This guy I used to have a thing with over a year ago re entered my life. Not physically tho, just over fb messenger and more of a friends kind of situation. There was a convo we had where he started asking me questions about my dating life which is something I’ve never seen him do before but I just brushed it off. About a week ago or so he wanted my snap info so I sent it but he hadn’t sent a request so I asked if it didn’t work. He told me he will add me soon but he’s waiting until he’s done breaking up with his girlfriend but wants to be somewhat respectful. Which is where I’m confused. If we’re just friends,( mind you we live 4 hours away from each other) how is that being disrespectful. I’m kind of getting a vibe that maybe he’s holding out hope that I would take him back or something. Because again if we’re just friends, why would that matter?