Guys, would you date a virgin?

Question

Honest answers?

How about a 26 year old?

Answer 1

bamesjond0069 | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Of course i would date a virgin.

26 though is pretty unattractive. I would just think if they are so great why aren't they married? In my experience the best marriage candidates are girls that are mature and know what they want the sooner the better.

Asker

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So most guys would be turned off by this?
bamesjond0069

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Not in general. I just think its not ideal for me.
Asker

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Ok. So more than likely you would not date this type of girl?
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bamesjond0069

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No i would.
Asker

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Ok, also, what do you consider a virgin? Does a girl who has played with herself count as one?
bamesjond0069

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Yes ofc

Answer 2

Asker

So most guys would be turned off by this?

Answer 3

bamesjond0069

Not in general. I just think its not ideal for me.

Answer 4

Asker

Ok. So more than likely you would not date this type of girl?

Answer 5

bamesjond0069

No i would.

Answer 6

Asker

Ok, also, what do you consider a virgin? Does a girl who has played with herself count as one?

Answer 7

bamesjond0069

Yes ofc

Answer 8

Anonymous

Depends why. Are they saving it for after marriage? If so, then no. I won't marry someone I don't know if I'm sexually compatible with, so it would be a waste of both our time. Have they just been waiting for the right person? Then sure. I don't care about virginity itself one bit.

Answer 9

OfDeath | 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Yeah but only on the condition that she doesn't intend to stay that way long. I might come to a compromise if she was willing to give up her mouth or arse but one way sex like that feels weird. Part of love making is that the other person is receiving pleasure too. It is supposed to be mutual.

Answer 10

WesBrewer | 735 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

I would love to date a virgin, 26 years old is the oldest I'd go since that is a 10-year difference but if she is good looking then I'm all for it, I actually prefer to date virgins, since I would prefer to marry a virgin.

missy52

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1. You're a minor
missy52

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2. Why does it matter if she's a virgin or not
WesBrewer

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@missy52 It doesn't particularly matter if she is a virgin or not, but I would prefer her to be a virgin, and that is because marriages with no pre-marital sex are always the happiest and last the longest, as to me being a minor I won't be in a year and a half.
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missy52

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That doesn't mean you getting in a relationship with someone who's 26 would be any less illegal. Marriages that two people work on, don't compare each other in and make daily efforts to show love and dedication are the ones that are the happiest and last the longest. The only reason why marriages with virgins last longer is because they have no one to compare you to. Jaded people shouldn't get married to begin with
WesBrewer

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@missy52 So are you agreeing with me? and as I said If I wait 1.5 years then it wouldn't be illegal, or at least that is what I was trying to say.
missy52

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I'm not agreeing with you. People who are afraid of their spouse having had others are often the ones who bring up their past encounters and use it against the person in arguments. I think that insecurity isn't attractive and that it's insecurity that leads to divorces. Not the fact that they haven't had as many partners. If an ex treated them better than you are, then it's up to you to step up. But if you simply can't do what they did (say, they can afford to buy roses every week and you can only afford it once a month), that's understandable. I'm not saying to do what their ex did but it's a pitiful excuse to blame your lack of participation and your diminished determination to pursue her on the fact that she has had others and she knows what a healthy or unhealthy relationship looks like. Again, it's people who use your past experience against you (be it you're a boy or girl) who ruin relationships. It's not the past partner who isn't in their life anymore who did it.
WesBrewer

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@missy52 as I said I literally don't care if she was a whore with 20 boyfriends and screwed all of them at the same time, as long as she doesn't anymore I would be fine marring her, how is me preferring a virgin meaning I will use it against her and make me insecure, when I wouldn't use it against her and I don't care if she uses it against me.
missy52

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I never called you insecure. Nor did I say you'd use it against her. I said that that's a common theme when people say they want a virgin.
WesBrewer

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@missy52 oh ok, I thought since you were saying that you disagreed with me and then said all that that you were saying I was that, but how do you not agree with me when you said that virgin marriages last longer yourself?
missy52

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I don't personally attack people just because I disagree with them. I only do that when they've attacked me first.

