Guys, would you pursue the nice girl or the one who ignores you?

[Floppy2112]

I definitely prefer nice. Nice and sweet and perhaps a little quirky is my purview. I don't pursue women who ignore me or play hard to get or some kind of crap like that. I am too old and tired and jaded and cynical to play games. If a woman is ignoring me, I assume there is no interest there and I put it behind me as soon as possible.
Playing hard to get is the worst game ever invented and I do not like games like these. They do damage to one's emotions just for some women to get a kick out of watching a man pursue her makes me think she is low quality, childish and plain mean.
Everybody wants to be wanted. Everybody wants to be pursued.
A person who would risk losing a potential mate over a silly game is not a person worth pursuing.

[Kiss_Me]

Once I learned how to ask for dates, I found them kinda easy to get. (Finding someone I really like and want to continue dating is hard) That being said, I really do not pursue anyone.
To answer your question... I'd go for the nice girl. We either like each other or not. Why struggle with the girl that ignores you when there are so many other available options.

[SirJeffers]

I crave involvement when it comes to relationships, so if she is ignoring me and playing hard to get, I probably won't try too hard. The shy, quiet, nerdy ones always get me

[william_wizard]

🤔 I don't want to be rude but this doesn't sound like a real question. Lol

Obviously I'd go for the girl they actually talks to me and seems to have an interest. Lol

[WesBrewer]

The nice girl obviously, Because I date to see if this is the girl I want to marry, and I want to marry a girl who is my friend, someone I talk to a lot and someone who talks to me a lot. not someone who ignores me.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I like sweethearts so the nice girl. If a girl ignored me I would, quite reasonably, presume she isn't interested and move on.

[spitifrex]

deffinately the nice girl. too old to go chasing the mystery outcomes. plus the one that ignores you is probably just in it for the attention.

[Madhatter920]

The nice girl. If a girl isn't interested, would be a sad waste of time to pester her. Life is too short for that.

[Mr_longLegz]

Neither. Pursuing/playing hard to get is a waste of time in my eyes. If we meet and hit it off, dope. If not, dope. No time wasted and no games played.

[Hermes-Paris]

The one with the biggest... OK the nice girl. Girls who ignore are a waste of time.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Why the hell would I try to go after the girl that doesn't give me the time of day? Of course I wnat the one I can talk to and is sweet.

[swashdeadlove]

my personal preference is the nice ones,
You wanna have a good relationship, then you invest time and emotions as well.

[magiusX26]

need to work on your comparisson seeing as ignoring or not has nothing to do with nice or not.

[Anonymous]

I would pursue the nice, sweet girl who is always there for me, and I would always be there for her.

I have no interest in a girl who ignores me.

[chriscdi]

the nice girl, im not blind to chase someone that won't pay attention to me

[LightxSoul2]

I wouldn't pursue anyone. I don't want a girl I don't like and I also don't want a girl who doesn't like me.

[dreamstar72]

The nice and sweet ones that was why I fell in love and married my wife.

[Knightoffire]

nice girls.. I don't like to lose times with ignorant shits.

[Turtlewax1994]

nice girl,

dont have time for chasing lol

[Fuentes]

Nice the girl that ignores is weird af lol

[fxllenone]

The one who responds to my messages, of course!

[Anonymous]

Nice one if I’m attracted to her