Are Caucasian men generally more into Caucasian women, especially for settling down?

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I'm an Asian woman who is into white males. a lot of them have called me 'really cute', 'fit', or 'super cute' on dating apps. Although they don't typically approach me with the traditional 'ask you on a date and get to know you' message. They usually imply they want a friends with benefits arrangement. The ones who do show interest in dating me are usually colored men (Latinos, Asians, African American). Is it unlikely that an Asian woman will find an attractive Caucasian to settle down with?

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CometoMee

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Hello, I have been with a white guy for two years and I am Asian. my situation was exactly like yours. All my friends say the same thing in terms of who approaches them more. I actually used to have blonde hair and that is how I got my boyfriend interested in me at first 😂😂 I am back to brunette because I think it looks better and so does he. I would say to be willing to approach someone. That is what I did. I just said "hello, how are you?" At Barnes and noble and we had instant chemistry. I really love him so much and I'm so glad that I built up enough courage to talk to one of them. All I said was those four words and it was so hard for me to say. Believe me. I am an extremely shy person. Good luck and you can message me for more advice if you want:) white guys tend to not be so flirty or aggressive as other guys. I'm not sure why that is. Sometimes you have to talk to them first.

Asker

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Thanks for the encouragement. I'll try that out
CometoMee

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You're welcome. Good luck to you

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Asker

Thanks for the encouragement. I'll try that out

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CometoMee

You're welcome. Good luck to you

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JPrez | 183 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I think there are plenty of guys out there that would love to date Asian women but you do have to really dig to find them. Most guys these days are open to dating all types of women with different ethnicity. I think what you may have to do is try getting set-up with one through a friend if you can't find them on the dating app. Change your game up and maybe be a bit more aggressive in your approach.

JPrez

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@maria2716
JPrez

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Also, something I forgot to add. Most of the more outgoing white guys may be gone but if you can find some of the shy quiet white guys, they are routinely overlooked by white girls and are usually available and would love to date you.

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JPrez

@maria2716

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JPrez

Also, something I forgot to add. Most of the more outgoing white guys may be gone but if you can find some of the shy quiet white guys, they are routinely overlooked by white girls and are usually available and would love to date you.

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havingfun101 | 222 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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The less well endowed men I've met like Asian women, because Asians have smaller equipment. However, BBC is a myth started by 70 IQ Africans in self estimate studies, which means they just asked without measuring.

Asker

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Wth did I just read?
havingfun101

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An anecdote and a criticism.
Asker

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What do you mean by less endowed and smaller equipment?
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havingfun101

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Genitals... small wang/teacup vagina

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Asker

Wth did I just read?

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havingfun101

An anecdote and a criticism.

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Asker

What do you mean by less endowed and smaller equipment?

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havingfun101

Genitals... small wang/teacup vagina

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RSav4013 | 89 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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I think you're looking in the wrong place. Most people on dating apps are typically looking for one night stands or short term physical relationships, rather than long term ones. I think that's why you get the responses that you do. I'm white and I find Asian women to be beautiful.

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DWornock | 632 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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It is more your age than your race. Most white men are attracted to Asians especially young Asians but they may feel they don't have much chance so they may not try. However, while the apparent supply vs. demand of available 18 to 22 year old young women is very limited, there is oversupply of available women over 30.

Asker

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How about a 26 year old? Is that still a bit too old?
Avicenna

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Not at all
DWornock

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Age 26 may be a little less in demand than age 22. However, there is plenty of demand for a 26 year old; even more so if she is Asian since Asians hold their youthful appearance longer.

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Asker

How about a 26 year old? Is that still a bit too old?

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Avicenna

Not at all

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DWornock

Age 26 may be a little less in demand than age 22. However, there is plenty of demand for a 26 year old; even more so if she is Asian since Asians hold their youthful appearance longer.

