If short women don't care about height, then why are they with tall guys a whole foot taller?

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For instance, I regularly come across couples in which the tall guy is almost 2 feet taller than his girlfriend/wife. No i'm not bullshitting or joking either and i'm only 5'4. Most of these tall guys are at least 6'3+ and not common whatsoever nor are some of these women. So how is it that one minority ends up with the other minority? I've regularly see comments from short women saying they don't care about height but it "just so happens" that all their partners have been and currently are over 6 feet

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WesBrewer | 735 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

I mean because I a 6' 3" guy wants girls a foot shorter than me, so I ask them out. not saying I wouldn't ask out a girl who is barely shorter than me but men want short girls so they date short girls, it isn't necessarily the girl's fault.

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iseekpinetrees | 384 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I've been with both but ill admit I do like being the mini. Need a man around to help me open jars n reach shit.

Answer 3

slatyb | 5.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Because the guy asked them and they accepted. Short guys don’t get priority on short women. I know short guys who have no problem getting dates.

thatguy9388

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What do you mean short guys get no priority on short women?
slatyb

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I mean that women are free to date whoever they please. They aren’t “meant” for any particular group of men.
thatguy9388

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Says who? Men aren't allowed to do the same? So women are allowed to go for tall men, but men don't have the freedom of doing the same with any other trait? Sounds like bullshit to me
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slatyb

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Of course men are allowed to follow their dating preferences. Who ever said that they could not? But preferring women with certain traits doesn't mean that any of them will choose to date you.

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thatguy9388

What do you mean short guys get no priority on short women?

Answer 5

slatyb

I mean that women are free to date whoever they please. They aren’t “meant” for any particular group of men.

Answer 6

thatguy9388

Says who? Men aren't allowed to do the same? So women are allowed to go for tall men, but men don't have the freedom of doing the same with any other trait? Sounds like bullshit to me

Answer 7

slatyb

Of course men are allowed to follow their dating preferences. Who ever said that they could not? But preferring women with certain traits doesn't mean that any of them will choose to date you.

Answer 8

Anonymous

I never noticed this. I never saw anyone choosing based on height.

thatguy9388

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You've never seen a woman saying she chooses tall guys based on height? You must be living under a rock
Opinion Owner

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Nope never in my entire life. I only notice this site have so many rules to whom people date
thatguy9388

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There are hundreds of women that like tall men because they are tall I dont really know how you don't know this already
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thatguy9388

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This is nothing new either, for decades and centuries one of the reasons women like tall men is literally because they are tall
Opinion Owner

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Welp never had any conversations about it. Never heard much about height, never judged a guy based on it. Never heard family, friends, Co workers, neighbors, people in store lines, or anyone else bring it up in all of my living. I have heard:
How big is his dick
What's his shoe size
Does he have a job
Can he cook
Do he eat pussy
Do he have kids
Never heard anything about height. You can't force it on me either
thatguy9388

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Just cause you don't hear it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. You can see several studies of it. Tall men are seen as the most attractive (if they actually are). Even if they aren't attractive facially, women just seem to like them because its a better feeling I suppose. Part of it is evolutionary, women seek out the biggest men. Although i'm not really quite sure how such small women (usually much below average height) would go for tall guys since a lot of guys are still bigger and it does seem a bit strange as other guys that aren't tall would still satisfy the feeling of being bigger than them, but yeah I haven't really come across a single short woman that isn't with a guy thats tall.
thatguy9388

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At least from what I observe
Opinion Owner

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It's not as big as you're blowing it up to be. You are hyping it up
thatguy9388

9 d
I'm not really sure. I've heard of more women say they like tall men than short men though thats for sure
thatguy9388

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*more than
Opinion Owner

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You are watering the seeds for it to grow. As long as you give it power over you and your thoughts, you will never be at peace. You will never be happy and satisfied. You will never be able to fall in love properly, because height is hanging over your head. That's your life to live in fear of what women want, not mine. I live my life completely different. I don't care about what studies show! And studies won't dictate my happiness. If someone don't like who i am, tall or short, they are not my person. The person meant for me will beat all odds. I won't have to force it or manipulate love it will be effortless.
Opinion Owner

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And lastly. people are getting in relationships for the wrong reasons. That's why you run into so much havoc. Everybody else in a relationship, i want one too, or i don't want people to know my sexual preference so let me get a relationship. Or, i don't want to die lonely. Nah f dat! I know what a relationship feels like. I want a relationship i never had. Like people need to try falling in love. I rather see what it feels like to be in love with someone who feels the same, then end up in a relationship. I rather for things to happen naturally. Cause then you know it's real. You know they're not judging how short you are, but the fact that they feel the whole fucking zoo when they're with you. Get that relationship bro
thatguy9388