Because statistically, it's true. Marriages to virgins do last longer. But the whole notion of women being virgins was bred to keep women confined and docile. Recent statistics proves that virginity is not enough of an indicator for divorce. If you actually think about it analyze the why behind men's preference for virgins historically, it's disgusting. Women who make it to marriage as virgins typically were raised VERY conservatively and were (in my opinion) brain washed to reject their sexuality. Many of them don't know how to pleasure themselves, let alone a man. They don't know many aspects about sex. They tend to be timid and reserved when topics about bodies come up. They submit with little to no question as to why they should. And those are the type of women that men want. The type that'll do whatever they say without an independent bone in their bodies. I think that it's disgusting. Virgins are also taught to put your marriage above everything. Even if you're getting raped every day or if your children aren't getting the support that they need, they are told to stay in the relationship and that divorce isn't an option. They fight for broken relationships. Things like that, statistics don't show. Longer doesn't mean happier.
WesBrewer

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@missy52 I agree with everything you said, I would use the phrase "brainwashed" but I would say incorrectly taught.

Answer 11

missy52

1. You're a minor

Answer 12

missy52

2. Why does it matter if she's a virgin or not

Answer 13

WesBrewer

@missy52 It doesn't particularly matter if she is a virgin or not, but I would prefer her to be a virgin, and that is because marriages with no pre-marital sex are always the happiest and last the longest, as to me being a minor I won't be in a year and a half.

Answer 14

missy52

That doesn't mean you getting in a relationship with someone who's 26 would be any less illegal. Marriages that two people work on, don't compare each other in and make daily efforts to show love and dedication are the ones that are the happiest and last the longest. The only reason why marriages with virgins last longer is because they have no one to compare you to. Jaded people shouldn't get married to begin with

Answer 15

WesBrewer

@missy52 So are you agreeing with me? and as I said If I wait 1.5 years then it wouldn't be illegal, or at least that is what I was trying to say.

Answer 16

missy52

I'm not agreeing with you. People who are afraid of their spouse having had others are often the ones who bring up their past encounters and use it against the person in arguments. I think that insecurity isn't attractive and that it's insecurity that leads to divorces. Not the fact that they haven't had as many partners. If an ex treated them better than you are, then it's up to you to step up. But if you simply can't do what they did (say, they can afford to buy roses every week and you can only afford it once a month), that's understandable. I'm not saying to do what their ex did but it's a pitiful excuse to blame your lack of participation and your diminished determination to pursue her on the fact that she has had others and she knows what a healthy or unhealthy relationship looks like. Again, it's people who use your past experience against you (be it you're a boy or girl) who ruin relationships. It's not the past partner who isn't in their life anymore who did it.

Answer 17

WesBrewer

@missy52 as I said I literally don't care if she was a whore with 20 boyfriends and screwed all of them at the same time, as long as she doesn't anymore I would be fine marring her, how is me preferring a virgin meaning I will use it against her and make me insecure, when I wouldn't use it against her and I don't care if she uses it against me.

Answer 18

missy52

I never called you insecure. Nor did I say you'd use it against her. I said that that's a common theme when people say they want a virgin.

Answer 19

WesBrewer

@missy52 oh ok, I thought since you were saying that you disagreed with me and then said all that that you were saying I was that, but how do you not agree with me when you said that virgin marriages last longer yourself?

Answer 20

missy52

I don't personally attack people just because I disagree with them. I only do that when they've attacked me first.

Because statistically, it's true. Marriages to virgins do last longer. But the whole notion of women being virgins was bred to keep women confined and docile. Recent statistics proves that virginity is not enough of an indicator for divorce. If you actually think about it analyze the why behind men's preference for virgins historically, it's disgusting. Women who make it to marriage as virgins typically were raised VERY conservatively and were (in my opinion) brain washed to reject their sexuality. Many of them don't know how to pleasure themselves, let alone a man. They don't know many aspects about sex. They tend to be timid and reserved when topics about bodies come up. They submit with little to no question as to why they should. And those are the type of women that men want. The type that'll do whatever they say without an independent bone in their bodies. I think that it's disgusting. Virgins are also taught to put your marriage above everything. Even if you're getting raped every day or if your children aren't getting the support that they need, they are told to stay in the relationship and that divorce isn't an option. They fight for broken relationships. Things like that, statistics don't show. Longer doesn't mean happier.

Answer 21

WesBrewer

@missy52 I agree with everything you said, I would use the phrase "brainwashed" but I would say incorrectly taught.

