2021: is real love dead?

Question

It seems everyone keeps going on about high quality men, money, status and I'm just wondering what is going on. Does everyone think like this?
Does anyone else still believe in marrying young, till your both old and grey but very in love?
He may be poorer but either way it doesn't matter because he's your only soul mate?
You may struggle in life... but your at least together through it all and your partner is the good?
Your happy with the simple things in life, you work together for small milstones like travelling after both saving up from a regular job?
You treat the world as an exploration adventure and explore like kids?
You have kids and you work together to make each others life easier?
Am I missing something when everyone seems to be so fascinated with money status and power? ... because I dont get the appeal

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Answer 1

TheFlak38 | 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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"and I'm just wondering what is going on." the sexual marketplace is rigged in favor of women. That is what's going on.

"Does anyone else still believe in marrying young" Marriage is the biggest scam of our time. It's just a new way of destroying men's lives and turn them into literal slaves of women and the State. Nobody gives a shit about men. We are always expendable.

"He may be poorer but either way it doesn't matter because he's your only soul mate?" lol

"Your happy with the simple things in life" women want it all. There is no such thing a simple things in life.

"You have kids" women today want kids just so they can claim child support from the father who probably isn't even the real father of the child. Alpha fucks beta bucks is real.

Asker

14 d
Well to be honest you mostly sound hurt i used to agree with that thinking when I was 17 because I was impressionable but you grow up and mature... im just suprised you havnt given your age, there is a lot of good and reasonable people on both sides im sure you have met many, I've been lucky enough to have many examples in my family so I could break out of this new trendy mindset, it doesn't help anyone. My own father is hardworking with a regular job and is still with my mother for 30+ years since 16 and everything media says is further from the truth not every female is shallow and id give the benifit of the doubt for males to, I've had many good genuine friendships with men. I just think being genuine, grateful having integrity are things to strive for because that's what matters the most. Also they say you attract what you are sometimes.
TheFlak38

14 d
your father is no less a slave than any other married man. you talk about growing out of this mindset and how you are a genuine person, yet here you are just one reply in and you already use the same cliche female shaming language every single woman in this universe uses at every given chance NO EXCEPTION. You've already started to show your true colours. Rest in peace to the beta who will fall into your vagina trap and put a ring on your finger.
Asker

14 d
Again, your the angry one here. Im failing to understand why your thinking everyone is bad, I certainly don't think all men are bad thats ridiculous and I dont think you can have any conversation out of anger. The same way I cannot have a conversion with someone who truly thinks all men are trash, those kind of conversions don't go anywhere and most of the time these people had bad experience and are not willing to look reflect in a more realistic way about the world and have a genuine conversion
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TheFlak38

14 d
The shaming language continues. You're still saying you're a unicorn or something? calling me angry because women are living off of the energy of men is like saying I am angry because babies fill their diapers. Maybe you're the angry one here because more and more men realise that they are finally free and don't have to get married and sacrifice their lives just to get a chance to ejaculate into a vagina. You're triggered that smart men stay single and preserve their wealth for their own lives, their own fun, their own retirement. I can understand it. Even my own mother cannot accept the fact that I'm free and so tries to pressure me into a beta marriage.
Asker

14 d
Well to be honest that is a vibe, I think i misunderstood you but for those who like traditional life they also have have something and isn't beta or alpha its just preference I guess, also I only asked if you had a bad experience because of the angle you came from, I've had many discussions about this topic with men who think similarly and I dont disagree about how rigged it is for men but it depends on how the person comes off, its all good doing you but to say my father and all married men are slaves is a bit much and unnecessary if you claim your intellectual or I presume you also think your an alpha aswell.
TheFlak38

14 d
here it is again. The "traditional life" just two days ago I had another tradthot here posting an article "teaching" men how to get laid. A 40 year old traditional woman who is still unmarried and still with no kids. No wonder she has time to lecture men on gag on how to behave. What you call traditional is merely one side of the coin with the other being feminism. Both are turning men into slaves, moreover so in today's modern world.
Asker

14 d
Well, i didn't even mention i agree with feminism or anything. If you want to know, I do not agree with modern day feminism the logic of one upping men doesn't resonate and thats that. I can understand it can seem demeaning but I have no idea what the ladies intention behind this really was. To be honest, in this day an age I'm not suprised and if I was a man I'd probably be very guarded with my approach things are a lot harder and most women seem oddly delusional but in life there is no absolutes were you find people who seem strange as, there are always the reasonable people in the shadows there's got to be or there is no hope for society even if they are the minority. I dont think I'm above anybody were all here to learn something maybe my approach is flawed but it took a while to come to such conclusion so I'll see how it pans out if it goes to badly or I learn new information then ill rethink something else. Also I think the state of society is just a reflection on how little inner self awareness is encouraged in both genders, we all have our problems, both genders but what matters is your willing to do the hard work in your character because no amount of riches or smartness will distance you from who you truly are there are many rich folk with it all who commit suicide and vice versa we are all flawed. No one can win if we all butt heads as hard as it is to think from an overall perspective so all we can do is try our best for us and be accountable to you and showing your best to others, I think that's what happiness is because if your approach was reflected in history or there was evidence to support that this way of life was the best id be in but all I see is money, status and power buys corruption and sadness no use running that way, it didn't do many any good I feel.

