Guys, do you like it when a woman makes the first initiative for sex on a date?

Question

4th time seeing a guy I really like. All 3 previous dates he has made the first move to get intimate (asking to kiss me, walking over to me, etc).. I was thinking tonight I’d walk over to him while he’s sitting and just straddle/sit on his lap and go from there. I am shy and cold at times so I think he’s confused by my interest so I thought maybe this could be a good move? Or maybe something more if anyone has ideas.

Answer 1

PrudentGuy | 335 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Its already 4th date and there are already physical contacts. So yes. And stop counting already. Start to get intimate instead.

As a guy, I surely like my partner to initiate.

1) it confirms that she also enjoys having sex with me.

2) it removes the burden of rejection (yes, guys got rejected a lot and rejection doesn't feel good).

Just be cautious not to appear cheap in the way you initiates. And be prepared after sex, he leaves. (It happens. Hence take this with a pinch of salt.)

Answer 2

william_wizard

Xper 4

Honestly, that would drive me crazy, in a good way. Haha

Confidence is sexy as hell. And if you're confident enough to just get up and take what you want, it's even better. If he doesn't like that, he's insane. Lol