or normal.0|00|0
- Decent is a point of view. I'd like to think myself decent, but I'm sure there are people who would 100% disagree with me.0|00|0
- I think there are few mam, the best way to find them is to ask something serious and see the replies you will be able to understand from their replies mam whether they are decent or not.0|00|0
- I think there are probably a few though they might be few and far between. I've been told i'm a decent guy but eh, you'd have to make your own opinions on that0|00|0
- I guarantee that there are plenty of decent guys on here, it all depends on who you choose to talk with and it also depends on what level you want to get to know them on.
I like to believe that I'm a decent human being but I'm not a very open person these days and I'm not so good at talking with females anymore, nor could I ever see myself as your type or someone you'd want to get to know on that sort of level, but overall I still see myself as decent in personality.0|10|0 - There is, but unfortunately, they're hard to locate. My Fiance met me Here, and I think She got led to me somehow. She was bold and just reached out to me, just a simple message. What You should do is take a gander at their Bio on their page, take a look at their Opinions and Questions they made and it can give You a slight idea on what their Heart is composed of. Good luck to You, it will be difficult.1|00|0
- All depends - what a proper conversation would mean. Any help of me - please let me know and feel free to chat.0|00|0
- Hell no Jane, we all a little sick in the head over here.0|00|0
- I like to think I'm a decent guy, I dont treat anyone wrong on purpose anyways lol0|00|0
- "Are there any decent guys out there"
Turned into "are there any THIRSTY guys out there"
😂😂😂😂😂😂0|00|0 - Of course there's some. I'm a grown man that has self-respect and respect for others and not some uptight square0|00|0
- If your willing to sort through like 120 comments you will eventually find at least one lol0|00|0
- I mean yes, I would like to think I am one of them.0|00|0
- Depends on you definition of "decent man" and "proper conversation".0|00|0
- Yes, of course. But what sort of convo are you talking about and why do you want to get to know guys online?0|00|0
- im sure , but like any where there is a lot of people not decent.0|00|0
- It depends on what you mean by decent. It varies from person to person.0|00|0
- Of course a creep would tell you " sorry Ma'am I am a creep. I am not decent guy "0|00|0
- I'll be happy to have whatever conversation you would like, if you want to have it with someone over three times your age!0|00|0
- I love how she says this, but she herself may be a piece of shit. Like how do we know youβre decent? We donβt. So ask yourself are you decent? Lmfao0|00|0
- 117 answers from guys so far?
Wait a second I am going to read the other comments. I need to check something.0|00|0So many variants of "yes there are". Most involving "I am one of them".
Trolls saying "Nah! We are all no good pigs"
And of course the ones saying "Women don't actually want decent guys! That is why you don't find them."
And the girls saying"Yes, but not many."
Now do I want to fit with the ass kissers, the trolls or the girls? I am actually with the girls on this one...
- Well of course! Now, what's a "proper conversation" ? We've talked before about lingerie, but I'm guessing that's not what you mean? :)0|00|0
- I mean I would consider myself a decent guy...
But then again that's exactly what a non-decent guy would say0|00|0 - Yeah, I am. But it depends on what kind of conversation you want to have. I'm a busy guy, and I try to pick my friends carefully0|00|0
- I'm sure u might find a few
I'd be happy to talk I'm people ask my opinion personal a few time I get likes to my answers
I do respond with sarcasm to silly stuff but I'm real.
Fair well0|00|0 - Yup.
Only conversation though... just so you know my motive is sharing life experience that helps others (I may brag a bit...🙄), but I've got the best wife ever.
Not saying you wanted more, just so you know where I'm coming from.1|00|0 - I am a decent guy
People who don't like me and block me are not decent people0|00|0 - You will only know if you try, I am ready for the experiment 😎.0|00|0
- Well yea there are always decent guys out there, but its difficult to go threw all of the weeds and find the flower0|00|0
- I think there are plenty of such men, I am surely one of them but depends what is your desired topic of conversation if it is not that common maybe we don't have what to talk about0|00|0
- I think that largely depends on your own definition of "decent". If you would be kind enough to update your question with that definition, I think perhaps we could speak.0|00|0
- Girls don't want a decent man. I get more girls when I am acting like an asshole.0|00|0
- Most guys on here are mean from what Iβve seen. :(Iβm sure thereβs nice people to talk to though.2|00|1
- Im normal. My Mom raised me right. The marine corp changed me. But I will tell a joke about anything at anytime someiimes comes out sarcastic. But im normal.0|00|0
- Yeah, but you should probably call me uncie monkey. Cuz you are a baby.0|00|0
- Not many. Like one moment Iβm having a normal conversation then boom, they ask what my bra size is0|00|0
- What do you want to talk about? This isn't a dating site.0|00|0
- Christ, the amount of simps on this post is shocking.0|00|0
- If you want to talk to a decent respectful Guy, you can talk to me.0|00|0
- Definitely, but you'll get bored really quickly if your interests don't match up.0|00|0
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