He said he really likes me and next time he sees me for a second date wants to take me to dinner and then to a hotel room, does this sound wrong?

Question

We’ve been dating for 2 months but because of the current pandemic we’ve only been together once. Apart from that we’ve been keeping in touch through FaceTime and texting. We talk about different things but sometimes we also get really hot over text or even fave to face. But the other day he said I make him happy and that he really likes me. I also know he wants to take things slow between us and see where they go.

Answer 1

Bella_Iris

Xper 5

I mean, I'd say if you aren't ready for what's (so obvious) about to happen in the hotel then yeah I think it is wrong. Don't let him push you into something that you don't feel comfortable with... if you don't know what's gonna happen in a "hotel"-- it's sex (pretty positive). However, if you are ready then no there is nothing wrong... however 2 months? hmmm I don't know.. to me it sounds a bit early to be doing sex things.. but to each their own. Just be careful :)

Answer 2

btbc92 | 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

He just wants sex. Period. And he's tired of waiting.

Answer 3

william_wizard

Xper 4

Taking you to a hotel has a pretty clear implication that he wants something to happen. So, if he wants to take it slow I'm not sure why he'd also want to take you to a hotel.

Answer 4

NYlatefun | 57 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

Two months is a lot. If he wants to have sex he should be direct about it. I don’t think it’s right or wrong.

Answer 5

Avicenna | 8.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Well, he obviously wants sex. It’s up to you to decide if that’s “wrong”.

Asker

14 d
We can still go to a hotel room and have fun doing other stuff that not having sex
Avicenna

13 d
Yes, but that’s not why he’s getting one

Answer 6

Asker

We can still go to a hotel room and have fun doing other stuff that not having sex

Answer 7

Avicenna

Yes, but that’s not why he’s getting one

Answer 8

Luckycharms12 | 193 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Taken it slow by taken you to a hotel

Asker

14 d
I mean it’s techinacally been three months by the time that happens (we’re in lockdown atm)
Luckycharms12

14 d
Well up to you both

Answer 9

Asker

I mean it’s techinacally been three months by the time that happens (we’re in lockdown atm)

Answer 10

Luckycharms12

Well up to you both

He said he really likes me and next time he sees me for a second date wants to take me to dinner and then to a hotel room, does this sound wrong?

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