9 d
Yeah I agree with you, well said. Its true we are our own worst enemy. Most people don't know what they want. I just want someone thats caring and appreciates me the way I am, but that takes time for everyone. there's always something that might not be right for someone, but it could be for someone else. Physical attraction does matter, but your right in the fact that physical appearance isn't what matters the most. As cliche as it sounds, yes its on the inside that is what counts.
Opinion Owner

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It's always about communication. That's key to success! You can't go wrong with that. Even if there is disagreement. Like, i wouldn't want to live with a man and we're both hiding the fact we like watching porn. We both sneaking and shxt. But with proper communication, we would learn that we both like it and never have to hide again. I say, don't look for a relationship or love, let nature take it's place. That's how you will fall in love for real. And that person will think you are perfect. And you will think they're your everything. This is when magic happens. Good luck

Answer 9

thatguy9388

You've never seen a woman saying she chooses tall guys based on height? You must be living under a rock

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

Nope never in my entire life. I only notice this site have so many rules to whom people date

Answer 11

thatguy9388

There are hundreds of women that like tall men because they are tall I dont really know how you don't know this already

Answer 12

thatguy9388

This is nothing new either, for decades and centuries one of the reasons women like tall men is literally because they are tall

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

Welp never had any conversations about it. Never heard much about height, never judged a guy based on it. Never heard family, friends, Co workers, neighbors, people in store lines, or anyone else bring it up in all of my living. I have heard:
How big is his dick
What's his shoe size
Does he have a job
Can he cook
Do he eat pussy
Do he have kids
Never heard anything about height. You can't force it on me either

Answer 14

thatguy9388

Just cause you don't hear it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. You can see several studies of it. Tall men are seen as the most attractive (if they actually are). Even if they aren't attractive facially, women just seem to like them because its a better feeling I suppose. Part of it is evolutionary, women seek out the biggest men. Although i'm not really quite sure how such small women (usually much below average height) would go for tall guys since a lot of guys are still bigger and it does seem a bit strange as other guys that aren't tall would still satisfy the feeling of being bigger than them, but yeah I haven't really come across a single short woman that isn't with a guy thats tall.

Answer 15

thatguy9388

At least from what I observe

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

It's not as big as you're blowing it up to be. You are hyping it up

Answer 17

thatguy9388

I'm not really sure. I've heard of more women say they like tall men than short men though thats for sure

Answer 18

thatguy9388

*more than

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

You are watering the seeds for it to grow. As long as you give it power over you and your thoughts, you will never be at peace. You will never be happy and satisfied. You will never be able to fall in love properly, because height is hanging over your head. That's your life to live in fear of what women want, not mine. I live my life completely different. I don't care about what studies show! And studies won't dictate my happiness. If someone don't like who i am, tall or short, they are not my person. The person meant for me will beat all odds. I won't have to force it or manipulate love it will be effortless.

Answer 20

Opinion Owner

And lastly. people are getting in relationships for the wrong reasons. That's why you run into so much havoc. Everybody else in a relationship, i want one too, or i don't want people to know my sexual preference so let me get a relationship. Or, i don't want to die lonely. Nah f dat! I know what a relationship feels like. I want a relationship i never had. Like people need to try falling in love. I rather see what it feels like to be in love with someone who feels the same, then end up in a relationship. I rather for things to happen naturally. Cause then you know it's real. You know they're not judging how short you are, but the fact that they feel the whole fucking zoo when they're with you. Get that relationship bro

Answer 21

thatguy9388

Yeah I agree with you, well said. Its true we are our own worst enemy. Most people don't know what they want. I just want someone thats caring and appreciates me the way I am, but that takes time for everyone. there's always something that might not be right for someone, but it could be for someone else. Physical attraction does matter, but your right in the fact that physical appearance isn't what matters the most. As cliche as it sounds, yes its on the inside that is what counts.

Answer 22

Opinion Owner

It's always about communication. That's key to success! You can't go wrong with that. Even if there is disagreement. Like, i wouldn't want to live with a man and we're both hiding the fact we like watching porn. We both sneaking and shxt. But with proper communication, we would learn that we both like it and never have to hide again. I say, don't look for a relationship or love, let nature take it's place. That's how you will fall in love for real. And that person will think you are perfect. And you will think they're your everything. This is when magic happens. Good luck

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