Answer 22

Robert757

Xper 5

Let's see, since I'm still a virgin too at 27... yes I would date her. Dated other virgin girls in the past, made no difference to me. Still had a blast spending time with them.

Answer 23

TruthBringer | 223 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Most definitely. Although I wouldn't date a 26 year old now. I don't date people who are older than me

Answer 24

Skankhunt | 312 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Yeah, I don't care at all if she is a 20 year old virgin or a 40 year old virgin. It doesn't mean she is worthless or bad at sex. Also, I need to feel something for her (spark, connection, like, love etc).

Answer 25

slatyb | 5.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Yes, unless she were determined to remain a virgin until marriage or until a proposal.

Answer 26

inquisitive173

Xper 3

Yes. I like being the first. The look when a woman is first penetrated and ejaculated in is priceless. You're also the first to give her an orgasm. Then their is the extreme tightness that just drains you dry.

Answer 27

AbsolutePeppar

Xper 2

guys would date lot of girls and have sex, but trust me when it comes to marriage they look for a virgin. it is the truth

Answer 28

Dinosaursandanime65 | 523 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

It would be fun for us to learn something new together would it not? Ashes Ashes they all fall down. HEH HEH. I meant that in a soul corruption way but now... RRAAAhahaha

Answer 29

Jamie05rhs | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Why do you care? You're not 26. You're at least 4 years past 26.

Asker

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I'm 26
Jamie05rhs

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Then why does it say you're "Age 30-35"?
Asker

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Simple mistake when i signed up
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Asker

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Any answer to the question?
Jamie05rhs

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Simple mistake my ass. You lied on purpose. I've reported you already. I hope you get banned from the site.
Jamie05rhs

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And yes, I do date virgins, but I wouldn't date you, because I don't date liars.
Asker

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Well, nothing I can do if you don't believe. Would you date a 26 year old virgin?
Jamie05rhs

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Yes, I would.

Answer 30

Asker

I'm 26

Answer 31

Jamie05rhs

Then why does it say you're "Age 30-35"?

Answer 32

Asker

Simple mistake when i signed up

Answer 33

Asker

Any answer to the question?

Answer 34

Jamie05rhs

Simple mistake my ass. You lied on purpose. I've reported you already. I hope you get banned from the site.

Answer 35

Jamie05rhs

And yes, I do date virgins, but I wouldn't date you, because I don't date liars.

Answer 36

Asker

Well, nothing I can do if you don't believe. Would you date a 26 year old virgin?

Answer 37

Jamie05rhs

Yes, I would.

Answer 38

Rizwan_khan

Xper 5

I would date girl it doesn't matter whether she is virgin or not

Answer 39

Anonymous

Yes, that would be preferred.

Ideally, she would be younger.

Answer 40

LiamSawyer | 149 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I wouldn't have a problem with that at all.

Asker

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Got it. Are you a virgin?
LiamSawyer

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No I am not, but I also haven't been with dozens of women, only four.

Answer 41

Asker

Got it. Are you a virgin?

Answer 42

LiamSawyer

No I am not, but I also haven't been with dozens of women, only four.

Answer 43

Shiver | 461 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Yup, nothing wrong with that.

Answer 44

magiusX26 | 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

assuming i found her attractive etc, sure.

Asker

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Most guys would steer clear though?
magiusX26

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i can't speak for anyibe but myself

Answer 45

Asker

Most guys would steer clear though?

Answer 46

magiusX26

i can't speak for anyibe but myself

Answer 47

Zygum

Xper 4

Yes. Iike a Virgin girls

Answer 48

Throwaway798

Xper 1

I would date virgin but I would want to have sex

Answer 49

COMMODOREII | 4.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Yeah sure why not?

Answer 50

Lunatic1 | 334 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Sure, why not?

Answer 51

Knightoffire

Xper 5

Yes without doubt.

Answer 52

gusn77

Xper 3

Yes, I would

Answer 53

Sabretooth | 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

yes, i would.

Answer 54

strangersmiles

Xper 1

yes please

Answer 55

jon28805 | 519 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Sure, why not.

Answer 56

Anonymous

No problem with that

Asker

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How about if she is 26?
Opinion Owner

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No issue with that either

Answer 57

Asker

How about if she is 26?

Answer 58

Opinion Owner

No issue with that either

Answer 59

Anonymous

I would

Answer 60

Anonymous

Obviously yes.

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