Answer 2

Asker

Well to be honest you mostly sound hurt i used to agree with that thinking when I was 17 because I was impressionable but you grow up and mature... im just suprised you havnt given your age, there is a lot of good and reasonable people on both sides im sure you have met many, I've been lucky enough to have many examples in my family so I could break out of this new trendy mindset, it doesn't help anyone. My own father is hardworking with a regular job and is still with my mother for 30+ years since 16 and everything media says is further from the truth not every female is shallow and id give the benifit of the doubt for males to, I've had many good genuine friendships with men. I just think being genuine, grateful having integrity are things to strive for because that's what matters the most. Also they say you attract what you are sometimes.

Answer 3

TheFlak38

your father is no less a slave than any other married man. you talk about growing out of this mindset and how you are a genuine person, yet here you are just one reply in and you already use the same cliche female shaming language every single woman in this universe uses at every given chance NO EXCEPTION. You've already started to show your true colours. Rest in peace to the beta who will fall into your vagina trap and put a ring on your finger.

Answer 4

Asker

Again, your the angry one here. Im failing to understand why your thinking everyone is bad, I certainly don't think all men are bad thats ridiculous and I dont think you can have any conversation out of anger. The same way I cannot have a conversion with someone who truly thinks all men are trash, those kind of conversions don't go anywhere and most of the time these people had bad experience and are not willing to look reflect in a more realistic way about the world and have a genuine conversion

Answer 5

TheFlak38

The shaming language continues. You're still saying you're a unicorn or something? calling me angry because women are living off of the energy of men is like saying I am angry because babies fill their diapers. Maybe you're the angry one here because more and more men realise that they are finally free and don't have to get married and sacrifice their lives just to get a chance to ejaculate into a vagina. You're triggered that smart men stay single and preserve their wealth for their own lives, their own fun, their own retirement. I can understand it. Even my own mother cannot accept the fact that I'm free and so tries to pressure me into a beta marriage.

Answer 6

Asker

Well to be honest that is a vibe, I think i misunderstood you but for those who like traditional life they also have have something and isn't beta or alpha its just preference I guess, also I only asked if you had a bad experience because of the angle you came from, I've had many discussions about this topic with men who think similarly and I dont disagree about how rigged it is for men but it depends on how the person comes off, its all good doing you but to say my father and all married men are slaves is a bit much and unnecessary if you claim your intellectual or I presume you also think your an alpha aswell.

Answer 7

TheFlak38

here it is again. The "traditional life" just two days ago I had another tradthot here posting an article "teaching" men how to get laid. A 40 year old traditional woman who is still unmarried and still with no kids. No wonder she has time to lecture men on gag on how to behave. What you call traditional is merely one side of the coin with the other being feminism. Both are turning men into slaves, moreover so in today's modern world.

Answer 8

Asker

Well, i didn't even mention i agree with feminism or anything. If you want to know, I do not agree with modern day feminism the logic of one upping men doesn't resonate and thats that. I can understand it can seem demeaning but I have no idea what the ladies intention behind this really was. To be honest, in this day an age I'm not suprised and if I was a man I'd probably be very guarded with my approach things are a lot harder and most women seem oddly delusional but in life there is no absolutes were you find people who seem strange as, there are always the reasonable people in the shadows there's got to be or there is no hope for society even if they are the minority. I dont think I'm above anybody were all here to learn something maybe my approach is flawed but it took a while to come to such conclusion so I'll see how it pans out if it goes to badly or I learn new information then ill rethink something else. Also I think the state of society is just a reflection on how little inner self awareness is encouraged in both genders, we all have our problems, both genders but what matters is your willing to do the hard work in your character because no amount of riches or smartness will distance you from who you truly are there are many rich folk with it all who commit suicide and vice versa we are all flawed. No one can win if we all butt heads as hard as it is to think from an overall perspective so all we can do is try our best for us and be accountable to you and showing your best to others, I think that's what happiness is because if your approach was reflected in history or there was evidence to support that this way of life was the best id be in but all I see is money, status and power buys corruption and sadness no use running that way, it didn't do many any good I feel.

Answer 9

pinudown

Xper 5

Well REAL love need high morals, empathy, selflessness and intelligence but people often lack them. You can't find the perfect one but you might be able to find something closer to it.

Answer 10

Eliiiiii

Xper 4

Real love needs no PDA, you are just Happy with what you have.

Answer 11

WesBrewer | 892 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

most everyone just wants sex nowadays, no "love" or lasting relationships

Answer 12

HikoSeijuro111

Xper 1

The modern women thinks she is better than 90% of her male suitors. Unwilling to settle for a guy making 40,000$ a year because she is above the men who provided her the society and lifestyle she now can afford.

Answer 13

Anonymous

Prove that real love ever existed first. You say "still" as if it ever did. There was a reason for divorce being highly restricted.

Answer 14

chriscdi | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

society is only getting worse smh

Answer 15

Iron_Man | 10.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

It’s possible like 10% of 90 percent

Asker

15 d
Oh no, I think ill die alone then

Answer 16

Asker

Oh no, I think ill die alone then

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