Guide them? Is that what you did with your partners?In my experience, women are excessively passive in bed. They want everything done to them, the man to by-default know what he's doing, then to just enjoy one way or another--if she enjoys it, awesome. If she doesn't enjoy it, hey, fine, she can sit back and play judge. Not that you're doing that, but it's common. But, also what you're saying. One incident, I got with this new chick, and I couldn't get up all the way. She was totally fine with it, like "Meh, we had a good time; it's not all about the sex". Then I have to wonder... okay, what is it about? In specifically a one-night stand.Did you ever tell them it could be better? If not, there was prolly a reason, yeah? Because you wouldn't wanna rock the boat, maybe doubly so knowing that men take their sexual prowess very seriously. So, same thing, here. I'm a very generous lover; and, I follow all the strictures--touching, kissing, lots of foreplay [even when I wanna just stick it in and 1-2 pump], but my girlfriend...*shudder* *pains me*. And I *can't* say anything, because she outright says, "I don't want to hear anything about how I am in bed." Then cries if I mention, "Hey, could you, you know, not rip my penis apart?" [in nicer words]Anyways. Did you try to communicate with them? If not, why?
@ChurchOfSteel you should be able to communicate this with your partner tho, if you're not satisfied...Some guys/girls prefer to give moreAnd some are more passive by nature or by lack of experience. So it's always to communicate your wants and be honest about yourself. At least that's what I try to do 😅
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What if he had whiskey dick from too much fireball so he couldn’t get hard, but he still ate your ass and pussy the whole night and made you squirt 4 times? (this literally happened to me 2 weeks ago)
I don't date guys with drink problems
I don’t have one which is why I got wasted on such a small amount
@warrenstone Yeha and then find out you got pumped and dumped. It's "advice" like this that puts (young) women on the wrong path and cause them self-esteem issues simply because they had been mislead from the truth. No guy with hgh level of self-esteem will invest in a girl who was easy to get into bed.