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1031ent

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No we are out here. You are going to predominantly find two kinds. The ones who almost exclusively date Asian women or the kind who like them, but have never dated them. The later you are going to have to flirt hard with, the prior will approach you.

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JCT666 | 1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Most likely depends on where they live. If a Caucasian is living amongst other Caucasians, high chance he/she will settle with Caucasian. Of course, that doesn't mean it's impossible. Whereas if they are living in a more diverse place, that would be another story.

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Thanks for that input

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Asker

Thanks for that input

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Avicenna | 8.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

White guys love Asian women. You won't have a problem. Just find someone who is marriage minded by making it clear that's what you're looking for.

Jewish guys in particular like to marry Asian women.

Avicenna

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To meet a marriage-minded guy, stay away from apps

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Avicenna

To meet a marriage-minded guy, stay away from apps

Answer 22

Anonymous

Most people do end up settling down with someone of the same race, though interracial couples are more common today than they used to be.

Asker

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I see, but then there are those who are not attracted to those of the same race
Opinion Owner

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Yes, there are those, but they're statistically uncommon.

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Asker

I see, but then there are those who are not attracted to those of the same race

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Opinion Owner

Yes, there are those, but they're statistically uncommon.

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SpaceGalaxy | 86 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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In California, specially northern California, most Caucasian men have Asian girl friends , wives since most Asian women here (specially the Chinese) crave the white meat (man)

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BuiltLikeATank

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Are you kidding me?

There are lots of white men who love Asian women, and I'm one of them. I really prefer Asian girls to white girls when it comes to getting into a relationship, as Asian girls are cuter and more reliable than white girls.

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LiamSawyer | 148 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I know two white guys that are married to Asian women, in their cases they both married Chinese women. So there are Caucasian guys out there that are looking for Asian women.

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na2398

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I'm an Asian guy and I just date white women. It's not an issue. Settle down with anyone you're comfortable with.

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Montano_lady

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I think Asian women are popular with Caucasian men but probably less successful Caucasian men who have less luck with their own women.

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I can see that being true. In that case, generally they prefer white girls?
Montano_lady

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I think they only prefer white girls if they are hot or successful. Either they actually prefer white girls or society pushes them to prefer white girls since that is the subconscious cultural image of success. But beyond the cultural pressures I think Caucasian men are all different and prefer many kinds of women. Asian women are usually well liked in general so I don’t think you should be worried. I’m an Asian guy myself and I like Mixed white-Latin women haha.
Montano_lady

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What do you think of this Asian male White female combo? ↗

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Asker

I can see that being true. In that case, generally they prefer white girls?

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Montano_lady

I think they only prefer white girls if they are hot or successful. Either they actually prefer white girls or society pushes them to prefer white girls since that is the subconscious cultural image of success. But beyond the cultural pressures I think Caucasian men are all different and prefer many kinds of women. Asian women are usually well liked in general so I don’t think you should be worried. I’m an Asian guy myself and I like Mixed white-Latin women haha.

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Montano_lady

What do you think of this Asian male White female combo? ↗

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Anonymous

Which part of Asia? Eastern, southern (India) Western

Asker

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Eastern

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Asker

Eastern

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Anonymous

White male and Asian Female is the most common interracial marriage in the US. My nephew Marian an Asian girl a couple of years ago. It was a great wedding with both cultures represented.

Opinion Owner

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Married*

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Opinion Owner

Married*

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Pete671 | 301 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

I'm caucasian and prefer caucasion women for dating, but prefer Asian women for settling down, I really believe in mating/marriage for life,

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Anonymous

Asian female and white male is one of the most common interracial marriages in US.

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Luckycharms12 | 181 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Not in my case is date any race just as long as we get on great

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magiusX26 | 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

just bad experiences there

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COMMODOREII | 4.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Hell no!!

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jimmy2 | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Hummm wish i was younger

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strangersmiles

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whites always better

Asker

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Ok, why?

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Asker

Ok, why?

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