So most guys would be turned off by this?
Not in general. I just think its not ideal for me.
Ok. So more than likely you would not date this type of girl?
No i would.
Ok, also, what do you consider a virgin? Does a girl who has played with herself count as one?
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1. You're a minor
2. Why does it matter if she's a virgin or not
@missy52 It doesn't particularly matter if she is a virgin or not, but I would prefer her to be a virgin, and that is because marriages with no pre-marital sex are always the happiest and last the longest, as to me being a minor I won't be in a year and a half.
That doesn't mean you getting in a relationship with someone who's 26 would be any less illegal. Marriages that two people work on, don't compare each other in and make daily efforts to show love and dedication are the ones that are the happiest and last the longest. The only reason why marriages with virgins last longer is because they have no one to compare you to. Jaded people shouldn't get married to begin with
@missy52 So are you agreeing with me? and as I said If I wait 1.5 years then it wouldn't be illegal, or at least that is what I was trying to say.
I'm not agreeing with you. People who are afraid of their spouse having had others are often the ones who bring up their past encounters and use it against the person in arguments. I think that insecurity isn't attractive and that it's insecurity that leads to divorces. Not the fact that they haven't had as many partners. If an ex treated them better than you are, then it's up to you to step up. But if you simply can't do what they did (say, they can afford to buy roses every week and you can only afford it once a month), that's understandable. I'm not saying to do what their ex did but it's a pitiful excuse to blame your lack of participation and your diminished determination to pursue her on the fact that she has had others and she knows what a healthy or unhealthy relationship looks like. Again, it's people who use your past experience against you (be it you're a boy or girl) who ruin relationships. It's not the past partner who isn't in their life anymore who did it.
@missy52 as I said I literally don't care if she was a whore with 20 boyfriends and screwed all of them at the same time, as long as she doesn't anymore I would be fine marring her, how is me preferring a virgin meaning I will use it against her and make me insecure, when I wouldn't use it against her and I don't care if she uses it against me.
I never called you insecure. Nor did I say you'd use it against her. I said that that's a common theme when people say they want a virgin.
@missy52 oh ok, I thought since you were saying that you disagreed with me and then said all that that you were saying I was that, but how do you not agree with me when you said that virgin marriages last longer yourself?
I don't personally attack people just because I disagree with them. I only do that when they've attacked me first. Because statistically, it's true. Marriages to virgins do last longer. But the whole notion of women being virgins was bred to keep women confined and docile. Recent statistics proves that virginity is not enough of an indicator for divorce. If you actually think about it analyze the why behind men's preference for virgins historically, it's disgusting. Women who make it to marriage as virgins typically were raised VERY conservatively and were (in my opinion) brain washed to reject their sexuality. Many of them don't know how to pleasure themselves, let alone a man. They don't know many aspects about sex. They tend to be timid and reserved when topics about bodies come up. They submit with little to no question as to why they should. And those are the type of women that men want. The type that'll do whatever they say without an independent bone in their bodies. I think that it's disgusting. Virgins are also taught to put your marriage above everything. Even if you're getting raped every day or if your children aren't getting the support that they need, they are told to stay in the relationship and that divorce isn't an option. They fight for broken relationships. Things like that, statistics don't show. Longer doesn't mean happier.
@missy52 I agree with everything you said, I would use the phrase "brainwashed" but I would say incorrectly taught.
Then why does it say you're "Age 30-35"?
Simple mistake when i signed up
Any answer to the question?
Simple mistake my ass. You lied on purpose. I've reported you already. I hope you get banned from the site.
And yes, I do date virgins, but I wouldn't date you, because I don't date liars.
Well, nothing I can do if you don't believe. Would you date a 26 year old virgin?
Yes, I would.
Got it. Are you a virgin?
No I am not, but I also haven't been with dozens of women, only four.
Most guys would steer clear though?
i can't speak for anyibe but myself
How about if she is 26?
No issue with that either