If a guy is looking for 'friends' or 'something casual' on a dating app, will he ditch virgins he meets online?

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Answer 1

WesBrewer | 892 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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If he is looking for friends and not friends with benefits, then no he won't, if he wants an friends with benefits then he might.

Answer 2

Wise4myage | 1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Yes, I think a lot of guys would do that. But certainly not every guy.

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Got it. just curious, are you a virgin?
Wise4myage

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No, I lost my virginity two years ago. I just think some guys feel weird about this.
Wise4myage

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Is this happening to you?
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Asker

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Yes, he didn't literslly ghost me or block me, he just stopped texting
Wise4myage

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Well, when you think about it, he probably did you a favor. Is it your goal to lose your virginity to a guy you met online?
Asker

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If he wants to eventually get into a relationship, maybe
Wise4myage

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Ok, well just be careful. Are you mentioning that your a virgin? If so, consider not doing that till you get to know a guy.
Asker

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It kind of was unintentional. He said that I looked innocent and that I probably never had sex. I said I felt like he read my life. He then asked if it was true. I said yes. He slowly stopped texting
Asker

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Would it be best not to tell a guy early on because they'd get turned off?
Wise4myage

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Yes, and as you can see, it looks like that's what scared him off. I see no reason to mention it till you know your going to sleep with a guy.
Asker

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I realized that alittle too late. It came naturally because he kept saying I lool innocent. Thanks for the input.
Wise4myage

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Your very welcome. Like I said, just don't in a rush from now on to mention your a virgin.
Asker

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Thanks. Do you think there's a possibility he may ever message again? He hasn't unmatched
Wise4myage

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Sure, but consider sending him one last message too, but nothing beyond that. Your welcome.
Wise4myage

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You should also start looking for other guys too.
Asker

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Thanks. You are an incredibly kind human being
Wise4myage

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Why thank you, that made me smile. I wish you the best.
Asker

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Same to you dude

Answer 3

Asker

Got it. just curious, are you a virgin?

Answer 4

Wise4myage

No, I lost my virginity two years ago. I just think some guys feel weird about this.

Answer 5

Wise4myage

Is this happening to you?

Answer 6

Asker

Yes, he didn't literslly ghost me or block me, he just stopped texting

Answer 7

Wise4myage

Well, when you think about it, he probably did you a favor. Is it your goal to lose your virginity to a guy you met online?

Answer 8

Asker

If he wants to eventually get into a relationship, maybe

Answer 9

Wise4myage

Ok, well just be careful. Are you mentioning that your a virgin? If so, consider not doing that till you get to know a guy.

Answer 10

Asker

It kind of was unintentional. He said that I looked innocent and that I probably never had sex. I said I felt like he read my life. He then asked if it was true. I said yes. He slowly stopped texting

Answer 11

Asker

Would it be best not to tell a guy early on because they'd get turned off?

Answer 12

Wise4myage

Yes, and as you can see, it looks like that's what scared him off. I see no reason to mention it till you know your going to sleep with a guy.

Answer 13

Asker

I realized that alittle too late. It came naturally because he kept saying I lool innocent. Thanks for the input.

Answer 14

Wise4myage

Your very welcome. Like I said, just don't in a rush from now on to mention your a virgin.

Answer 15

Asker

Thanks. Do you think there's a possibility he may ever message again? He hasn't unmatched

Answer 16

Wise4myage

Sure, but consider sending him one last message too, but nothing beyond that. Your welcome.

Answer 17

Wise4myage

You should also start looking for other guys too.

Answer 18

Asker

Thanks. You are an incredibly kind human being

Answer 19

Wise4myage

Why thank you, that made me smile. I wish you the best.

Answer 20

Asker

Same to you dude

Answer 21

boggboss | 6.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Some will some won't

Asker

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but most will?
boggboss

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Not sure on them stats some guys like that feeling of power of being a girls first or being the one in control some dont enjoy there partner not knowing what they are doing
Asker

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I see
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boggboss

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👍🏽

Answer 22

Asker

but most will?

Answer 23

boggboss

Not sure on them stats some guys like that feeling of power of being a girls first or being the one in control some dont enjoy there partner not knowing what they are doing

Answer 24

Asker

I see

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boggboss

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